Getting married or breaking up, what would you choose?

Updated on society 2024-06-27
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think living together before getting married, first of all, is a mistake, now you propose to sacrifice everything, don't care about everything, marry him, he is not married to you, I really doubt that your boyfriend really loves you, I think a man, if he really loves you, he will definitely want to give you a home, saying that there is a home, it is not easy, you can not care about whether you have money, do not care about whether you set up a banquet, it can be seen that you are deep enough for him, he is a normal man, he should be grateful to you, after all, There are too many realistic things in married life, have you ever thought about it, really as he said, he doesn't want to get married so early, and in a few years, he can't fulfill his statement, so will you wait, after all, men are still very sought-after when they reach their thirties, and we women, youth flows away like this, I say this, maybe it hurts your heart, but, a woman who is deeply in a relationship, IQ and rationality are very low, since you can't be sure that this is a happiness, just let it go, Isn't it good to let yourself live happily and freely, such days are really tiring and tiring. I hope the subject can think twice, I say so much, it is nothing more than to give you some advice and suggestions, and you have to call the shots in everything, I sincerely hope that you can be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is possible that he has a strong sense of self-esteem and a strong sense of responsibility, and is afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness in the future.

    It's possible that he just doesn't want to get married and wants to be free for a few years.

    You look at the situation analysis yourself, avoid suspicion, and focus on qualitative! ~

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is vigorous, and there is no concern for walking!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone is very puzzled, why is it easiest to break up before getting married? Yes, in fact, we all know that we need to spend our lives together after marriage, so before we get married, if we find that we have some problems with each other that we absolutely can't accept, then we will definitely choose to break up, because I have lived so long in my life, I must not be able to choose to wronged myself. In addition, before getting married, everyone also felt that there were some things that they could never bear, and they also touched their bottom line.

    At this time, most people will not choose to endure such a thing.

    Everyone thinks that marriage is not child's play, in fact, many people have their true colors exposed before they get married. If we get married in a daze, then it will certainly not be very comfortable in the following days. If, before I get married, I find that two people are not living very differently, then I will ask each other to correct it.

    But if two people really can't run in, then there is no need for this marriage to continue. In the next married life, the two will definitely quarrel over these little things.

    Marriage requires two people to sustain each otherThere was a girl who found that her boyfriend often habitually gave bad reviews to others before she got married. So the girl chose to break up the marriage contract with her boyfriend, because in the girl's mind, she thought that her boyfriend was very irresponsible and very stingy, so she chose to break up. Marriage is not child's play, and everyone chooses to break up before getting married, definitely not because of one or two small things.

    Be sure to find a person who suits you Most young people are very sensitive to marriage now, so at this time, if the other party is not the person they want, they will definitely not choose to communicate with each other. Before getting married, it was possible to find out that each other was not what they wanted, and that person was still more fortunate, and if it was found out after marriage, then it would definitely hurt him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think the easiest reason for me to break up before marriage is the disapproval of both parents, and it is easy to cause conflicts in the future without the blessing of the elders.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I think if I had been in a relationship with a lot of disappointments and didn't trust each other at all, I would have decided to break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nowadays, with the increase of social pressure, many couples will face various expenses such as house, car, and bride price before marriage, and this is the most likely to lead to the bride price problem for couples. Many couples often quarrel because of the bride price at the moment before marriage, one party wants a lot, and the other party wants less, which is the sudden point of contradiction. In fact, I think that marriage is a life for two people, and the bride price is a formality, which means that it is okay, but it is too entangled in how much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because when you are in love, you don't have to think about too many things, and when you get married, there are many things to consider, and it is these things that make both parties and their parents disagree with the relationship between the two, which leads to the breakup of the two.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Probably because of emotional discord, when you find emotional discord before marriage, you are the most likely to break up impulsively.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it should be the other party's attitude towards my family, after all, after marriage, we have to contact often, and if he has an opinion about my family, there will definitely be a big difference.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's a change of heart, if the other party doesn't change his mind, I think he still won't give up, it's still acceptable, and he will never give up, but if he changes his mind, then I will decide to break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The first is that there is a serious problem with the three views of two people, and when it comes to the same thing, two people have completely different ways and methods.

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