How to deal with a man who cares?

The so-called calculating is really an inner narrow-mindedness and a small heart. It is characterized by small belly, arrogance, strong words, lack of progress, short-sightedness, ignorance of the general situation, and strong jealousy. There is no sense of collective honor, lack of self-confidence.

As the saying goes: there is no courage to win money. Look down on hooligans and fear hooligans.

The mouse carries a gun - Wo Li Heng is to describe this kind of person. ‍‍

Maybe it's because men themselves have this little problem, and they only worry about issues of principle or bottom line. This is a different story. Everyone's view of the problem and the bottom line of their heart are different.

The more you like about the substance, the more you have to worry about it. Those who fancy feelings are not lied about. Those who fancy credibility are willing to pay attention to their promises. ‍‍

As long as it does not push people to the extreme mentality of becoming more and more cautious, drilling dead ends, pointing out the horns, and admitting death. It should be regarded as less harmful. But there is no one who walks by the river without getting his shoes wet. It is necessary to help them get out of the haze as soon as possible. ‍‍

What else can this kind of person do to him, the farther away from him the better, try not to ignore him if you can, and alienate him from the heart. When you meet such a person, you will be called to avoid him. ‍‍

Treat a man who cares, don't worry about him, stay away from him, let him, don't compete with him. ‍‍

A man cares, then let him go, you don't have to care, after a while he will come back to you.

Don't worry about you, try your own financial freedom, don't go to him to get money, don't nag you to death. ‍‍

I don't like this type of boy and feel stingy.

You can choose to treat him the same way, so that he may have changed.

Don't look at people's shortcomings, you should look at his strengths more. It's man-made. ‍‍

In marriage, we need to be more rational, marrying a man who cares, we should find a way to communicate with each other, so that the other party understands that as a big man, we should be open-minded, rather than worrying about our wife every dayIn the process of calculating, the feelings of two people will also be consumed little by little, which is very much more than worth the loss, and the most important thing between husband and wife is mutual understanding and tolerance, rather than having contradictions to argue and intensify.

If the other party really can't listen to it, then we can only be more tolerant and tolerant, after all, marriage and love are different, and one party must always give in more in marriage.

It's the most boring and emotionless to get along with this kind of man, and the best way is to guard his own interests, because for him, he is never willing to pay too much for others.

After marrying a man who likes to be careful, I found that he was really careful and liked to be serious about everything, so I had to communicate with him at this time.

Try to communicate with him, let him learn to look at problems from the perspective of others, don't always be self-centered, and slowly use his own behavior to influence him.

If you have children, it is recommended to adjust your kindness too, after all, it is not a matter of principle, it can be overcome, and couples need to be more tolerant. If there are no children, if the woman really can't bear it, it is recommended to divorce, after all, the future is still so long.

You should talk to them deeply and tell them not to be so calculating, otherwise it will hurt their feelings.

Try to tolerate him with your tolerant heart, and at the same time tolerate him, slowly influence his personality and let him gradually change.

You can sit down with him and have a good talk and tell him that if you think about it any longer, the relationship between the two of you will break down completely.

1. Be careful.

For the sake of a little thing, I will take care of it. What others take for granted, he prefers to have a reason. He cares about everything, his friends can't get along with him, he often goes alone and has no friends.

2. No sense of responsibility.

A man who cares about everything, has no sense of responsibility. In the face of things, he will only blindly shirk and have no responsibility. Such a person will not be able to do great things.

You will find that your boss will not give him any important things at work. Because he is so trustworthy. The boss will not be relieved to give him the work.

1. I care a lot about the remarks about men in women's mobile phones.

A man who likes women will be very concerned about the notes in his mobile phone, because he understands that this actually represents his status in his mind. Just like a woman cares about the nicknames of both husband and wife. Women don't think it's a small thing, as long as there is love, they must learn to show it, as long as they love each other, they can change their remarks to make the other party feel their hearts.

2. Always want to prove that your income is high.

Many times, men want to prove that they have a high income, not just to be competitive, but to tell women: don't work so hard, I can actually support you. Men want to focus on their careers, in fact, they want to work together with the dreams of two people, and often giving a warm home is the motivation for men to move forward.

3. Do you care if you take yourself to meet your parents.

Just as women crave the approval of their parents, boys are actually very "careful" about whether the other party introduces themselves to their parents. Introducing the other person to his parents is actually representing his name, which is often what men care about very much.

1.A man with a small heart is careful about a little thing. What others take for granted, to him, there must be a reason.

He cares about everything, his friends can't get along with him, and you will see that he often goes alone and has no friends. 2.A man who has no sense of responsibility and is cautious has no sense of responsibility.

In the face of things, he will only blindly shirk and have no responsibility. Such a person will not be able to do great things. You will find that your boss will not give him any important things at work.

Because he is so trustworthy. The boss will not be relieved to give him the work. 3.

A man with a strong sense of revenge and a cautious eye is very vindictive. If you usually provoke him, he will definitely take it to heart and find an opportunity to take revenge on you next time. When you have long forgotten about it, he will still think about it.

Don't be with this kind of person, otherwise if you're not careful, you will be retaliated by him. 4.A man who is jealous and cautious is also very jealous.

They are always jealous of people who are talented, but they don't know how to reflect on their own shortcomings. Sometimes, they will do things to hurt people who are more talented than them. So if you have such people around you, you don't have to show your talents in front of them, otherwise, it will bring unnecessary trouble.

5.I like to be suspicious, I always like to guess something, I have very little trust in others, and I only believe in myself. I don't believe that the people around me will worry about their own affairs, and always think that others have ulterior motives and have other needs.

They are always suspicious and like to analyze the psychology of others.

These 5 "calculating" behaviors of men are all manifestations of loving you deeply!

Financially calculating is a very common problem, and if your boyfriend is financially calculating and needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, here are some suggestions:

1.Communication: First of all, it is recommended that you communicate with your boyfriend to understand why he is concerned and whether he has a specific reason or background. At the same time, you can also express your thoughts and feelings and see if you can find a common solution. Insight.

2.Understanding: If your boyfriend is struggling because of family background or other reasons, you need to understand his situation and situation, and try to find a balance that meets both his needs and yours.

3.Evaluation: If your boyfriend's worries have affected your relationship and life, you need to re-evaluate your relationship and whether there are prospects for the future. If you have very different lifestyles and values, then you may want to consider breaking up and selling your manuscript.

4.Trust: Financial constraints can be due to a lack of trust, and a relationship of mutual trust and respect needs to be established. You can work with your boyfriend to develop some common economic principles and plans, enhance communication and collaboration, and enhance trust and security.

5.Seek professional help: If your boyfriend's worries have affected his life and emotional well-being, you need to consider seeking professional help, including a psychological counselor, financial planner, etc., to help him solve problems and improve his self-awareness and management skills.

In conclusion, financial scheming can have a negative impact on a relationship, and it needs to be addressed through communication, understanding, trust, and joint planning. If the problem cannot be resolved, consider breaking up or seeking professional help.

At 14 o'clock, there was a man in a hurry carrying luggage.

Said it was too hot outside, come and sit in the store to cool off for a while. I acquiesced, after all, the sun is very strong outside, so let him cool down!

After a while, he asked how much it cost to surf the Internet for an hour, and I told him: "Temporary card is 6 yuan, membership yuan, he is too expensive and left".

After a while, Qinghu came again, saying that it could be cheaper, 12 yuan for three hours, I said no, the membership price is also it, it is unfair to others, he talked for a while, and then saw the snacks on the shelf, 2 yuan pack, he said 15 3 hours to send me a bag of food, I said no.

He took his duffel bag and walked ...... again

After a while, he came again and said if you could give him a pack of snacks in three hours, was there a 1 yuan pack, I said there was 1 pack, but he didn't send it, he said, "Give me 1 pack?" I said

15 3 hours is already very cheap, cheaper than other people's membership price", he grinded for a while, and said to give him 1 pack, I said do you have to take advantage of his 1 yuan? He said, "I want to eat."

I thought to myself, "A big man, who thought he was about fifty years old, for 1 yuan, 2 yuan, and for food, give me two or three trips here, and if it were me, I would rather be hungry and thirsty than do this again and again."

When I had this opinion about him, I disagreed. It doesn't matter if he is really 1 or 2 yuan short, but he is not because of these, so I don't agree.

I'm sure that other Internet cafes turned around twice, and they all agreed to stop him, and came again, if you are willing to go up, open it for him, and if you don't want to, forget it.

He finally drove for 15 3 hours, and it was the first time he opened *** for someone else. It was pure kindness, but I didn't expect this man to be so calculating.

When I look at my ID card, I'm not old, the post-80s generation is that the years are obvious on his face, or maybe it's because he's too careful!

A person is open-minded, don't be too stingy, you think you are very smart and take advantage of a few yuan, in fact? If you make your heart smaller, you can't make a big deal!

The above is purely a personal opinion.