The surname determines fate, does the surname refer to the surname or the first name?

Generally, fortune tellers can only calculate part of the right, because there are too many factors that determine fate, and it is often easy to calculate that it has passed, because it has been stereotyped, the future is actually difficult to calculate, fate is predestined, but luck can be changed, luck has been good or bad will change fate, luck depends on your mentality, good luck is good, bad luck is bad, good luck has been good, luck has been good, many bad things that should happen will not happen or hurt a small point, so that your fate has changed, It's the same with bad things, the key is to persevere, and fate will change. "The Four Disciplines of Liaofan" introduces the classics of what fate is and how to change, search on the Internet.

Fate is divided into fate and fortune, fate cannot be chosen, luck can be changed and created, so this fate can be transformed through acquired efforts, because mastering luck can change fate. Luck can be created, luck has been good or bad will change fate, luck depends on whether people are good, good luck will become good, bad luck will become bad, always good, luck will always be good, many bad things that should happen will not happen or hurt a little bit, so that people's fate will change, the same is not good, the key is to persevere, fate will change. Of course, every thing will change, because there are good and evil, ordinary people often do things with mixed good and evil, canceling each other, if you want to change your fate, you have to make efforts, do more good, fate will develop in one direction, will change more.

Of course, goodness must be really goodness in the heart, not Ah Q. In real life, many people will think that weak people are good people, in fact, this is not necessarily, some people have been bullied, they dare not resist on their lips, and they may have cut each other with a thousand knives in their hearts, this is not called goodness, the real goodness is the goodness of the heart, the so-called great amount of blessing is this meaning, and it is happy to suffer losses. Of course, some people want to question, aren't so many bad people in society still living well?

That's because everyone's fate is different, some have more blessings and some have less, and those with more blessings have a large base, and the inertia of fate is greater, which can withstand consumption, but it is always decreasing. I remember that two people in our village killed a snake together, one of them died of illness within a few days, and the other lived for many years, so the blessings of each person are different, some can withstand it, some can't withstand it, and of course those who can withstand it will also have to lose their life. .

The surname indicates the word of the family. There is a difference between a surname and a surname, with the surname originating from the female line and the clan originating from the male line. Later, when I said the surname, it specifically referred to the surname. Names include first and last names.

Surname: A sign and symbol that indicates a person's family relationship. Before the advent of surnames, people used what to identify their families, the German orientalist Max Müller said in "Dedicated to Mythology":

A totem, which begins with the mark of a clan totem, then the name of the clan, and then the name of the ancestor of the clan. The "name" here is actually the "surname".

A name refers to the name of a person, product, or object, and there are broad and narrow senses of names, as well as nicknames, aliases, nicknames, and milk names. Names in the broad sense include the surnames and first names of citizens and the names of legal persons and unincorporated associations; Names in the narrow sense refer only to the first and last names of citizens. It is a combination of a name and a character.

In ancient China, names and characters were used separately. Collectively referred to as "name", it refers to a name or first name.

Difference Between First Name and First Name:

1. Scope of coverage.

The surname generally refers to the "surname", and the first name can refer to the "first name" or "surname + first name", that is, the first name can include the surname, but the surname does not include the first name.

2. Continuation.

After the surname is generated, it is passed down from generation to generation, and generally does not change, which is relatively stable; If the name refers to the "name", it is generally the title of the person and will not be passed on, and the descendants will generally avoid the name of the elders.

3. Possession of objects.

Ordinary people have surnames, things don't have surnames, things only have names.

In our country, the father's surname is the child's marriage name, so it is relatively normal for the father's surname and the child's surname to follow the father's surname. However, in some special cases, such as when the mother does not want the child to take the father's surname, or in an international marriage, the mother has the right to claim the right to take the surname.

According to the provisions of the General Provisions of the Civil Law on making wills, husband and wife can bind the surnames of their common children, and in the absence of divorce, the right to bear the surname can be determined by the mother, constituting the following consensus: both parties agree to give the child the father's surname, or one party requests to give the surname to the mother's surname or two surnames.

In addition, mothers should also pay attention to the following aspects when deciding on the right to take the surname:

1. Family traditions and cultural values: Consider what reasons you want to change your child's surname, whether there are objective cultural values and family traditions, or other reasons.

2. Whether the family is feasible: If the child's surname is changed, will the child feel that the family is not stable and the family is worried and uneasy about him.

In short, the right to take the surname belongs to both husband and wife, as well as to the child himself, and a rational choice should be made by comprehensively considering various factors such as family traditions, cultural values, and family forms, so as to respect the rights and feelings of the child.

In the three generations of antiquity, the surname and the first name were not the same thing. The surname is derived from the surname. From the Han Dynasty onwards, surnames were mixed into one. Most of our modern Chinese surnames have been passed down from generation to generation thousands of years ago. Considering its origin, it can be roughly divided into 12 categories:

1) Take the last name as the first name. The surname was produced as a symbol of the clan tribe during the clan commune period, and some of its descendants directly inherited it as the clan. The matriarchal clan society had the mother as the surname, so many surnames at that time were next to the female character. Such as: Ji, Jiang, Ji, Yao, etc.

2) Named after the country. As we are familiar with, the vassal states of the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period: Qi, Lu, Jin, Song, Zheng, Wu, Yue, Qin, Chu, Wei, Han, Zhao, Wei, Yan, Chen, Cai, Cao, Hu, Xu, etc., have all become common surnames today.

3) Named after the eup. Yi is a fief of the emperor and the princes of the princely states to the same surname or the opposite sex. Some of their descendants or those who lived in these estates succeeded them.

For example, when King Wu of Zhou was the king of Zhou, he was born in Su (now west of Linzhang County, Hebei Province), and his descendants were surnamed Su. According to statistics, there are nearly 200 surnames with Yi as the surname. Some compound surnames have ceased to exist due to a long historical evolution.

4) Named after the township and the pavilion. There are not many such cases, and today's common surnames are Pei, Lu, Yan, Hao, Ouyang, etc.

5) Take the place of residence as the surname. Among this type of surname, there are many compound surnames, which generally carry the words Qiu, Men, Xiang, Lu, Li, Ye, Guan, etc., indicating the place of residence in different environments.

6) Take the name of the ancestor or name. There are many surnames from this article, according to statistics, there are five or six hundred, of which nearly 200 are compound surnames. For example, King Zhou Ping's concubine character Lin Kai, his descendants are handed down to the forest character.

Song Daigong's son Chongshi, the word emperor's father, his grandson to his grandfather's name, the Han Dynasty changed the emperor's father to the emperor's father.

7) Take the order as the clan. A family is ranked according to the order of brothers, such as the eldest is called Uncle or Meng, the second is called Zhong, the third is called Uncle, and the fourth is called Ji. The descendants are next to each other as clans, indicating the order in the clan.

But there are exceptions. Lu Zhuanggong's younger brother Zhuang's father, the second in line, was originally the Zhong family and the Zhongsun family, because he was guilty of killing the king, the descendants changed their surname to Meng, or the surname Mengsun.

8) Take the official position as the clan. Such as Situ, Sima, Sikong, Sishi, Sikou, etc. Some surnames with official positions as the surname, Dan can also be distinguished from the literal meaning, such as nationality, admonition, warehouse, warehouse, army, kitchen, etc.

9) Take skill as the clan. Such as witch, divination, pottery, craftsman, slaughter, etc.

10) The surnames brought by the integration of ethnic minorities into the Han nationality in ancient times.

11) Take the nickname as the clan.

12) Changing the surname due to giving a surname and avoiding it.

The word surname in Chinese was originally different from "clan". The surname comes first, and the surname comes later. The original meaning of "surname" is the child born to a woman, and in matrilineal society, children born to the same mother have the same surname; In patrilineal societies, the surname follows the father.

As the number of descendants of the same ancestor increases, the family tends to split into several branches and scatter from place to place. In addition to retaining the surname, the descendants of each branch also choose a title for themselves as a symbol, which is the "clan". That is, a surname is a common title for all descendants of a family, while a clan is a branch derived from a surname.

After the surname is generated, it is passed down from generation to generation and generally does not change, and it is relatively stable, while the clan changes with the change of feudal and official positions, so there will be several clans or two generations of different clans of father and son. In addition, different surnames may be named in the same way, so there may be a phenomenon of different surnames having the same surname.

Before the Zhou Dynasty, in addition to having a surname, nobles often took the state and official position as their clan. And the average person has no surname and no name. At that time, only the kings of the vassal states and their families had surnames, and the clan only had surnames after the land was granted.

The ways in which nobles can obtain clans are:

Named after the country.

Named after the eup.

With the official name of the clan.

Named after his profession.

In the name of the place of residence.

It is called the clan with the blood relationship of the king or prince of Zhou.

Take the word of the nobility as the clan.

In the third dynasty of the Xia Shang dynasty, men were called names, and women were called surnames. The clan is used to distinguish the noble from the low, the nobles have clans, and the poor have names without clans. Surnames are used to distinguish marriages.

The same surname cannot intermarry, different surnames cannot intermarry, and different surnames can intermarry. This tradition has been maintained in China since then, and intermarriage between people with the same surname is considered taboo. It is not until modern times that this tradition is gradually broken, but many local people still disapprove of intermarriage.

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the patriarchal system collapsed, and the surname system also underwent fundamental changes. At this time, the family name began to change to the surname. After the Warring States period, commoners also had surnames, and the common people became the common name of the people. This reflected the decline of the aristocracy and the rise of the status of the commoners.

After the Qin and Han dynasties, the surname and the surname were one, so it was called "surname".

In ancient times, surnames referred to place names. Fiefdom at that time. They use fiefs as their state.

for the ground. for the last name. It is like the Qin State.

Qin itself is a place called Qin Pavilion in Tianshui, Gansu. Later this place became a state. It also became the surname of the country.

In the good like the surname Zhao. They put Zhao Di, Zhao State, Zhao people. refers to the people of this country.

Take the country as the surname. In fact, it is a place name. But nowadays people carry on the father's surname.

Those with surnames are self-explanatory; The clan shall not be divided among its descendants; "The surname is also a symbol that indicates the blood of the family." "Tongzhi Clan Strategy" said: Three generations ago (Xia, Shang and Zhou), the surname was divided into two, the man was called the name, and the pregnant person (woman) was called the surname.

So don't be noble and cheap, the noble have a clan, and the cheap have a name without a clan. The surname is not married, so there is a difference between the same surname and different surname. Those with different surnames can be married; If the surname is different, the marriage is not possible (the same surname is one family in the world, so the same surname is not married).

Three generations later, the surnames are one, and they all look forward to the noble and the lowly because of the marriage. Note "the noble has a clan": the Son of Heaven Jiande, because he was born to give the surname of the land and the name of the life (the land of the marquis, such as the surname of Zhi), if the husband protects the surname and receives the name, in order to keep the ancestry, the world is endless, there is no country.

Ouyang (ōu

yáng Ouyang) surname is simple, and the source has one:

From the surname Hi, the same clan as the surname Ouyang, with the name of the fief and the name of the marquis. The son of the Xia Dynasty emperor Shaokang was sealed in Huiji and established the Yue State as a vassal state. In the Spring and Autumn Period, it was destroyed by the State of Wu.

Nineteen years later, Goujian returned to the country. By the time of the sixth grandson of Goujian, Wujiang was the king of Yue. Destroyed by the state of Chu, the second son of Wujiang was sealed in the south of Ouyu Mountain in Wucheng, with the south of the mountain as the yang, so it was called Ouyang Tinghou, the descendants of the branch of Wujiang, so the name of the fief mountain and the name of the knight were surnamed, forming the three surnames of Ou, Ouyang and Ouhou.

Got the surname of the ancestor: Boundless. The Ouyang clan is a descendant of the famous Yue king Goujian in the Spring and Autumn Period.

The Ouyang clan and the Ou (district) clan are from the same origin, and they are both descendants of King Wujiang of Yue, and King Wujiang of Yue is the seventh grandson of King Goujian of Yue more than 2,400 years ago. Ouyang's surname has a history of about 2,000 years. According to the records in "Lu's", the second son of King Wujiang of Yue was sealed in the south of Ouyu Mountain in Wucheng, and there were Ou and Ouyang among his descendants.

According to the record of the "Tang Shu Prime Minister's Lineage Table", the surname Ouyang came from the surname Ji, the concubine of Emperor Shaokang of Xia, who was enshrined in Huiji, and passed to the king of Yue Wujiang, when he was destroyed by the Chu State, the son of Wujiang, changed the title of Wucheng Ouyu Mountain to the south, and was the Marquis of Ouyang Ting, and the descendants took Ouyang as the clan. According to the record of "Hundred Family Names of the County", the Ouyang clan lived in Bohai County, which is now Cangxian County, Hebei Province. It can be seen that Ouyang and Ou are from the same origin, both are the descendants of Yue Wang Wujiang, and Yue Wang Wujiang, according to research, is the seventh grandson of Yue Wang Goujian more than 2,400 years ago.

In other words, the history of Ouyang and Ou's surnames is roughly 2000 years. Therefore, the descendants of the Ouyang family respect Wujiang as the ancestor of the surname Ouyang.

About Ouyang, I don't know if it's okay?