Why do two people still miss each other after they divorce?

Updated on society 2024-06-03
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    1Because you have lived together for a long time, and he has also brought you a lot of good things, making you happy and happy, and letting you enjoy the happiness and warmth of your family. He once gave you a beautiful love. He will be there for you when you are sad and will always be there for you when you are sad.

    Maybe it's just that I don't love you anymore. But you can't forget those good memories. You still have him in your heart.

    2 He once belonged to you. In your heart, do you think he's yours? And you will subconsciously think that she will always be yours and will not be someone else's, so you will always think about him.

    So much so that you can't forget him all the time. People always have the idea that if something belongs to you, it will eventually belong to you, and it will not belong to someone else, which is human possessiveness.

    3 One thinks that she is important, that she is the owner of her life, because you helped him a lot when you were together, and you think that he would not have a good life without you. So even when you're apart, you still pay a lot of attention to him, you just want you to be out of the same time, he's 15 still doing well, he's gone, can you still take care of your life well.

    4 In your subconscious, you still hope that he can live well. After all, you used to like her so much and loved her so much. The heart of the girl is still a fat girl who is relatively kind, and hopes that everything in the world will become beautiful.

    In fact, she knew that this boy would not belong to him. But subconsciously, her heart is kind, and she hopes that this boy can live well. Because sometimes it's really hard to forget to love someone, it's hard to forget how good he is to you, it's hard to forget what you've been through.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It should be quite normal to think about the other party after the divorce.

    After all, two people who were once so close and occupied a very important position in their lives, how could they forget it.

    People are emotional animals, even if they are cats and dogs that have been raised for a long time, they have feelings, let alone people. How could a person who was very close to him suddenly come out of his own world and not miss it.

    There is a shadow of a place in every part of the house, and I remember the scenes where you cooked together, watched TV together, ate together and even played with your children together. Things are still there, but people are no longer there. How could you not miss each other.

    In fact, I'm really not used to living without each other all of a sudden, because I'm the only one left at home doing some boring things alone.

    Divorce is only because two people have some different concepts and some different ideas, but divorce does not mean that the days with each other can be forgotten.

    There are many people who choose to remarry after divorce. The reason they gave was because of the child, but they didn't know that it was an excuse they gave themselves. They just can't let go of each other, and they feel that they still have love with each other.

    Unless there is no sweet memory in the marriage, all that can be thought of is the other party's badness, his violence, his abuse, and his machismo. It's equivalent to saying that if you deny this person completely, then you may think that all he can think of is hate.

    So I think it's completely normal for two people to miss each other after they get divorced. With the passage of time, and the fact that the other party never appears in front of him, he will slowly forget him in his mind.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Many people can't find true love in their lifetime, and in the end they can only make do with it for a lifetime. If you love him and he loves you, then how lucky you must be, how much fate you have to find each other. If you really love someone, even if she makes a big mistake, you will not hesitate to forgive him, and even after the divorce, you will protect her and take care of her everywhere.

    Life is short, you can find each other in the vast sea of people, you must cherish this opportunity. In this case, those external factors really can't stop you from being together, it may be very difficult, but people who love each other will definitely have the strength to persevere, and this relationship is the most precious.

    When two people are unable to spend the future time together, then, don't consume yourself in the marriage, and divorce as soon as possible is the best way to get rid of it. Because the more it drags on, the more it will make you feel like a dead heart, lose yourself more and more in marriage, and become less and less convinced of love and no one. But when two people really can't go on, divorce is the medicine.

    You can get yourself out of the torment of marriage as soon as possible, end the pain in your marriage, maybe it is more appropriate to be friends.

    Because everyone gets married not to be hurt, but to live a better life, since two people can no longer live well, then there is only divorce. This is a relief for two tired people.

    Some people get married because of the so-called love without hesitation, or love at first sight, or love over time. Or happily together in the love stage, willingly stepping into the grave of love. But after marriage, I found that the romance of love was gone, and only the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life were left, and both parties might sigh that the so-called love was dead, and they couldn't find the feeling of heartbeat at that time, and the marriage would inevitably suffer from the seven-year itch.

    So for some people, they still can't let go of their ex after divorce, after all, they are in love and can still be friends after separation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Even if both parties agree to divorce and can reach a consensus through consultation, according to the legal provisions of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code, they cannot be divorced immediately, and there needs to be a 30-day cooling-off period, and the procedure for divorce by mutual agreement is as follows:

    If the two parties can agree on a divorce through negotiation, both parties need to bring their ID cards, household registration booklets, marriage certificates and other documents to the marriage registration office of one party's household registration to submit an application for divorce registration, and within 30 days after the expiration of 30 days, both parties will bring the above documents and the divorce agreement to the marriage registration office to go through the divorce registration procedures. If one party does not agree to the divorce after submitting the formalities, the divorce application can be revoked within 30 days after the application is submitted; It is also possible to not show up for the divorce formalities after 30 days, which will be regarded as the withdrawal of the divorce application.

    If the parties cannot agree to divorce, either party can file a divorce lawsuit to dissolve the marriage through litigation.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Divorce is not agreed by both parties to leave immediately.

    No. Zhu Zheyu, lawyer, Beijing Daming Law Firm.

    If both parties agree to the divorce, it is not possible to leave immediately, because the cooling-off period system for divorce has been implemented after the implementation of the Civil Code. Therefore, only after the 30-day cooling-off period can the divorce be applied for and issued after the marriage is completed, and the divorce is completed at this time. If the thirty-day cooling-off period expires.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If both husband and wife agree to divorce, it will be easy to handle, and you can go through it as soon as the negotiation is completed. It seems that there is still a month of cooling-off period!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, divorce is not an immediate divorce after both parties agree to divorce. Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can get a divorce, because if both people agree, you can take your ID card and household registration book to the civil affairs bureau to register for divorce.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, both parties agreed to divorce, but there is still a one-month cooling-off period in the procedure, so that both parties can have a buffer time, and then they can officially handle it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, according to the law, there is a certain cooling-off period for divorce, and after the cooling-off period for divorce, both parties can leave if they insist on divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes before, but now it is not possible, now there is a cooling-off period, after which you can go through the divorce procedures.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not anymore, even if both parties agree to divorce, there needs to be a 30-day cooling-off period.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is now a cooling-off period for divorce, and it is estimated that you will not be able to divorce until these 30 days have passed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Legal analysis: The two parties can negotiate the divorce first, and if they cannot negotiate, they can file a lawsuit for divorce. After the divorce dispute is mediated by the relevant departments, there will be three outcomes:

    The parties reach a reconciliation agreement to continue the marriage; If both parties reach an agreement on divorce, children, property and other issues, they may go through the divorce registration formalities with the marriage registration authority; If the mediation fails, and one party still asks for a divorce, and the other party firmly disagrees, the parties may file a lawsuit with the people's court. Mediation in accordance with litigation procedures is mediation conducted by the people's court after the parties file a divorce lawsuit. According to Chinese law, mediation is a necessary procedure for the people's courts to hear divorce cases.

    Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

    Article 1077:Within 30 days of the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority. Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted. For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance, which is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income.

    The joint property and debts of the husband and wife shall be jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and shall generally be half of the person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price.

    In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; In the case of divorce by litigation, the lawsuit is filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has resided for more than one year, and the lawsuit is generally 6 months in the first instance and 3 months in the second instance. If the litigation fee for litigation divorce does not involve the division of property, it is generally 50 yuan, and if there is a division of property, the fee shall be paid according to the proportion of the property, which can be referred to the "Litigation Fee Measures".

    Gods and horses are all floating clouds, and there is wood and !! to ask about feelings

    Marriage is risky, and divorce should be done with caution.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Article 31: Where both men and women divorce voluntarily, the divorce is granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

    Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

    Article 34: The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy. This restriction does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or where the people's court deems it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People say that ten years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, a hundred years of cultivation can sleep together, two people can get married, it is really the fate of the previous life, although this fate is very short, but being able to be together is the accumulation of virtue in the previous life, why easily break this fate?

    After the divorce, it is still necessary for two people to contact each other, after all, two people who were once so close, even good friends will be separated because of quarrels, so they can start from friends, and there is no need to break it off like this.

    Although you can't be husband and wife, you can be friends, and you can ask each other for help if you have any difficulties, because after all, they used to be so close people, and they used to love each other and cherish each other, how can they easily forget?

    But if one of the parties has already entered the marriage, it is better not to bother, because it will affect the lives of others, or do your own thing, far away, it is better.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Whether or not to contact each other after the divorce depends on the actual situation and how the two parties view each other.

    1.If two people divorce because they are not suitable for each other, they break up peacefully, and both parties are able to let go of each other very calmly. Both of them are still single, and it is okay to be able to be friends, and it is appropriate to greet each other in the way of friends.

    2.If two people are divorced for other reasons. I can't let go of each other, but the reality is that it's impossible to get together, so I think it's better not to contact each other anymore. Letting go and giving each other a chance may lead to better happiness.

    3.After the divorce, each already has their own family, so don't contact again, so as not to cause misunderstanding to the current one. Because people are more sensitive, although two people are just friends, they may be different when the other party looks different.

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