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The first is that she is reluctant to go home, and secondly, the wife feels that she has done something wrong no matter what she does, laughs and laughs with other people outside, and when she comes home, she has a cold face and is unwilling to give the money she earns to her wife.
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will often quarrel with each other, will often be vexatious with each other, will often hit each other, will verbally insult each other, and will deny all decisions of the other party.
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Men don't give their wives enough security, men don't care about their wives, it's a contemptuous attitude for men to do whatever their wives do, men don't keep their distance from other members of the opposite sex, men take pleasure in hitting you.
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Every day, I see you and drink the water of the Yangtze River. You and your husband must have a lot of topics to discuss, and some topics are good, such as your husband asking you, "You are beautiful today, let's go out shopping together!" "There are also some topics that are not very good, such as your husband saying to you; "I'll be ashamed of you when you dress like this and go out with me!
From these words, you can deeply understand your husband's disdain for you, so what will he do in the process of disliking you? After reading the following words, you will know from the side.
Never goes shopping with you.
Everyone says that women are the most money-burning, if a woman wants to buy a lot of things, to buy beautiful skin care products, but also to buy beautiful clothes, some of this kind of things are bought by women themselves, and some are bought by boyfriends. Did your boyfriend buy your clothes yourself? If your boyfriend buys it, it means that your boyfriend is very good to you, and if your boyfriend never goes shopping with you, and buys all the clothes, pants and skin care products by himself, then he may have already disliked you and is unwilling to stay at home with you.
Never eat what you cook.
A woman must be able to cook, to grasp a man's heart, you must first grab and subdue his stomach, if you can't even grasp their stomach, then he will indeed spread with you, because as a wife must be able to cook, you can't let your husband go out to eat every day. If the food cooked by his wife is delicious, then the man's state of mind is happy every day. If you don't know why you cook, but you make a table of dishes for your husband, then he may dislike you and won't eat your cooking.
I don't give you money to use.
As we all know, many of the marriage partners are all housewives, and they must have their husband's pocket money to survive, but suddenly one day the husband will not give you pocket money from now on, so that you have nothing to worry about, then this man will undoubtedly not love you anymore, and he will not even intend to take responsibility for you. If a woman wants to rely on her own hands to fight for something, she doesn't have to rely on others to help her daily life, which will be looked down upon for a lifetime.
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I think it may be because you take the family too seriously and never dress up yourself, making yourself very ugly, and you never care about taking care of your husband and always focus on housework.
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I don't want to have physical contact with you, I don't want to talk to you, I am hot and cold to you, I am also very dissatisfied with your family, and I am often critical of some of your behavior.
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They won't talk to you, they won't communicate with you, they won't help you when they have problems, they won't hug you, they won't kiss you.
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There will always be such a man in daily life, and his wife has nothing wrong with him, or even very good, but he likes to hit his wife everywhere no matter what the occasion. This kind of man is generally divided into two kinds: one is that his own level is limited, but his wife is excellent, so he runs a self-defense mechanism to attack his wife, and he is afraid of losing; The other is what we say, if you really don't love, you find that the other person is not worthy of you, and you are dissatisfied in a state of reluctance to feel that you have "lost money".
Yishu wrote in the book "The Death of Love", "When a man no longer loves your woman, it is wrong for her to cry and make trouble, it is also wrong to be silent, it is wrong to live and breathe, and it is wrong to die." Su Min, who escaped from married life at the age of 57 and traveled alone, has been married for more than 30 years, and she feels not only indifferent to her, but also all kinds of ridicule and fault-finding that hurt her heart.
Su Min said she went to a class reunion and her husband said she was "a little problematic"; She kissed her little grandson, and her husband ridiculed her: "Saliva is harmful." "A happy marriage is glorious, and an unhappy marriage is physically and mentally exhausting.
The man who loves you is caring for you in every move, and the man who doesn't love you will be damaging to you in his words and deeds.
In the film "No Questions Asked West and East", the married life of Xu Bochang and Liu Shufen is depressing. Separate beds, cups, and utensils; Disdainful, silent, zero communication, I haven't met her ...... for more than ten yearsHow did two people come to such a marriage relationship from two small guesses? The teenager Xu Bochang had good grades, but his family was unable to afford him to continue studying.
Liu Shufen shouldered the burden of supporting her boyfriend to study, and took care of his life like a mother and a sister.
Xu Bochang swore that he would let Liu Shufen live an excellent life after that. But three years later, everything has changed. Xu Bochang felt that Liu Shufen, who could only make a fire to cook and was inseparable from oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in three sentences, was not worthy of himself.
When he graduated, he broke up with Liu Shufen. The marriage between the two was obtained by Liu Shufen who forced Xu Bochang with a kitchen knife. After getting married, Xu Bochang has always used family cold violence to relativity, and the more painful his wife is, the happier he is.
Even so, Liu Shufen still took good care of Xu Bochang in the days when she was short of clothes and less clothes, even if the other party was not happy. Watching Xu Bochang swallow the meals he made every day, and go out with his own clean and crisp clothes, is Liu Shufen's spiritual pillar. Sometimes Liu Shufen would become irritable and beat Xu Bochang.
And no matter what kind of situation Liu Shufen faces, Xu Bo often gives back to his wife with gratitude for indifference and neglect day after day, and he doesn't care about Liu Shufen's experience, and he can't arouse his slightest mentality. He's really if you don't love anymore.
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I don't want to talk to my wife, I get very bored when I see my wife, I don't want to communicate with my wife, and I often have a cold war with my wife.
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I don't want to hug my wife, I don't eat the food my wife cooks, and if a man dislikes his wife, he will have these reactions.
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I don't want to look at each other, I especially refuse to be with each other, I don't want to hug each other, there will be these reactions, there is no way to hide it.
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In marriage, the man does not help his wife share the family responsibilities, is machismo, does not want to let other people call the shots, and treats things very extremely, which is forcing his wife to resent himself.
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Reluctance to communicate. Reluctance to tell the itinerary. Reluctance to take money from home. Unwilling to take care of children. Reluctance to take responsibility.
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I don't help with housework, I don't help with the children, I think this and that, I don't like it at all, I scold people, often domestic violence, and I don't understand people.
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If a man is particularly disgusted with his wife, he will not have any contact with his wife, and he will be very indifferent to the old woman, and he will be very bored when he sees him.
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He La, who is very picky about his wife, never takes the initiative to care about his wife, and when he sees his wife, he is particularly disgusted with abandoning each other, and will not take the initiative to give his wife a gift.
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He won't let you touch his things, he won't let you look at his phone, he won't even dislike you when he talks.
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In marriage, a wife often nags, often cares about her own fun regardless of the family, often helps her mother's family excessively beyond her ability, and often jokes and fools with other men excessively, which will make her man dislike the most.
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If women don't pay attention to hygiene and live a sloppy life, men will be more disgusted, and usually wives should be gentle, because if women are too strong, men won't like it very much.
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First, when encountering problems, instead of trying to find a way to solve the problem, he threatens the man with divorce, second, he deliberately does not keep a distance from the opposite sex in order to test his husband, and third, he often speaks ill of his mother-in-law with his husband behind his back, and it is from these three things that men begin to dislike their wives.
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Usually it starts with the wife not working, and after having a family and children, many men use work to avoid childcare responsibilities, and fatherless parenting makes mothers have a hard time, and many times they are forced to give up their jobs. On the contrary, at this time, the man will ignore his wife's contribution in child-rearing because his wife has no income, and begin to dislike his wife.
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1. Women often don't dress up and make themselves look like yellow-faced women, so that men will especially dislike you, they just don't like to look at you, 2. You say that the food you cook is not delicious, the food you cook has no taste, and it is not as good as what others do, and you often dislike you by saying such things.
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The first is to dislike the food, especially the food made by the other party, I don't like to eat it at all, or I don't want to eat it, and then the housework done by my wife is not particularly recognized, and I will complain that I don't do housework well every time.
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I like to complain, I just want men to guess my mind and give up the pursuit of my appearance, don't give up on myself first, and then blame men for disliking you!
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It should be that I am bored with my wife's daily nagging, and I feel that after hard work, I want to take a break when I come home and find it more depressing at home. The appearance of the person you used to like can't be felt in your wife now, and there is no more wind and snow in your wife's mouth, only money, rice, oil and salt remain.
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