How to face the calculating true love?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-23
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are more worries, the more you lose, and sometimes, you think too much, and the more troubles you will have. The reason why I am tired and calculating is that I often hover between persistence and giving up, and I am undecided. The reason why people are troubled is that they have a good memory.

    The reason why people are unhappy is that they worry too much. The reason why people are tired is because they think too much.

    Between lovers, it really shouldn't be a matter of care. Big and wide, people should not be careful with each other. However, when it comes to doing things, some things are more rigorous, and there is no fault in the slightest, and they must be taken into account.

    Therefore, there are two sides to everything, and this kind of person still has merit as long as he can take advantage of the situation.

    If you are a more dedicated man in your relationship, if you are careful in life, then you have to adjust it. Love makes you calculating, only you want to grasp it more, but you have to give the other party some space, or you will lose him or her, remember that the person who really cares about you will not leave, and will not give up because of your little mistake.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The true love that is calculating is very tiring, and it depends on whether the partner's personality can adapt to it. Some people are willing to eat like food, and some people are afraid of it like a tiger, and they don't generalize.

    Gentle personality, can tolerate and think openly, think that it is a kind of character, can change, can not change, all adults, some character habits are deep-rooted, but also want to have a meeting, tolerance, communication and accommodation.

    Some irritable or other unbearable ones will quarrel with the pounds, but those who are okay after the quarrel can live a lifetime.

    In fact, the important thing for people to communicate with others is to be tolerant and compromised, whether it is to be tolerant and compromise or noisy, in fact, a balance is achieved through communication, either after communication to compromise and tolerate each other or to tolerate and compromise after noisy. But don't let one party make a grievance and compromise, this is only temporary, it is a negative emotion, and it will either hurt others or hurt yourself for a long time.

    In short, the important thing for people is communication, and if you can't compromise with each other, you can't be forced to tolerate each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's true love, why bother. Because your true love is his whole world. In fact, society is very simple, and what is complicated is people's hearts.

    It doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong!Life is short. The human heart is relative, exchanging truth for truth.

    Moved with emotion!Fate is not long or short, but in heart-to-heart. When the wind and rain, you can see the truth.

    Only in the plain can we see the truth.

    Emotional matters, don't talk about who is high and who is low, a pity, a reluctance; True love, why care about who is right and who is wrong, a kind of love and pity, a kind of willingness. It is the heart that knows cold and heat; What does not leave is love; For a lifetime, it is love.

    True love, why bother! To the world, you and I are one person: but to someone, you are her whole world! Or even the whole of life! It's very important!

    Love is the truth of thoughtfulness and warmth, and love is the love of accommodation and cherishment; Hot tea when you are tired is moving, and companionship when you are depressed is satisfaction. wind, frost, snow and rain, willing to go together; Difficulties and ups and downs, never leave; Noisy and always accommodating! Never give up! Always with us!

    Life is like a big dream, and when you wake up, you still see the light of the long river of time, that is, the true love in the world. True love is the whole world of each other. Along the way, I crossed the thorny jungle and flowed through the rapids and rapids, in order to pursue the romance of the road ahead and have the company of love, so I don't seem lonely.

    Love is the truth of thoughtfulness and warmth, and love is accommodating and cherishing. wind, frost, rain and snow, hand in hand; Difficulties and ups and downs, never give up. Although there are no waves in fate, the scenery left in my heart is very wonderful.

    A famous person once said: Everything in the world is an encounter. When cold meets warm, there is rain; When winter meets spring, there are years; Heaven meets earth, and there is eternity; When a man meets a man, he has life.

    It can be said that meeting is an accident in life, and parting is the normal state of life. True love, why should it care about who is right and who is wrong, one is pity, and the other is wishing. On the road of life, the emperor has his own arrangements, there is always a soul dependent on the person, through the vast sea of people to meet you, this is true love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Objectively speaking, there is no conflict between calculating and true love, but it needs to be divided into situations.

    If you were together before, he was still a very generous person, and now because the economy does not allow it, you can only rely on two people to save money to buy a house and a car, then the pound may just be because of excessive pressure, which is understandable.

    If you have been together since the beginning, he has always been calculating, if he buys you milk tea, you must invite him to drink it back; If he invited you to hot pot at the last meal, he must let you treat you to a meal that is almost the same at the next meal; If you want to drink Coke, but he simply ignores your preferences and directly buys a large bottle of C'estbon for 3 yuan, to tell you that it is cheap and large, and it is likely that it is really not true love, because it is impossible for a person who loves you to forget your simplest preferences.

    You have to distinguish whether it is him or just his love for you, if you are not even willing to give love, then how can you be willing to pay money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are two possibilities for calculating, one is that it is really true love, and it is too much to care about the other party and not be hurt a little. It is also your blessing to meet this kind of true love, and you will also tolerate her with sincerity, and when he feels more love, he will naturally not just care. The other is difficult to distinguish whether it is true love or not, and likes to be careful about everything, for fear of losing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In the face of calculating love, at this time you have to consider whether the other party is true love for you, otherwise how can you be calculating, you have to accommodate the other party and have to be accommodating.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you have true love, you don't care, cherish each other, love each other, you don't feel anything about it, you really have spiritual skills, that's not true love, or you tolerate him, understand more, communicate more, treat him well, and slowly influence him to love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Couples still have to worry about each other, this is not true love, true love should be to understand each other and tolerate each other. Accommodating to each other. It's just that couples still have to worry about each other, or consider each of them to find a suitable other half!

    So the above is how to deal with true love that cares about everything! Hope it helps, hope, thank you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Okay, marriage needs to be tolerant and caring for each other, not too careful, well, slowly smooth out your temper, care for each other, and true love for each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think mature love refers to having a common view of love with each other, and everyone will not be careless because they didn't give gifts on their birthdays, but tolerate each other. It doesn't have to be a bang, but it has to be meaningful! It doesn't have to be forever, but it must be the most beautiful at this time!

    You don't have to be together all the time, but you have to be close to each other! "A good marriage is to keep warm together, not to intrigue", there are no great people between husband and wife, there are only pillow people, people who have been careful, may be people who accompany you to spend your life together, think like this, you will be much better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    True love is not harvested by calculating, the realm of true love is that each other is willing to give up everything for each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My approach is to try not to get along with him if I can't get along with him. But if you can't avoid it, be patient with him. But you can't make a mistake with him, and it's better not to conflict with him.

    Scheming people are very sensitive, and you should not show impatience. This is not good for you to get along, try to keep a good mood if there is already a quarrel. I choose the Cold War.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In the face of calculating true love, you need to have enough patience and tolerance. Two people must understand each other and communicate with each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I feel that in the case of true love, there should be no care, in this case, the general care is that girls and girls are worried about you, it is definitely not true love, true love is not divided between you and me, I don't care about pay and return.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In the face of calculating true love, it is indeed more tiring and nervous, and it can't make people very relaxed, but after all, it is true love, so sometimes you have to be more understanding and tolerant.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Appreciating each other and being tolerant and generous is true love. Caring for selfishness, being self-centered, and not accepting the imperfections of life, such feelings will bump and bump, and the emotional foundation is difficult to maintain, and it is not true love. In the face of "true love", the best way to face it is to let go at the right time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Anyone involved in a relationship, I believe that they are rushing to get married, therefore, in our relationship, we still have to study our love object many times, whether it meets the standard of whether it meets the standard of a lifelong partner. After all, if two people are not suitable, it is quite a terrible thing to be together for the rest of their lives. Therefore, if it is not suitable, it is better to break up as soon as possible.

    As the saying goes, long pain is better than short, break up when you are in love, maybe you will recover after a few months of sadness, but if you get married and then divorce, I am afraid that the blow to yourself is still quite large.

    We can take a look at some divorce cases, most couples divorce because of some problems that have accumulated for a long time, and finally erupted. Maybe these couples are not involved in the issue of principles and bottom lines, but in life, you and I will never be able to integrate together, which will still make these couples come to an end.

    In a relationship, if you feel that the other party is careful, my advice is that you should quickly stay away from such a boy, such a boy has the attribute of picking the door when he is in love, and it seems that the pattern is not big enough, then, such a boy will not give you happiness.

    People who care about everything or break the casserole to ask the end, are people with flawed personalities, and in the relationship, how can there be so much care. If a man spends $100 for you, you have to spend $200 on him the next day, isn't this kind of feeling very depressing? Therefore, a man who cares about it cannot be made, such a man in love, will make you feel heavy, if you enter a marriage, mixed with a lot of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you will definitely not be able to stand it.

    ComfortableWhether it's love or marriage, what you can do is to make yourself feel comfortable, and if you feel unsteady, don't get involved, and if you do, you should make a decision! Only in this way can you stay away from scumbags and bad feelings.

    In a relationship, you can't get along with someone who cares! It's sure to leave you with regrets.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In a relationship, it is best not to get along with people who are calculating, because it will make you unhappy every day and spend it.

    A lot of energy is spent dealing with small things that are calculating, and cherished time is wasted.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In the relationship, there is no need to get along with people who are calculating, this kind of person is more tired to get along with, no matter what the problem will be for you, which makes you feel very uncomfortable, and it is also uncomfortable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, because a person who cares about it will affect the relationship between two people, and at the same time, there will be various quarrels, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's better not to, because it is very tiring to get along with such a person, and it will also make you feel very bad, try to avoid contact with him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    We can't get along, because these people are not very reasonable, and they will do things that hurt us.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love is an ethereal thing, when I was a child, I longed for a beautiful love, and I expected the other half to be very good to me, and also very talented, but as I grew older, I also saw the world clearly, if I was not so good, I would not meet the excellent other half, but although it was ordinary, but I also met the other half of my heart, although he was not very handsome, but it would give a very good sense of security, but no one's love is smooth sailing, so do you want to ask will you care about love? Let's talk about my opinion.

    So will you care about love? The answer is no. There are two main reasons, the first reason is that he is a very cheerful person, he has been lively and cheerful since he was a child, and he generally does not take things to heart, which also applies to emotions, so this kind of big grin character will not care about the little things in love; The second reason is that the other half is very loving, the other half is very good, we met in college, we have been together for ten years, the relationship is very deep, he respects the opinion of everything, so there are few disputes between us, and love is relatively smooth.

    I feel that love is mutually tolerant and understanding, two people in love can not only take care of their own feelings, do not care about the feelings of the other half, this is unbearable, there is nothing to worry about in love, if this will make people feel very tired, and there is no good feeling, can not experience the taste of love.

    All in all, because the character is more generous, and the other half is very good, we have deep feelings, so we will not worry about it in love, I feel that if one party starts to care in love, it may mean that he is no longer in love, at this time it is best to choose to break up, otherwise both people will be very painful, and the beauty of love will be gone.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I won't care, I feel that it's rare to meet each other, so I will only cherish the relationship between two people, and I won't care about a trivial matter.

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