I went back to spend time with my sick father, but what if he was getting more and more difficult to

You said that Dad has always been a very strong person, and his strength may have been crushed in the torture of illness. When a person is sick, they are psychologically fragile and sensitive. When your father is in a bad mood and asks a lot of things from you, try to allow him to release his emotions, and when he is in a more relaxed and calm mood, ask him why he asks you so much?

Let him voice the needs behind the emotion.

Dad's attitude towards you is very different, as well as towards other children who have not come back to be with him. It's really sad that fathers don't treat their children equally. Get along day and night, accompany every day, but do not get the kind words of the old man, and there is no child by his side, but the father treats him gently, which really makes people feel unfair.

How to regulate yourself, you can try to consider the following aspects:

1.Communicate more with other siblings and reflect their father's situation to them in a timely manner, although they can't be with their dad every day, they can often communicate with ** and give dad enough spiritual encouragement; At the same time, you should also tell other brothers and sisters about your efforts, so that they can experience your hard work, dad is everyone's, and the whole family should encourage and support each other.

2.Ignore your father's requirements, just do what you think you should do, the old man's requirements for you are just to express their inner emotions in disguise, and they can't find anyone else to talk to, so they express their requirements for you, and guide your father to say the needs behind his emotions;

3.As the saying goes, the old man is like a child, when a person is getting old, his physical condition is not as good as before, it seems to have returned to his childhood, he is no longer so rational, he will say some hurtful things to the closest person, try to treat him as a child, give him more affirmation and praise, and take care of his emotions.

I think you can talk to your father, first talk about your feelings, it is true that I was blamed by my favorite father, and I was still very sad. And then talk about hope. Sometimes, your father is angry, and he can't take care of your feelings when he feels angry.

I hope that my father can accept his current illness and be unaware of his emotions, so he can listen to the tape recorder or TV set to divert his attention. Think back to the good things you experienced. It's all a good way.

The conditions allow me to take my father to the park and lake to relax and adjust my mood.

You know, my father will always be the one who loves us deeply, he is not good at words, and he is more stubborn, but he is always the one who charges ahead.

The old is younger than the younger, just don't go to the heart.

We should be considerate and understanding, after all, he is sick, and it is normal for him to be emotionally unstable, try not to make them angry, follow their wishes, and let them feel comfortable.

Don't take your dad too seriously, don't pay too much attention to what he says, you can just nod and agree with whatever he says.

This close friend, when encountering such a situation, please don't be discouraged, face the reality, accept the reality, and face it bravely. There are a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, so you should go on strongly. You can try your best to make money, and then spend more time with your father, don't complain, you can only work hard to change.

If Dad's illness is able to **, just go to the hospital to check it, accept ** is the best way, if it is a disease that cannot be cured, you can only face it calmly, people, there will always be a time to lose your loved ones, think about what you can do in your father's lifetime, accompany more, or something that has not been done, quickly make up for it, don't leave regrets, regret the second half of your life, at this time, don't think about anything, just think about what Dad needs, you do what, remember not to leave regrets!