I m not wrong, my husband lost his temper because of my refusal? 30

Updated on parenting 2024-06-08
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you are also wrong, even if you don't like it anymore, people will invite you, so you should still give your husband face, and when there is a next time, you don't find an excuse to say.

    It's your fault this time.

    Apologize to your husband, I think you will be reconciled, and your husband will forgive you.

    You can clearly tell him to go next time, or call your sister and tell her that you had something to do at the time, find an excuse to ease up, or everyone will not be able to get by, do you understand.

    I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He's gone too far! From his point of view, he is also in a bad mood! But he only thought that he didn't think of you! Speak your mind when necessary.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You always say in front of your husband that his family is not good, can your husband be happy?

    It's not that you don't have the right to say no, you're making an embarrassing excuse after saying no.

    And don't follow him in everything, or you won't want to go along with it in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your husband doesn't feel a blessing to be with you, he just treats you as a habit.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There should be some contradictions between husband and wife.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    For this question, I need to analyze it on a case-by-case basis. If your boyfriend's driving pick up is just a romantic gesture and doesn't mean he can afford to provide you with transportation on a regular basis, then he shouldn't cause a fuss when he lets you take the shuttle. However, if your boyfriend has been picking you up and dropping you off before, and suddenly Menghui asks you to take the shuttle, you may need to communicate and understand further.

    First of all, you should look at your boyfriend's pick-up behavior rationally. This is not the criterion for whether your boyfriend loves you or not. Transportation is only a means of convenience, and for a man, love and responsibility are the best things he can give.

    If your boyfriend behaves better in other ways, such as being considerate and caring, responsible, etc., then if he lets you take the shuttle, it doesn't mean that he doesn't value you or doesn't love you.

    Second, you need to look at your own expectations and needs rationally. If you are used to your boyfriend's pick-up and drop-off and feel that it is his care and care for you, then he will naturally disappoint and disset you by letting you take the shuttle. However, as adults, we need to learn to be self-reliant, not to always rely on others, and not to pin our happiness on a certain form of behavior.

    If your boyfriend has a valid reason, such as being busy with work, etc., and is unable to pick you up for the time being, then you should also understand and support him.

    Finally, you need to communicate rationally and express your thoughts. If you feel that it is not appropriate for your boyfriend to let you take the shuttle, or you want him to continue to provide transportation for you, then you should take the initiative to communicate with him and express your thoughts and needs. At the same time, it is also necessary to listen to the opinions and ideas of the other party, and jointly agree on the next action plan.

    In conclusion, we need to maintain rational thinking and peace of mind when dealing with this situation. Don't be excited or impulsive because of momentary dissatisfaction, but solve problems through communication and rational analysis. If your boyfriend has a valid reason and is temporarily unable to pick you up, then you should also understand and support him.

    If the boyfriend has no valid reason but purely because he is unwilling to put in the effort for you, then you need to seriously consider whether it is worth continuing the relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I don't think you should be angry. You shouldn't be angry for whatever reason. You learn not to get angry. You will have a good mood and a healthy body. With health, shouting wanton thinking is the greatest wealth. The greatest hail silver happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If some of my husband's performances make me dissatisfied, first of all, I will definitely not choose to lose my temper with him directly, this Sakura faction needs to have a good communication between the two people.

    Everyone has their own personality, and everyone's personality has actually been qualitative for decades, so if you want the other party to change directly, or directly achieve what you are satisfied with, then I think it is impossible at all.

    Just imagine, even if you let yourself break a habit that has been going on for decades, it is impossible to miss it so easily, so you must understand him more at this time.

    Of course, I think that if there are some performances that I am really not satisfied with, then I think it is better to communicate with the other party about this problem and see what to do.

    Many people may get married to their husband, if once he does something wrong and makes him feel very angry, then he may lose his temper, in fact, this seems to be impossible to control, but when he loses his temper, he finds that this is actually a very small matter, which can be solved by communication.

    And now some women are actually very capable, maybe there will be a situation where women are strong and men are weak in some families, and then over time, women may feel particularly dissatisfied with their husbands' behaviors at work or in life.

    But in fact, we can't lose our temper directly when we encounter things in marriage, these things still need to be communicated to solve them, and tantrums can't solve the problem.

    If you are not satisfied with your husband, I think in fact, we should first reflect on ourselves, and think about whether it is too harsh to praise ourselves?

    If you are not very harsh, and some of your husband's shortcomings are unacceptable to everyone, then in fact, we can try to help them slowly correct some of their shortcomings, and don't be bored in your heart or lose your temper directly, so that the other party doesn't know what you're angry about.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't lose my temper, but I'll be patient enough to tell him that I don't understand these performances, so I'll ask him to make some changes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I won't lose my temper with him, and losing my temper will not help, and it will affect the relationship between two people, and it will lead to a quarrel between the two people, and I will be kind to him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, if I am not satisfied with my husband's performance, I will naturally lose my temper with him, say what he is wrong about, and then ask him to correct it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If I'm not satisfied with my husband's performance, I'll try to persuade him to change the situation, and losing my temper won't solve the problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's all a suspicion of arguing, what's polite? You can use your husband as your own punching bag, especially your husband, you can't let you be full of ants, you can lose your temper, but your husband coaxes you to reconcile in time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because she has the most intimate relationship with her husband, she is not satisfied with the performance of Lao Xiang Yinhail, and she must have lost her temper with him, and only in this way can she fight to let him behave well.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't lose my temper with him, I will communicate with him calmly, tell him that ** is not doing very well, praise him first, and then guide him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. The reason for this is because: You lose your temper with your husband, but your husband gets angry with you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore, there will inevitably be some bumps in the two in life, just some small things, everyone tolerates each other, each gives in, and understands each other, it's okay.

    Don't be too sensitive, your husband must love you, it's just that you have been under too much pressure at work recently, so that both of you are a little emotionally out of control, it's nothing, don't take it too seriously, just let each other be humble and pass. Dear, if you ask this question, you can also tell the teacher about your specific situation, and let the teacher help you judge and help you. I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life and all the best.

    I lost my temper with my husband, but my husband got angry with me? Does it mean that he doesn't love me anymore?

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    Hello, I lost my temper with my husband, but my husband got angry with me? Does it mean that he doesn't love me anymore? It's not that he doesn't love you anymore.

    It's just a little contradiction in your life, it's nothing, maybe you've been under a lot of pressure at work recently, and both parties are not in a good mood, so it's good for everyone to tolerate each other, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore.

    The reason for this is because: You lose your temper with your husband, but your husband gets angry with you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore, there will inevitably be some bumps in the two in life, just some small things, everyone tolerates each other, each gives in, and understands each other, it's okay. Don't be too sensitive, your husband must love you, it's just that you have been under too much pressure at work recently, so that both of you are a little emotionally out of control, it's nothing, don't take it too seriously, just let each other be humble and pass.

    Dear, if you ask this question, you can also tell the teacher about your specific situation, and let the teacher help you judge and help you. I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life and all the best.

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