The most important thing in life is for yourself or for others

The most important thing in life is, of course, for yourself. Maybe you might think it might be selfish to say that. But if you think about it, you're living for yourself, not for others, so it's definitely a little bit more for yourself and a little less for others.

It's yourself, it's just that people may have a lot of meaning paid to you by the outside world, and you have responsibilities, but in any case, being happy and satisfied is the most important thing, but you can't be too selfish, and try to make decisions from your heart.

What's the point of living for yourself? If there is only one person in the world, that is oneself, helpless, and careless, what's the point? When we are a lone sail immersed in the waves of the sea, what is the meaning of our existence?

If there is no love in life, only one's own existence, isn't life a desert? I live for others, I will reflect myself in the happiness of others, I will establish close friendships with friends, grasp the true feelings with my family and lovers, only in this way can I feel the meaning of life!! Is that right??!

It's for one's own world, one person, one world. Only if you manage your world well, can you, the emperor, sit at ease!

It is worth it to pay for the sake of being worthy, including yourself, your best friend, your loved ones and the like.

It's too tiring to live for others, and there is a saying that "don't go the ordinary way" Everyone should have their own way to go.

For yourself, and for those who take you seriously.

If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed!!

With people roses, there is a lingering fragrance in the hand

In fact, for others or for yourself, you can find a balance! ~

"There is no dress rehearsal in life, every day is live". Occasionally, I wonder what life would be like if it was really like a video game, and I could choose to start over if I broke it. It is precisely because time has passed and there is no return, and every day cannot be recovered, so we must cherish every inch of time, honor our parents, love our children, be considerate of our lovers, and be kind to our friends.

Everyone's values are different!

Do you have someone more important than yourself?

Those who say that the ultimate goal of life is not for themselves but for others are either ignorant or hypocritical.

The ignorant only know how to live in a drowsy state, and they have no purpose in life, nor do they know the meaning of life. They just live to live, not knowing that life is about being the best version of themselves.

The hypocrite is the kind of person who is smarter than the stupid, he clearly knows that it is for himself, but he deliberately pretends to be confused, knowing that he can better fool others with lofty slogans and get more benefits for himself, so he deliberately says that it is for others. This kind of person talks about being for others, but in his heart he hopes to be rewarded for others.

Except, of course, those who are completely imbued with the spirit of selflessness and self-interest, who are not pretenders. Because they have this purely human spirit in their nature.

Nevertheless, in essence, they are also for themselves to fully unleash the spirit of their own nature.

Some people may think that I am a selfish person. It would be a mistake to think that way.

I also do my best for others, but it is only for the sake of being better for myself, because only by perfecting others can I fulfill myself, and perfecting others is also perfecting myself, which is fundamentally different from the short-sighted person who "plucks a hair to benefit the world", this short-sighted person only has himself in his heart, no others, and will not achieve the best for himself in the end.

If you are willing to give, you can only give up, and you can give up if you can give up; Crossing oneself and crossing others, crossing others is actually crossing oneself; "The opposite, the movement of the way". They do it for others and never ask for anything in return. But the rewards may come automatically, or they may not, but that's not something they care about and care about.

For such short-sighted people, they will never understand this truth.

Yes, there is still a gap in reality.