How did I get along with my roommates during the three years of high school?

At present, your environment cannot be changed, so only change your mentality, it seems that it is not difficult to say that it is easy to do it yourself, but if the people around you do not accept it, it will be very shocking, so, think about what you want, maybe you can find an opportunity to express your thoughts seriously, if they still don't accept it, don't think about it anymore, study hard, you must be admitted to a good school, don't let yourself be depressed every day because of these few irrelevant people around you, If you can't do it, just study, and don't fall in love because you're lonely. Be clear about your goals, the quality of the person is like this, and your personality must also be problematic, which is two-sided.

We're very similar.,But I only lived on campus in my third year of high school.,It's also full of unsociables.,I want to keep my own things but I'm also afraid of being lonely.,In fact, I finally fell in love.,It's really a waste of time.,Although I'm very grateful for each other's company, but in the end I still said goodbye to him not long after.,Reason tells me that I'm just a friend of the other party.,No more.,It's not good for anyone to go down.。

Although I am in school now, it is not the school I want to go to, the university is really beautiful, I envy my younger brother that he has been admitted to a very good university, although I have always been a person without a goal, but I know very well that there you can get in touch with the wider world, so, let go of yourself, use a little cleverness appropriately, handle things a little tactfully, even if you occasionally escape it, it doesn't matter, but you must remember that the future is good or bad to look at for three years!

High school students, not too young, should think like an adult, interpersonal relationships are a common topic for us when we were students, first of all, you should realize that not only you have this problem, your current state is not very good, it is not anyone's fault, it should be said that it is a matter of personal outlook on life and values, when your outlook on life is different from that of most people in the small environment you belong to, it is easy to lead to this situation, In the face of this situation, there are many people who choose to lower their standards for choosing friends and adapt to their worldview, but there are also many people who insist on their own opinions, so it is up to them to make their own decisions, whether to compromise or insist on themselves, there is nothing right or wrong or good or bad. I want to state again that I am a sophomore, I was in a similar situation to you, I chose to stick to myself, and then I was admitted to a major university, and I also made real friends in high school, I will say this, I hope it can help you a little.

Dear, this is also because of the different places, customs, and growth environments, how to say, I am now in college, and I have met a lot of different people.

Many people's family backgrounds are not very good, and because of this.

There are so many things that I can't tell them

After all, you're living in a public place.

There are so many things, and those who can bear it will endure it.

If you really can't do it, tell it. ~~

You're still in high school, after all.

A lot of mentalities are different.

What I can do now is to try to communicate with them as much as possible and find out what my own problems are.

Ha ha. It's pretty much the same, but I'm a boy.

I went to a school in the heart of the city.

However, the dormitory is full of students from towns and villages.

I went there from Guangzhou to read it.

A lot of unaccustomed at first.

In fact, if you are cheerful, you will make friends when you go.

Girls may be a little sentimental.

But if you really think it's difficult.

Then study hard.

It's a steady time to invest in this.

For friendship, it may be a lot to give, but very little to gain.

As for friends, sooner or later.

It's been three months, and the problem is more serious, so consult the teacher and change the dormitory.

It stands to reason that "I always take out the delicious food and give it to them" should have some popularity.

Maybe they really love to learn, so you join them and work hard.

To be a human being is to learn to adapt to a variety of different environments, rather than letting the environment adapt to you.

Summary. As the saying goes, don't hit a smiling person when you reach out. I don't think anyone would target someone who smiles at him.

No matter how big things are, they can be resolved with a smile. If there is a conflict with your roommate, if you have done something wrong, it is good to generously admit that you have done wrong, and don't have the idea that the other party does not admit the mistake and does not apologize, and even if the other party admits the mistake and does not admit the mistake, it is best not to appear. Admitting mistakes does not mean bowing to the other party, but a kind of improvement of one's own quality.

Good. As the saying goes, don't hit a smiling person when you reach out. I don't think anyone would target someone who smiles at him.

No matter how big things are, they can be resolved with a smile. If there is a conflict with your roommate, if you have done something wrong, it is good to generously admit that you have done wrong, and don't have the idea that the other party does not admit the mistake and does not apologize, and even if the other party admits the mistake and does not admit the mistake, it is best not to appear. Admitting mistakes does not mean bowing to the other party, but a kind of improvement of one's own quality.

Dear, do you still have any doubts?

How can I communicate with my roommates?

When communicating with roommates, you must pay attention to communication skills, do not hurt his self-esteem, and the most important thing is to be kind and humble. Don't be angry and shake your face, people have to be self-respecting. For example, after the lights go out in the dormitory, a classmate is sleeping, and a roommate is still watching a movie outside under the bed, and the short-tempered classmate may directly say, "Your voice is quieter, and you are noisy to death."

Some people will say that they have communicated calmly countless times, but the other party just doesn't listen, what should I do? To tell the truth, for this kind of people, there is no good way, except to take the way of countering violence with violence, I am afraid there is no other way, but this is not the best option, a dormitory does not look up and does not look down, it is broken, it will be very uncomfortable to live together, and the most important thing is to avoid tragedy, there have been too many such tragedies in recent years.

What I exercised was my endurance, my endurance. If you are noisy, I will exercise my anti-interference ability and concentration. Maybe school is the last relatively quietest environment in your life, and after you start a family in the future, life will be even noisier, what should you do?

Why not take advantage of this opportunity to exercise yourself. A lot of bad things, from another angle, you will be a lot more open-minded. What you have experienced now may be an asset in the future, and many years from now, when you look back on it, maybe you will be grateful.

1. Find someone who is good at dealing with interpersonal relationships from friends around you, observe how he usually has a good relationship with others, understand it yourself, and try to transform it into a way that suits you and then apply it to reality;

2. Dale Carnegie's book "The Weakness of Human Nature", which is a very good book that allows you to learn how to interact with all kinds of people, easy to learn. It is recommended to buy the original translation, not the translation, which is not written by the original author, but if you want to buy a large regular publishing house, the translation will be better. There are also ** on the Internet, but most of them are abridged and the content is not comprehensive.

If you want to improve your English reading skills, you can also buy the original English version.

3. In fact, what can really teach people to behave in the world is the various classics of ancient China, but Chinese works are more subtle and require strong comprehension ability to understand, unlike Carnegie's books, which are straightforward and simple to implement. If you like Chinese classics, it is recommended to read Mr. Nan Huaijin's series of books, you will have a great harvest!

One more word, remember: don't punish yourself for someone else's mistakes!

Good luck!