Broke up, faded, ordinary friends, I can t stop thinking about him, is it dangerous?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone is cute, but no one is loved

    Agreeing to break up doesn't mean that you don't love him, but it is a sign of loving him more It feels good to miss someone, that is, you won't feel empty in your heart, and a very bland breakup may not be a bad thing

    Just put it in your heart until the moment you decide to let go of him There is no right or wrong in love, and it will still fade if you look into it

    Don't be too sentimental, it's also hurtful to the people around you who care about you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time solves everything. It's practical to keep yourself busy.

    Some love is destined to have no good results, and instead of being so painful, it is better to start a simple happy life.

    It's going to get better, I hope you're having a good time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time can dilute everything, but it can't dilute the memories of the past. Only in his heart silently gave her his deep blessings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't know what you're talking about, maybe your mind is too messy! You're confused friends!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he doesn't care about you, then what do you still love him to do, don't let yourself be "cheap".

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Alas, the pain of attachment! It's over, but I haven't forgotten him, don't you want to? Can't help it?

    This other person can't help a lot, and it's helpless to rely on yourself, I think the best thing is to let time dilute, and you might as well get closer to other people of the opposite sex, in order to speed up the time to forget him and start your own new relationship!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's better to forget than to be nostalgic.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, you don't think it's better to write things and say them.

    Although they broke up. But also tell him how much you like him, and maybe change your mind.

    I can't say that I can be a better bosom friend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You shouldn't let it go! Now start over, but not him!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If your love is fruitless, or simply impossible, stop thinking about things that you don't need to think about, which will only make your mood worse and your life more chaotic. Try to do something to live your life to the fullest, and then you may forget about it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Breaking up is actually nothing, and I started to think that it was just a breakup. I can't live my life. In fact, it really broke up. Life is still the same. After a while, you may get used to breaking up with him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Time will dilute everything, let go of your heart. After a while I forgot about it. Maybe going through a relationship is better for you right now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like me oh, hold on for a while, you'll forget about him, trust me, time will dilute everything!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Haha, it's very persistent! But it will come out.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Forget what you should forget, don't you think you're hurt?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I broke up, it was no longer possible to say it, and then I contacted every day to say that I was friends.

    If you've broken up and both have made it clear that there's no possibility of getting back together, continuing to be friends can make your emotions more complicated and confusing. Here are some tips that we hope will help you: Give yourself and each other some time and space.

    Breaking up is a painful thing that takes some time and space to adjust and recover from your emotions. During this time, try to pause contact with the other person to give yourself time to think and process your feelings. Re-examine your relationship.

    If you've made it clear that it's no longer possible to get back together, continuing to be friends can make your emotions more complicated and confusing. In this case, you can re-examine your relationship and consider whether and how it is necessary to keep in touch.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you that it's no longer possible to break up, and then contact every day to say that you're friends? A:

    Breaking up every day to contact and say that being friends is a kind of unwilling performance, has broken up, it is no longer a relationship between men and women, this is different from before, some things can be said before, but after the breakup, you can't say Oh, but it is true that every day and contact to be friends, this is a deliberate performance of finding a topic, the other party through this word to get your attention, so it is judged that the other party is a little remorseful, but it is not easy to speak, so there is a sense of wanting you to apologize, I hope my answer can help you, Looking forward to your praise, your support is also the driving force for my progress. If you have any other questions, you can click on my avatar for one-on-one consultation. Finally, I wish you good health and a happy mood!

    I broke up, it was no longer possible to say it, and then I contacted every day to say that I was friends.

    Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you that it's no longer possible to break up, and then contact every day to say that you're friends? Answer: Break up every day to contact and say that being friends is a kind of unwilling performance, has broken up, it is no longer a relationship between men and women, this point is clearly buried and buried in the same way as before, some words can be said before, but after the breakup can not be said Oh, but it is true that every day and contact to be friends, this is a deliberate performance of finding a topic, the other party through this words to attract your attention, so it is judged that the other party is a little remorseful, but it is not easy to speak, so there is a sense of wanting you to apologize, I hope my answer can help you, look forward to your praise, your support is also the driving force for my progress.

    If you have any other questions, you can click on my avatar for one-on-one consultation. Finally, I wish you good health and a happy mood!

    Is it your boyfriend who said this to you?

    Yes. How long has it been since we broke up?

    Just scored. That shows that the other party is a little reluctant, but it's not easy to speak.

    I kept it, I cried and kept it.

    Ah, is it the breakup he mentioned?

    The main thing is that I was reluctant, and then he said that it was impossible, and then the empty bureau talked to me every day, and then said that he could be the kind of friend who could say anything, and he could also be used as a brother to fight, because he had a wife, and we were together every day before, and now he may also notice something, and then he chose to keep his distance from me, and said that he could be a brother in love, so I was wondering what he was saying these words.

    Yes. Reluctant to have true feelings, this kind of can't be broken, and find a way to save this relationship.

    How long have you been looking?

    You can tell the teacher about it.

    The main thing is that he knows that I betrayed him, if he says that he can't accept that he is with me, but he also has a wife, but it is true that both of them like each other very much, and help you analyze and make countermeasures.

    I can't accept that you betrayed him, I don't think it will be the main reason, does his wife know about you.

    Or you can choose to go down to the bottom of the six rounds, and the teacher will work out specific recovery measures for you.

    First of all, the teacher thinks that you are also really in love with each other, it is a pity to separate, you have redeemed it, maybe the world is because the method is not used right, and it is necessary to redeem a man, especially if you talk about the first is a married search and burial.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello dear. On the one hand, if you also want to be friends with her, you can continue to keep in touch with her, but be careful to maintain appropriate distance and boundaries to avoid excessive contact and dependence.

    On the other hand, if you feel that staying in touch with her will make you feel uncomfortable or distressed, you can also choose the appropriate time and way to explain your thoughts to her, and then keep your distance for a while to give yourself some time to recover and adjust. Whichever way you choose, you need to respect your own feelings and needs, but also her decisions and positions. If you find it painful and uncomfortable to be friends with her, you may also consider being more active in seeking other support and help, such as chatting with friends, joining interest groups, or seeking professional staff.

    I broke up, it was no longer possible to say it, and then I contacted every day to say that I was friends.

    Hello dear. On the one hand, if you also want to be friends with her, you can continue to keep in touch with Duan or Ling, but be careful to maintain appropriate distance and boundaries to avoid excessive contact and dependence. On the other hand, if you feel that staying in touch with her will make you feel uncomfortable or distressed, you can also choose the appropriate time and way to explain your thoughts to her, and then keep your distance for a while to give yourself some time to recover and adjust.

    Whichever way you choose, you need to respect your own feelings and needs, as well as her decisions and positions. If you find it painful and uncomfortable to be friends with her, you may also consider being more active in seeking other support and help, such as chatting with friends, joining interest groups, or seeking professional staff.

    The main thing is that I was reluctant, and then he said that it was impossible, and then the empty bureau talked to me every day, and then said that he could be the kind of friend who could say anything, and he could also be used as a brother to fight, because he had a wife, and we were together every day before, and now he may also notice something, and then he chose to keep his distance from me, and said that he could be a brother in love, so I was wondering what he was saying these words.

    Dear, he means that he still wants to keep in touch with you again, so he says to be a brother.

    The main thing is that he knows that I betrayed him, if he says that he can't accept that he is with me, but he also has a wife, but it is true that both of them like each other very much, and then he said that it is impossible to be together, and then he said that he is a lover brother, and there is anything to contact him in peacetime.

    Dear, he doesn't want to give up on you, so he wants to keep in touch with you.

    Then why can't you just forgive and then be together.

    And some of the things and jewelry we bought together were all taken back, dear, because he has his own family.

    Dear, you're friends now, so take it back.

    So, it was given to me, and then it was all taken back.

    Dear, do you think he's drawing a line with you?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Becoming friends after a breakup also requires fate, which mainly depends on whether both parties have mutual friends.

    Generally speaking, it is better not to contact for at least a year after the breakup, and the memories will be beautiful. It is a very hypocritical thing to be a so-called friend after a breakup, it requires a lot of psychological endurance, and you have to face suspicion and dissatisfaction all the time, you feel reluctant, this feeling is right, and most importantly, it will be more beautiful to leave blank.

    If there are friends between the two parties, then there will be a chance to meet in the future, time and space are very good things, once time passes, everyone will not care about the unpleasantness of the past, and you can stretch out to be friends.

    If there is no friend between the two parties, break it, you and he will have a future other half, just let yourself face the next paragraph cleanly.

    I know that my statement will make you sad, go out for a walk, get together with friends more, dispel the loneliness and loneliness in front of you, and after a while, you will feel that you are mature and will be relieved when you look at the emotions in front of you from a different angle.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

    and they cannot be enemies, because they have loved one another.

    Be strangers, good for each other and your future lovers.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Either talk to him openly or write to him ** or write to him You can scold him and say that he is not good Don't let him have a chance to fight back Then hang up Remember If you want to let go, don't regret it If you don't want to let go, don't care about anything If you like it, chase it if you don't like it, pull it down But it depends on whether he is sincere.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you are so reluctant to give up, you will only be more unable to forget him, forget it earlier, child.

    The quickest way to forget someone is to fall in love with someone again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

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