Why am I shy and nervous when I talk to other girls? 20

Hello, maybe you don't talk to girls often, so you are more nervous, but it doesn't matter, you just need to overcome the psychological factors, don't be afraid, next time when you speak, think about it, and think about what you should say. How to say, so that you don't get too nervous.

The world you see is too small, just go out and hang out. The environment determines your character, and your character determines your temperament. Go ahead, I know you can do it.

Thin-skinned, stay at home You have to believe that it is friendly and respectful for you to have a girl talking to you, and the brave girl dares to say what you are afraid of?

psychological problems, or like him. If you contact more girls outside, you won't go back.

It may be that you were born with such a personality ... Or maybe there's something wrong with your tutor, so reflect on it,,。

1.First of all, the first step in communicating with people is to think about what you want to express, the most important thing to say, and first roughly determine the idea of speaking, so that you can be intentional and logical, and you will be more confident when you are prepared.

2.Then, build up your self-confidence and keep reminding yourself that you are equal to others, that they are listening to you, that they understand you no matter what you say, and that they respect your point of view. In the process of communication, keep reminding yourself that you are saying well.

3.With ideas, with confidence, the next thing is your expression methods and skills, the taboo of speaking is to speak too fast, in general, this is also the result of your inner tension, the speed of speech is accelerated, and eventually the mouth is trembling, the expression is not clear, so, try to slow down the speed of speech, the intonation should be rich and varied, is the language vivid.

4.Next, when communicating, try to make the language humorous or clear and natural, not to make your words not amazing, but at least to do it, and not to make others feel that you are messing around. Try to give each other some space to speak, don't blindly say it yourself, observe each other's screenings, marry each other the right to speak in a timely manner, and listen to each other.

1. The shy girl is a mystery.

Because you are shy, you don't dare to say too much in front of other people. However, because you don't talk much or don't talk at all, the men around you will never understand you, because you will always be a mystery to them.

They don't know what's hidden deep in their brains, and they certainly won't know how you're feeling. However, a man has a natural desire to explore, so he wants to explore your unknown and uncover the mystery hidden in you.

2. Shy girls are intimidating.

There will always be men who will deliberately approach you and try to find some interesting topics to chat with you happily. However, because you are shy, you rarely give him verbal feedback.

As a result, he will feel that you are so arrogant that he is almost not interested in his words, and therefore, he will be afraid of you and walk away silently. Of course, men have a natural desire to conquer, and the more cold people are, the more they want to get it.

Therefore, some men will attack you fiercely precisely because you are "cold", but they know that your "coldness" is just too shy to speak.

3. Shy women look more feminine.

Because of your shy nature, you'll be dressed more traditionally than those retro fashionistas. You won't wear heavy makeup, but your light makeup will always highlight your quiet nature and show off your natural beauty.

When a man sees your outfit, they will be impressed by your elegance, temperament and beauty, which are precisely the most direct embodiment of femininity.

4. Shy women make men feel safe.

Just imagine, if a woman always appears in public wearing heavy makeup and revealing clothing, then people will subconsciously think that this woman is a casual woman.

Of course, if a woman walks elegantly down the street in a traditional attire, then it undoubtedly gives a "ladylike" feeling. And because you are shy, your dress is never revealing but rather traditional, so that men will think you are a traditional "lady" when they see you.

Because as long as it's an individual, it's going to be on the shy side.