I don t have the confidence to talk to a girl, why is that?

Many men have this kind of problem, and when they talk and chat with friends and colleagues, they are humorous and infectious. But as soon as you meet a woman you like, you become a wooden person, Mu Ne is silent, and the words he says are extremely unnatural, which makes women uncomfortable listening to them, and then loses interest in you.

Of course, there is an exception, and some women can see from these performances that you are interested in her, willing to continue to communicate with you, and willing to get to know you further. But not every woman is willing to be so patient with you, what should most men do?

First of all, it is certain that this is not a problem of communication ability, but a problem of mentality, nervousness is because you care, you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, why are you afraid of saying the wrong thing? Because you are interested in this girl, you are afraid that if you say the wrong thing, she will be unhappy, causing her to lose interest in you, and there is no possibility of further development.

How to change this state? First of all, you have to analyze why this is happening.

The essential reason is that you are not living in the moment. Why? Because when you're chatting with girls, you're thinking about the past and the future.

I want to use my past experience to deal with girls, and I want to have a good development with girls, and I will have a good result in the future. It is this one after the other that leads to your overweight of gains and losses. Can't live in the moment.

This kind of behavior will make women feel that you are very inconfident, and most women are insecure. They like confident men, and it's easy to lose interest in you when they see you like this.

So change. Even if you understand this truth, it is not easy to change, and it is not something that can be changed all at once. That's the need to have a process.

First of all, you have to throw away your heavy sense of gain and loss, sometimes the more cautious you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes, the more you want to grasp, the more you can't grasp it. Don't think about how far you will develop with her in the future, just just chat and communicate, everything will go naturally, and you will have a peaceful mind.

Only in this way can you show your daily self-confidence. Of course, if you are usually a person without self-confidence, you will only lose repeatedly in the love field. Then you have to start to change in your daily life, even if you pretend to be a confident person, if you pretend to be a confident person for a long time, this confidence will be shown from the inside out.

Women are very perceptive and able to capture a lot of information about you.

If he thinks that you are a person who is not worthy of trust and dependence, he will not develop with you again. There are two important points for men and women to meet for the first time, the first is appearance, and the second is conversation.

Whether he looks neat or not determines whether he is interested in communicating with you. The quality of communication determines whether you have the possibility of development.

Some straight men will find it troublesome, it is indeed a bit troublesome, many things in life are troublesome, and this is just one of them. Some people think it's too troublesome and give up, but it's actually an act of avoidance. To be a man you should be brave.

Maybe it's because of low self-esteem, you must be confident, because of low income or because of poor appearance, you have to find the reason for your lack of confidence in yourself, and then change it.

This is because you are not confident enough in yourself. You don't think you're good, you're not worthy of this girl, or you usually spend more time with girls.

This is because of a lack of self-confidence and a feeling that I am not good, so I will be particularly unconfident when I speak.

Maybe it's because I have some low self-esteem, either I don't have money, or I don't look good enough, in fact, these external things are really not important, what matters is my own inside.

Because I am not confident, if I feel that I am very good and can be worthy of all the girls, then I will definitely have the confidence to speak.

Maybe you were a little shy when you were a kid and didn't dare to talk to girls.

has grown up, matured, experienced more things, and has achieved success in his career, so he has enough confidence to talk to girls, so it can only be said that this is caused by psychological effects.

Since you have achieved something in your career, your ability to deal with the world and your self-confidence will improve a lot, and your experience will be rich, so you will naturally be no longer timid.

Because I have confidence, I used to feel that I didn't deserve it! I've grown up and experienced a lot of things, so I sure I won't be like when I was a child, so it's impossible to stay where I am.

This is a normal thing, the so-called wealthy.

Money is the root of all evil, and when money stands up, everything else is silent.

This is very normal, this is what people often say is the cowardice of the close lover, always want to show the best and best side of themselves to the person they like the most, so they will be nervous, they will have no confidence, and they are afraid of accidentally revealing their bad side. It is recommended that you read books on this subject, or practice it yourself at home in front of the mirror, and you will not feel nervous after a few more times.

This is normal! Some boys can't let go in front of the girls they like because of their lack of self-confidence, for fear that bad speech and behavior will leave a bad impression on her, and nervousness is inevitable.

You look like this, do people know that mushrooms are cool? Although love in this society is very fast, it should still be boldly confessed. It's likely that Mushroom Ryo will know your mind, and the situation will change when you communicate with her. I wish you success.

It shows that you really like her.

You will be humbled in front of the people you like.

This is a normal performance, but it is just a matter of severity according to each person's state of mind.

In fact, this is very normal, because each of us will be a little nervous when facing the living, it should be said that you are a boy who lacks exercise and participates in few social activities, so you don't open up, and you are still very shy, so try to participate in more social activities with more people, and slowly get yours. This kind of psychological barrier will be gone, and it will not be so unconfident.

It's normal to be nervous because you like it, but you're also a very shy boy, and it should be better to exercise yourself more in crowded places in the future.

This is not normal. Why are you nervous? Afraid of this girl? It is recommended that you have more contact with the girl and communicate more, so that in the long run, you will not be nervous when you get acquainted with her.

Yes, more beautiful and generous, full of confidence.

Yes, because confident girls are charming.

Not necessarily.

Women are very confident and confident, and sometimes they will seem male incompetent, your aura is strong, he is either better than you, or he will not have the confidence to provoke you.

Therefore, it is still a degree of certainty, and the bird still needs to reflect the advantages of women.

I usually communicate face-to-face very fluently, and the tone and speed of speech are normal and emotional, but when I call ** to find a customer, I have no confidence to speak, what should I do?

It's good for a girl to have a lower voice.

Not everyone has a good voice, just like not everyone can sing the right tone.

Not every girl is the same, and we don't need to be embarrassed by this trait.

Like me, born. But I eat three meals a day, eat well, and speak with more confidence and penetration.

Don't change it, such a voice, and another magic, the boy who likes you, will eventually find out! It's just not going to be found in normal times! It's about being together and you can only find out.

Women's nature, don't be surprised! If you roar, you won't show the taste of a woman, whisper! In this way, the man should be the inner type that he likes.

The dantian is insufficient, so you have to practice your voice more.

Everyone has a different side.

This is related to the personality, and the spicy people are generally loud.

Love has returned to the West, why be obsessed? After hurting for so long, I don't care about the heartbreak at this moment, only the unforgettable scars can make you more careful to find the next fruit.

Forgetting is a long road, and the most important thing is whether you are willing to take the first step.

Give up, salvage a relationship that has changed color, even if the mirror is broken and reunited, there are still indelible scratches.

I saw it by chance, and I didn't think to paste some text, but I just had some feelings, and I broke up with a girl, and I went to find her after that, but, from her impatient expression, I already knew the answer.

So I started to forget, so I started to get drunk desperately at the beginning of forgetting, it's been almost a year, and looking back, this road is really unbearable, but I finally found myself again, and that's enough.

Don't say death easily, life is given to you by your parents, think about your parents who have raised you for many years, what have you done for them? Even if you do too much for them, I'm afraid you won't be able to get back the value of a life, right?

The world derived from the pessimist's eyes is gray, and the only person who can change the tone is yourself.

I hope it helps you, I saw it by chance, I don't need your points. You don't need your answers, and you don't need to read every word. I only hope that a person who says he loves others should understand the full meaning of love. Loving yourself is also a kind of love for everyone.

A person's personality cannot be changed, only the surface.

It's okay to be handsome, or it's okay to be rich.

Shy, boy, be a little windy, be confident.

It may be that his knowledge, appearance, and economy are not good, so he is not confident.

Because you have a little inferiority complex and muster up the courage to overcome your fears.

Not confident, introverted, not very good at talking...

It's good to be confident, maybe you have a little low self-esteem.

It's good to talk more,,, be more daring with the girls you like.

Men need to be confident in front of women.