Do those who achieve great things have an ungrateful side?

Not necessarily, like Han Xin, not only did not be ungrateful, but repaid his grievances with virtue and rewarded the scoundrels who had insulted him.

Although Liu Bang killed Han Xin after his success (in fact, it was killed by Lu Hou and Xiao He), he was ungrateful from a personal point of view, but if Han Xin really reversed, wouldn't the people return to the dire situation? So from the perspective of the interests of most people, Liu Bang is not ungrateful, if he doesn't kill, isn't he forgetting the kindness of the people of the world and the righteousness of the people of the world?

It cannot be said that ingratitude is only one of the means of protecting oneself and maximizing one's own interests. It is not that if you are ungrateful, you cannot achieve great things, you can become small things by wisdom, and you can achieve great things by virtue. , how to be ungrateful? And you can say that he is not a great man?

Definitely, none! People are not saints, practice is not faulty? It's just that they are big people and attract attention: they are also the managers of the country, and for the stability of the country, some deep planning is needed. Isn't there an ungrateful side to each of us?

Those who achieve great things will not be informal. Moreover, there is a great and small sense of righteousness.

The ungrateful become a hegemon, and the virtuous become a king.

The avenue is not in harmony with the vulgar, and the great merit is not sought by the public. If you do it, why bother with it!

zxy12317823 Well said!! There are indeed some villains in history who seek favors for personal gain!

There are many kinds of ingratitude

There is nothing wrong with being ungrateful.

The great river flows, and the avenue is criss-crossed.

Let's start by looking up what ingratitude is.

Don't mess around with heroes.

First of all, I would like to say to the landlord, "You should believe in materialism, you must know that all groups are composed of several individuals, and the nature of the individual determines the nature of the group, and of course the same is true of society."

If it is idealistic to say, ungrateful people will get the evil retribution they deserve, so that the landlord will be comforted, but also to give himself a comfort, after all, I have met such a person myself, and I also hope that the so-called good and evil retribution is real. But is this actually the case? I don't know, everyone's circumstances, moods, and practices are different, and everything may be affected by the general environment, no one can say what will happen to him in the future, maybe the bad guy is much more comfortable than the good guy, maybe he will be condemned by the society and spurned by everyone......

The so-called retribution of good and evil is produced under the influence of the general environment, and the good people in a group account for the vast majority, and it is the principle of heaven that good will be rewarded with good and evil will be rewarded.

Cycle, if the bad people account for the vast majority, the retribution for good and evil is nothing. Therefore, if we want the bad guys to have corresponding retribution, but we can't do anything about it, we can only do our best, as long as we make the cycle of heavenly principles a reality, even if we don't do anything ourselves, he will definitely not be happy.

An ungrateful person will leave a very bad impression on others, and after a long time, there will be many people who ignore him, and he will have no friends.

It didn't matter, and in the end people ignored him, and he isolated himself

You have a grudge, and there are also people with a spine belt who say that Mien fights Mi hate. 1l rice to raise benefactors, a bucket of rice to raise enemies, what does the wild sedan chair mean? When someone is in danger and still in difficulty, you go to help him and give him a little comfort.

He tends to be grateful to you, but if you keep doing it for a long, long time. Once this help is interrupted, he will hold a grudge against you, possibly for the rest of his life, a kind of person who does not want to make progress but has no lower limit, and is dependent on others. He doesn't think about whether he should do something to work, to work, or to do something he can.

to get a reward, but to play a game against the person who helped him, and if you don't fund him, he will speak ill of you and even make enemies with you. Isn't that ungrateful? Therefore, saving people can be saved for a while, but it is difficult to save a lifetime.

If he has recovered his labor force and has the conditions to make money, he still has to rely on himself. There must be no such malignancy of dependence, and it is even foolish to say that there should be no such thoughts. This kind of thinking is a disrespect to the person who helps you, and its behavior control is chilling.

There is also a story here that there are two neighbors who usually have a good relationship. One family has money, the other family has no money, saying that a year is changed to a natural disaster, and the family that has no money will produce grain, and if there is no food in stock, they can only starve at home. What about the rich man, after knowing this, he couldn't look past it, so he gave him a piece of rice.

helped him get through the difficulties, and his family was very generous if he didn't have money, so he said, I still have some food at home, and I'll give you another one, I won't have any money, I will be very grateful. When he gets this rice and goes home, his brother will tell him what you see this rich neighbor. There is so much food, but he gives us one, and this walk is not enough to farm, so we can only eat, and we should not do anything.

The rich people in his family are too inauthentic, too bad, and as a result, the results quickly reached the ears of the rich people. He is very angry, I am also very angry, I am kind enough to help you, you dare not pick me up, and you still speak ill of me, treat me as an enemy, it is really ungrateful.

People must have a grateful heart in this life, they are not the ones who do not forget to send charcoal in the snow, they will not be the ones who do not forget their hearts, the people who do not forget to help each other when they are in difficulty, and the people who do not forget to run before and after everything, you have nothing, the people who do not dislike you have everything, and the people who do not pursue you, I have never disliked them, and I know that everyone will help. People who cross the river and demolish the bridge do not have a good end, although the people who drink water always have someone to cheer up, how much care and love is contained in a love word, how much help and trust is contained in a seal, pay true feelings to you, give a sincere person must be kind to you, and don't let down the air on the way through the wind and rain.

The grace of a drop of water, when the spring reciprocates" is a person who does not be ungrateful.

When you are in trouble, I do my best to help you, and when I am in trouble, you do the same.

Don't hurt someone who has helped you.

It's just ungrateful.