Love haunts me, love haunts. What should I do?

I used to have a friend who worked together and opened a small gallery. He has a girlfriend who has been talking in college for two years and has been in a relationship for more than a year after graduation, he is a child in a poor rural area in Qinghai, and she is the child of a cadre in a big city in Chongqing. So the two fell in love, and after 4 years, the girlfriend suddenly said that they broke up.

And her parents quickly found him a suitable boyfriend. At first, her friends always thought that her parents were under too much pressure, and they had the luxury of maneuvering in the middle of it. In the end, he was exhausted.

My cousin graduated from college and worked in a hospital, my brother-in-law has not been able to find a suitable job after he was discharged from the army, and when they fell in love, my cousin's parents and everyone around me strongly opposed it, but my cousin was steadfast, and finally with the encouragement of my sister, I was admitted to the civil service, and they got married the year before last.

Same times, same encounters. But there was a different result.

She is single now does not necessarily mean that she still has feelings for you, maybe because he has not found someone she thinks is suitable, imagine if you are her, can you give up on him under the pressure of your family? If you give up, what is the point of this love? Is it worth wrestling with to exhaustion?

If they are strong-willed, what can hinder each other? Is there anyone who has a knife and asks for his life? If there is nothing in the world that you feel forced, no matter what, you are determined not to accept it, and no one can impose it, then do you think she is strong-willed? To you?

Today she can give up on you because of the pressure of her family, and tomorrow? What about later? Will there be again?

If she wants time, why not? You need more time than she does to think about whether this person is worth your dealing.

Statistically, the success rate of the first relationship is 3%.

In fact, his words can also be reflected. She said she asked you what your plans were for the future, and you should be able to understand. He said you were rural and broke up with you. Now I ask you what you plan to do in the future.

It can be clearly seen One: She broke up with you because you are rural because you are poor. (Just perhaps, many of the rural people are very rich.)

Two: Broke up. And I asked you if you would mind living with her and the man.

If she really doesn't like you, why is she asking this question again?

Three: You go to her store and she says that her mother has a good impression of you! Why is that?

Four: She actually likes you, but she only cares about (1) You are rural. (2) Her family disagreed.

3) There is a person who is good, the family conditions are good, and her parents know each other, which is of course very good for a person. (But who knows what that man did to her?) ）

She now goes back and asks you so many questions. He also said that he was sorry for you, but in fact, he gradually understood that you were actually the best for him. (I've done stupid things like this before.)

Said something like that. o( o ) also wants to reconcile with you. However, her psychology is full of contradictions.

Because of social reality. (You should understand the consciousness of social reality!) She said you have to give her time.

Then you wait for her to get there. (Maybe she had her own plans for a long time.) What do you say you're going to do?

I'm telling you, doing nothing is a big deed! Now you must calm your heart and deal with it calmly. At the end of the year, it's all a start.

Maybe she was thinking that we broke up this time last year, and we started again this time this year, so it's kind of romantic? ）

If you broke up last time because you were from the countryside and her family didn't agree, then I think she should be a girl who is both realistic and unassertive. Her thoughts or attitudes are easily influenced by the external environment, so it will be tiring for you to love her! However, since you haven't forgotten her for so long, and you don't care about everything she did, it should be hard for you to give up.

Then don't give up, keep trying, but don't forget to love yourself because you love her too much. Give her some time to think about it, and wait for the New Year now! If she hesitates and doesn't give you a clear explanation, you'll have to think of a way back for yourself.

Don't let people lead you by the nose, you know?

If I really love you, I will insist on it if I have no opinions, and I will never sway on both sides, you are really generous, and you deserve to love you better and more firmly!

You calm down first. Think about it, it's worth it. If you divide it, will you meet a better one?

Or what kind of result can be achieved in the end! If you think you're worth it, go ahead and give up if it's not! Depending on what you're after, if you divide it, don't break it.

To love or not to love is your own business.

No one can call the shots for you.

Listen to your innermost true voice ......

That's all I can say.

You are the master of yourself.

Only you can ...... yourself