A woman with high emotional intelligence has three characteristics of speaking, what are these three

It is difficult to be a man, it is difficult to be a woman, it is even more difficult to be a happy woman, and if a woman wants to be happy, in addition to constantly learning various skills, she must also understand these three points.

1. Know how to show weakness.

As the saying goes, the big husband can bend and stretch, and the little woman, in order to maintain the happiness of the marriage, must also learn to bend and stretch, sometimes pretending to be a grandson and showing weakness is not unavoidable. It may be a woman's nature to talk a lot, especially after marriage, a woman may become more nagging, and there may be nothing wrong with talking more in ordinary times.

But if there is a disagreement in the communication with your husband, you must learn to quit the habit of raising the bar with your husband, take a step back and open the sky, and occasionally dress up your grandson, if you can exchange it for the happiness of marriage, why not. Knowing how to be soft, knowing how to retreat, making yourself look atmospheric and keeping your happiness at the same time, this is the truth that a smart woman must understand.

2. Respect your heart.

Emotional intelligence also means intelligence. The new season of "Extreme Response" has a connection based on ** estimating the names of female stars. Facing Zhang Junning's **, Yue Yunpeng complained:

Who is this, not red? ”。Later, Zhang Junning posted a photo of his ** on Weibo, which made his ** popular.

The postscript says, "I tried my best to make myself red. ”。

Regarding ordinary female stars, they may be a little angry in the face of this problem, but Zhang Junning skillfully dealt with this problem with his high emotional intelligence, and became friends with Yue Yunpeng one after another, which not only increased the popularity of Zhang Junning and Yue Yunpeng, but also made many people turn to Zhang Junning Road and increase the number of fans.

Women with high emotional intelligence use the simplest methods to achieve the greatest effect when dealing with problems. Smart people will go along with it, and people with low emotional intelligence will make things bigger and bigger, regardless of their reputation, and do things that harm others and themselves. Therefore, a coquettish woman has the best life, and the essence of coquettishness is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence.

Really good women are basically models with high emotional intelligence.

3. Speak with sincerity and know how to respect others.

People with high emotional intelligence will be more respectful of the ideas of others. Huo Siyan is known as the happiest woman in the entertainment industry. Not only is she a meek and caring husband, but her son loves her too.

As children, we would ask our parents the question, "Mom, am I in **?" Some parents are inconvenient to tell their children about the sexes, so they will perfunctory their children, saying "you picked it up in the dregs bucket" or "you bought it as a gift", but Huo Siyan informed the child that "you grew up in your mother's womb for a long time, and then came out of your mother's womb".

Uh-huh, and then asked, "When I'm in my mother's belly, will my mother hurt when I jump?" Huo Siyan said: "Mom won't hurt."

When you kick me, it means you miss me. Every time you move, I feel happy. It not only answers the child's questions, but also makes the child understand that it is not easy for parents to conceive in October, and cultivate gratitude from an early age.

Parents are the best teachers for their children. When educating children, parents with high emotional intelligence will consider the problem from the perspective of their children and treat their children as peers, rather than always educating their children as adults.

These three characteristics are: for the sake of others, empathy, and always express their strong opinions in a gentle tone. Generally speaking, such a woman looks gentle and gentle, but she is very powerful.

Be good at listening to other people's suggestions, use humor well, and know how to praise others in a timely manner.

It's useless for a woman to be beautiful, at the beginning you can find a lot of men who like it, but after a while, men will hate it, in fact, many times in our lives, just say that there is a sense of freshness and everything is gone after the freshness has passed.

The most important thing to communicate with people is emotional intelligence, if there is a problem with emotional intelligence, your efforts will not be recognized by others.

In the process of communicating with others, or in the process of falling in love, if you can't pay attention to your emotional intelligence, can't consider problems from the perspective of others, or don't give others face, it's very embarrassing, so in real life, it is often because of this situation that many people are not treated by others.

Communication between people is very important, especially women must have high emotional intelligence, you can have no money, but you can't have no emotional intelligence, if you don't have your own good-looking appearance, as long as your emotional intelligence is higher, you will also get the love of men, in fact, the most important thing in love is a woman's inner hail.

A woman with low emotional intelligence will always complain about anything and never distinguish the occasion, that is to say, she does not know how to appreciate others at any time, and always hopes that others can know how to appreciate herself, in this world, because everyone's emotional intelligence is different, so even if you do it wrong, you will think that you are doing it right.

Complaining about everything, never regardless of the occasion, such a woman, her praise is really terrifying. Although many women in our lives, because they don't have emotional intelligence, they don't spend enough time with men, and they dress up beautifully before they get married, but they don't dress up after they get married, and you don't have emotional intelligence, so many men won't like it.

Emotional intelligence, in fact, we can't say it at all, because this thing is not easy to express, you can't teach others how to treat, sometimes you say that others will have a very big disgust with you, as a woman, if the emotional intelligence is not high enough, in fact, it will not only offend people, but also make yourself suffer.

If a woman's emotional intelligence is really impaired, she always likes to rush to speak, say whatever comes to mind, and the most important thing is to be outspoken and not give others any chance when speaking, that is, always preempt others and be self-centered.

In love, in fact, many people will encounter such a situation, but some people are unwilling to admit it, that is, in order to settle, after getting married, many things will be revealed. In fact, women are very scary, if you marry a woman with no emotional intelligence, the rest of the life will not be ruined.

Women with high emotional intelligence are emotional, have the ability to restrain themselves, are unhappy and do not perform, do not evaluate people easily, and so on.

1. Try to understand what the other party needs, if they are conflicting and irreconcilable, go and see how to compromise with each other. It's hollow to say, and it's complicated to operate. It is the most difficult to clear the layers of fog and know what the other party really thinks.

2. Correctly express your ideas and reduce communication costs. Even if I am in a bad mood and lose my temper with my husband, I will explain in advance that I am in a bad mood now, but the problem I am talking about should be taken seriously, and you should not think that my problem is meaningless because I am emotionally unstable. Therefore, high emotional intelligence is not the ability to control temper and emotions at any time, but the ability to be aware of one's own state.

3. Have your own principles and positions in your heart, but adapt to changes. Sometimes when people ask me some questions, on the one hand, I will say that if this matter is what I want to do (it may not be correct), but from your standpoint, I think you should do it (you can interpret it yourself), and finally I will say the reason. Help others clear their minds.

4. I like to be alone and belong to the internal controller. But very communicative. So, solitude is character, and communicative ability is skill.

There is no conflict between the two. Since I was an undergraduate, I have been wondering what I am like, what kind of job I am suitable for, and what kind of life I am suitable for. There will be no blind choices.

5. Compared to oneself, compared to ordinary things and people, the universe is much larger. Explore the world more, broaden your horizons, and don't cling to small things. is the most meaningful.

Emotional intelligence is a bit useful for being a person and doing things. But the most important thing is to make your life more interesting, worthwhile, and meaningful.

I hope that everyone will become a woman with high emotional intelligence and likability, spend more thought, think more about others, have high emotional intelligence, not be black, not hypocritical, and let others like you from the bottom of their hearts.

Will often rely on the good mood to do things, and will not encourage others, will often hit others, especially willful, with princess disease, only like others to say to him flattering words or flattery, temper is particularly short-tempered, often show the special Huai shake dishonest, I will show my true colors, often speak particularly harshly, easy to hurt the self-esteem of others.

Do not quarrel with others, be able to understand others, be able to sympathize with others, and be able to put yourself in the shoes of others. Never contradict others.

When a woman with low emotional intelligence speaks, she will always make people unhappy, poke at others' sore spots, expose people's shortcomings, and raise the bar with others, and she doesn't know it.