You love him very much, but, without him, can you go back to the life you desire, can the two coexis

can coexist, you have to communicate with him well, let them accept your truth, leave him, you have the life you long for but no love, do you think this is what you want?

Love is to be accommodating and giving, maybe you make a little concession, you can coexist, isn't this kind of life wonderful?

I wish you happiness.

Advise you to leave him He doesn't love you, he just wants to possess you, he has a strong inferiority complex, and getting married will hurt you

If he doesn't give you even a little dignity and freedom, will you be happy! If what you say is true, you must definitely give up this relationship! I know you're going to be miserable, and maybe he still loves you a little bit but he's deformed, distorted.

Listen to the advice of others, you will let your parents and friends implicate you in your wrong marriage? You're not free than going to jail You have to think about it ... If you make a mistake, you may not be able to turn back!

I'm not trying to break you apart.

I think I'll do it on the spur of the moment, but that's a very irresponsible attitude towards myself and others. It's better not to, or you'll regret it. Of course, everyone has their own pursuits and lifestyles, and the key is to see what you think.

I won't do it, if I love him, I should make him respect you and cherish you, but that kind of deformed relationship will not bring you any good results, you are still young, don't be stupid. If he really loves you, he can't bear to hurt you and let you be his lover, or go away, maybe you will be in pain now, but one day you will know that your choice is right and will bring you happiness.

This kind of love needs to carry too many grievances, not only to suppress one's desire for results, but also to face moral condemnation. Ask her if she is capable of facing these things. If not, it's better to break up early!

Don't do it! Don't be a lover, be a friend! And that kind of friend with dignity!

Lover? Isn't it just about having sex? Even if you have a loving friend, you can express and release your love in other ways, why be a lover so spineless?

Be friends!

No! Because this kind of love that does not see the light of day will not last long!

So selfish man, if you still love him, you will definitely regret it later!

Don't do it!

Because he doesn't love enough"Me", can not give his feelings and body completely only"Me"Alone! Moreover"Me"In this way, he will lose his personal freedom, and he can only sneak around, and wait until he has time"Luckily"Me, what's in it for me? Because of love?

Go to hell! Bet your happiness on a man who has failed his original partner, aren't you afraid that you will end up like this in the future?

So, I'm determined not to do it! I'd rather take my love, and regrets, and leave! Run away! I'd rather be sad than give up my dignity!

You're still young.

What is a lover?

Hehe. Give it up.

Think so much about what to do.

I think that anything can be created in the world.

If you handle it well, everybody is happy.

If it doesn't come out well, it hurts feelings!

You can do what you want, you want to do what you want, you will find a way to do it, and if you don't do it, you can only say that you haven't done enough!

Love is the same, if you want to have love, you have to fight for it, you have to create it, otherwise there is no opportunity for you not to think too much, the same and different, do it as you want, you work hard, and the results you want will happen!

When you encounter something, you will know if you really love you.

Do you know what you do about it? It shows that you don't trust him at all, and if you trust him, why should you be tempted? Otherwise, you don't have confidence in yourself.

First of all, you have to have faith in yourself, and also, if you want to know if he really loves you, you can ask him, why temptation? Wouldn't it be nice to say it directly? Believe in love.

Believe in yourself, believe in others...

Everyone will say I love you.

Feel it with your heart.

Start with the subtleties A person's quality can only be seen in the small things.

I don't care, it's a long time to get along with my heart to experience everything I do, every word I say, and my opinion on what you do, you can realize how much he cares about you, I want to try it once is useless, people have different thoughts and opinions on everything, so everyone will have a different reaction to the method and way you want to be tempted, maybe this temptation he shows that he cares about you, but for other things it can't be the same So don't test Love with your heart and feel it.

That's the most accurate thing, but it doesn't include your state of being aware of it

It's already broken by you, so don't save it, let your boyfriend go.

If you want to redeem him, then you must change yourself, you all know that he is heartbroken by you, then the problem naturally happens to you, it is recommended to reflect on it first.

Go directly to him and tell him that you love him very much and will forgive you if he still loves you.

Admit your mistakes to him, ask for his forgiveness, and then tell him that you still love him.

That's more difficult, you have to think hard to get it back.

You can have a good chat with your ex-boyfriend and ask him to give you another chance.

Are you sure it's an ex-boyfriend and not a boyfriend? If it weren't for the principle of splitting your legs when you fell in love with him, you had been in love for a long time, and the breakup was not long, you could try to redeem it.

First of all, admit your shortcomings and shortcomings, strive to change yourself, be positive at work, read more books in your spare time, improve your life and work ability, make yourself better and better, and let him know about your changes from your mutual friends.

You can ask your ex-boyfriend out, apologize sincerely, and show your determination.

You can talk to him, touch him with your love, and make him fall in love with you again.

If I'm heartbroken, it's useless for you to redeem it.

Do you have a current boyfriend now?

The key is how you hurt him, if it is something not serious, you can find a way to redeem it, if it is some principled issues, such as a green hat, etc., it is basically difficult to redeem it.

You are a junior, you should know your position.

You prefer what you shouldn't love.

People have families, they have children, and besides, he said that he loves his wife very much, and this man is playing with you.

To be honest, this man although he said that he loved his wife.

But what he loves most is himself.

The second is the wife and children.

And then you may not even be able to catch up with his friends.

Although you can die for him.

But so what.

The twisted melon is not sweet, why are you so persistent, after all, it is someone else's husband, or 1 million, you are too little?? If you are increasing the chips and see if he can give it to you He gives you 10 million and you won't leave him Hehe Isn't it all the money of the man at the beginning of the junior It's just that one million can't satisfy you Be careful that people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants.

As much as I hate it, I feel compelled to talk to you about something. It's your business whether you choose me or not, all I have to do is give my opinion.

Since you made it clear that you are not with him for money, then I think the 1 million breakup fee should not be good, because it involves the issue of human dignity. If you ask for that money, you will give people the feeling that "you bought it from him", which is not right. You love him, so love is noble first, and only right and wrong second, as for buying and selling, that's pure nonsense.

And for him, his only fault is that he fell in love with you outside of marriage, and the fault was betraying and hurting his family and his wife, so it was more like a good thing that he chose to break up with you. He told you that he also loves his wife, which shows that you are not wrong, and he still has a little conscience. So let it go, let each other return to normal life, and let that child enjoy a normal childhood.

You may not be willing to end up like this, but if you think about it, if you are his wife, you work hard all day to run the family, and your man spends time with another woman, what would you think? Give him a chance, let him atone for his sins, make amends, and let himself go. A relationship like yours is destined to be eternal, and long pain is better than short pain, so let's break it up.

Don't scold him for being a negative man, if he doesn't end his relationship with you, then he will always be a negative man. As for you personally, a breakup is definitely good for you, because it means that you have a chance to start a normal and sufficiently moral life. I can't say that extramarital affairs are completely immoral, because some marriages are indeed cages.

But since he says he loves his wife very much, it means that you are more or less taking a moral risk, and his marriage is not so incorrigible. As the song goes, find a good man and get married, you have to start your own life after all, and the sooner the better. If you ask me if I am hopeless, I can only say that it shows that you are not fully aware of the problems I have mentioned above.

The wise man warns us not to step into the same river twice, and this is my advice to you. As for whether you want to die for him, what do you think?

I think, a million to hold.

Then break up. It doesn't matter if it's with him for the money or not, because he doesn't care.

It doesn't matter if he treats you like a woman for money, because that doesn't matter.

What is hope.

What is called hope?

Do you want to get involved in his family? Or get him out of his family? Or let his wife and son leave?

Either way, it can't last long, does it?

In fact, I can see many things most clearly.

You get the idea. Indeed, that very vulgar saying, there is no grass anywhere in the world.

Why bother. There are so many beautiful things in the world, if you don't try how to be sure that what you meet is already a contract between life and death.

Why do you want to be a junior to destroy the happiness of others, is only your love love, and only your happiness is happiness?

The child is innocent, and since he says he loves his wife, why should you bother with others.

In fact, you can also have your own happiness, but it is not taken from other people.

Even if you take happiness away from someone else, someone will take it away from you one day, do you believe it?

To be honest, I really feel a little sad for you, if I were you, I would take the initiative to break up with him, leave the opportunity to make mistakes to her, and use the relationship of friends in the future, to be honest, when his wife sees it and is not angry, it is God. At that time, he will definitely get angry and say that you are wrong, but you ignore him, tell you what his wife is like, let him not leave him to leave, and let him go on the road, let him compare your good with his wife's bad, the general gentle will cry, and the poor psychological quality will look for death.

Anyway, the consequences are quite serious, when the time comes, their relationship between husband and wife will definitely not be good, and they will definitely divorce in 3 years at most, and then you will continue to communicate as a friend, don't pester him, until, one day you will definitely be able to have a lover and finally become a family. He's coming to propose to you, and you're promising him so that you can't be wrong.

It doesn't matter if he has a wife and children, it is because they got married early, which can show that you are still close, the years are not forgiving, you have more capital than his wife, and you can also have one! Maybe there is one person left (very likely) if you treat her a little better, and if you keep getting better, he will treat you like a treasure, and he will lose his temper and use humor to resolve it.

Don't get married to him until you get married! You also know what it is = say that it is the first time, so that he will be full of desire for you, but it is impossible to hope, he will come up with all kinds of ways so that you can make all kinds of requests to him, and more than 80% of them can say yes.

The most important point is, inadvertently bumped into him and his wife (shopping, grocery shopping, walking) or just his wife, to take the initiative to go up to say hello, now polite, his wife 75% will scold you, you don't care, don't be angry, and he reason, the louder he screams, the better, the more old people the better, I believe that his man will also come, and he will make a man's first reaction (family ugliness can not be publicized) so that he shakes out her man's ugly things, and after he goes back... Belch! I can't go on.

The most important thing is to leave him, you have to live more confidently It's not worth it to die, there is only one life in life, if it's really him who doesn't want you anymore, then don't pester him and say how to divide it, this kind of person makes you not worth it.

Maybe it will help you, don't think about it. Imagine that he is sorry for you, not that you are sorry for him.

You can see that you love this man very much. And can't help themselves.

The factors that you compete with are as follows;

1.The wife of the chaff. A woman who has gone through a lot of ups and downs together.

2.Child. After all, flesh and blood are something that many feelings cannot overcome.

3.There was a certain sense of responsibility within him. He obviously doesn't have any plans for the future to you.

4.People have a certain stable pursuit with age.

Maybe in that man's family, love is no longer there, but there is already family affection.

If he gets divorced, the children do not have a good environment.

So the suggestion is: you don't force anything, when love comes, you can cherish it.

When love goes, remember to bless him.

If you love her, you don't need to die for her, you need your blessing.

To love someone, you don't have to be by your side, as long as he can be happy, that's fine.