I had a conflict with BF about the decoration, and I didn t care about it at all, right?

Gambling is angry, but you can't just leave it alone.

I think you're all getting married.

There's no need to raise bars and quarrel with each other.

Back off with each other, I think according to what you said, your boyfriend has been giving in.

Maybe he's just as distressed now.

Be considerate of each other and tolerate each other.

You can consult with each other and come up with a mutually acceptable plan.

Or you divide the work and one person designs a small part.

Tell each other clearly what they like and what they don't like.

Let the other party take it into account when designing.

Give him a **, contradictions are contradictions, but you can't leave it alone

Oh I and bf wanted to buy a refrigerator before the break, I like a Siemens one but a little expensive, my boyfriend considered it quite realistically, because we may use it for two or three years to throw away, and it is not convenient to move, so he said to buy a cheaper Xiaoice box, a friend helped me analyze it, even if even depreciation, power consumption is counted, buying a poor refrigerator is also more cost-effective than buying a good one, because we finally settled in ** is really undecided, is to buy a temporary thing, hehe Although I know that what he said makes sense, But because of my own personality, I like to buy better things, but I think that the problem I consider is really reasonable, so I agreed with him sullenly, but when he saw that I was unhappy, he said that LP happiness is the most important thing, go buy what you want to buy that hehe, he suddenly felt guilty again, but I didn't want to buy that Hehe, and finally we compromised and bought a between.

Maybe this can give you a hint that two people have to think about each other, hehe.

Let's just hold each other! People who are about to get married!

You can talk to your boyfriend! Like where to listen to me! Where he takes doctrine! In this way, you can have your favorite without having to quarrel! Right!

Life is for two people to run together!

Even life is an art!

I wish you a happy life as a young couple!

You two ... It's willful... I didn't even do the most basic conditions of married life.

But it's nothing... It's good when you get married. Marriage is like that.

Slowly run in. Integrate each other's temper attributes.。。 That's it.

As for the decoration... Why don't you care?。。。 Just quarrel with him.

But don't be really angry. Isn't it fun to think of? Occasionally spoil with him.。。

I don't believe he's so hard-hearted to reject you? Let's talk about the method... Huh

I wish you all a happy wedding.

Why are you going to get married, and I don't know how to think about things from the other party's point of view

He does what he likes

If it's me, I don't care what color it is, my wife likes it, it's good @

Actually, there's a very simple way, you call someone who studies decoration or design to help you choose, and if you have any advice from your boyfriend, you can talk to someone who understands this, and you ask them to choose a piece of furniture that meets your boyfriend's requirements and is eye-catching.

I think marriage is a common thing for two people, and in the future it will be two people living together in the house, no one can constitute a family, for the decoration of the house, I think both people should actively participate, if there are differences can be negotiated, do not quarrel, as long as two people really love each other, they will accommodate each other without complaints, what do you think?

I think it's a communication between two people, you can put forward your opinions and opinions euphemistically, don't quarrel at every turn, if you really don't care, he will definitely be unhappy, I think the two of you have to tolerate each other, tolerate, haha, don't write, I'm not married yet.

I think that the person who came is about to get married If it weren't for the AA system, I don't think the money should be divided so carefully Who paid the money What's wrong Which parent pays the money for the good of their children Indirectly for the good of his object Since it's just for the better life of his own children Then as a child, he shouldn't use this as a capital to raise his status in the family If you feel that your partner is not good, you don't have to get married Since you think it's good, you should be equal Both people are designers Is the design concept of those two people the same as the design style that they are good at, think about whether this is what they are good at, and use "professionalism" to decide who is the sovereign of home decoration Isn't that okay?

The future home belongs to the two of you, and no matter who pays for it, you have the right to have your own ideas about where you will live in the future. If that's the case, I think your boyfriend is too ungentlemanly, how can he not give an opinion about you. A bit machismo.

Now it's not about arguing, it's about communicating. Otherwise, this kind of thing will happen again in the future, that is, you have to listen to him for everything.

Well, in fact, it's really not that serious, of course, men should be generous, both sides make some concessions, for such a little thing should be a little bit unworthy of the feelings of both parties, besides, decorating the house, now it is this style, I don't want it in the future, what's the matter with doing it again, I have to communicate well.

It's not right to be tired, when you get bored, it's over, the important thing is the mentality, men and women want to last for a long time, only women compromise, isn't it.

Don't be angry, they decorate it for anything. In the future, if you have the conditions to change the two people, you will have the right.

That's what they think, it's not good for you to quarrel now, bear with it in the future.

Can you look back and see if you all came with anger from the beginning? If two people want to communicate well, and two people are together because they are too similar to each other, there will be friction, and quarreling is not a bad thing, which means that you are expressing emotions, but are you still in love with each other? Love is good communication, it doesn't have to win

Isn't it easy to do, as a big man, you must think about your girlfriend. You say save money to live, but don't you think about living a happy life? If it is unpleasant because of this incident, and as a man, he does not show due generosity, it is really going to hurt his girlfriend's heart, can he still be happy in the future?

Your girlfriend is cold and afraid of the cold, in fact, you don't need your girlfriend to say, you should have thought of this earlier, like Borui air can be heated ** is not expensive now, Gree Dajin or something is okay, it is still important to live happily, and it is not for this little thing to affect the relationship. It's a little exciting, but it's also for your good

What others think is not particularly important, you think you are doing the right thing, but you can't hurt yourself and others.

It's all at this time, don't hesitate, you have to think clearly Getting married is a long, long thing to be together You have to make sure that you can put up with him for a long, long time At this time, it will be easier to break up than to divorce later. I'm a living example, I didn't want to be with her before I got married to my wife, and I couldn't get used to her everywhere, frankly she was also good to me, I stupidly wanted to help her slowly get rid of her problems after getting married, the two of them might be fine after getting along for a long time, the sad thing is that it has been more than 3 years since I got married, and her problems have not only not changed but also added a lot, and now I don't want to talk to her when I go home, I am annoyed when I see her, if it weren't for the sake of my son's young age, I swear to God that I would have left her.

Because you don't love him anymore. You're doing something wrong with you.

It's painful to be with someone you don't love. Divide it.

It's also responsible for the two of you in the future.

Then break up quickly, it's good for you to be hungry.

Two people have been together for so long, it must have passed the run-in period, the shortcomings between the two people will naturally be exposed little by little, everyone has shortcomings, since they are in love, the others are slowly changing for love! I'm a good example, and now my husband and I are doing well, because we are inseparable from each other, we both cherish this relationship, and we will be happy!

How your mother-in-law treats you is not the most important, southern habits and customs in the north are not the most important, the main thing is your future husband, his attitude towards you and your trust in his feelings, and whether he can defend you at the right time, after all, it is your younger couple to live in the future;

But through so many descriptions of you above, I don't see that he protects you and your feelings when necessary, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mainly depends on the man in the middle to coordinate, if a man can't coordinate this contradiction, he can't protect you, can't protect your feelings, in the future, either you will always be injured, or your mother-in-law will be injured, but no matter who is injured, the family will not be harmonious, and the family must be harmonious to make people comfortable, isn't it?

This boyfriend of yours may be very gentle and respectful to his elders, but when the elders disrespect or even stab the juniors, he can't take a man's justice to resolve the conflict, but is silent, do you think he trusts your feelings? Does he have what it takes to maintain your relationship?

You propose to break up, he is sad, what's the use of being sad? If you're sad, why don't you put a little effort into it when your feelings are attacked? Isn't this sadness a sign of cowardice? A man who is truly in love will go for it, instead of watching love ...... slowly tear apart

Hope it helps......

It is said that if the parents can't do it, it's useless for you to live with him, and in the end, he will definitely listen to the fuck.

It's hard to meet such a mother-in-law.

In fact, this kind of problem is mainly the problem of the two of you, if you want to be alone, you must communicate more with the two of you, so you can foresee the problem and think about how to face both parents in advance. Judging by your description, both of you are more obedient at home. Once you start a family, it's actually two people, so if you can deal with it, you can deal with it, and the old man relies on coaxing.

My wife and I usually plan how to get to each other's old man first, and usually go according to the plan. As long as you and your boyfriend are in a good relationship, I advocate you to get married. Face life together.

Don't lose something good because of obstruction. In fact, when it comes to life, other people take up very little time, and you still live with your husband for the rest of your life.

This one... It's a little unbearable... Communicate with your boyfriend and his mom...

Hey, it's not good, the man doesn't think about himself, you have to be careful if you're a man who is afraid of his mother.

Mother-in-law Diao, you have to suppress her before marriage, otherwise life will be sad after marriage

1. All in the process of the street have a base list, you can check the bottom list of the two checkouts to see where the error is? Then recalculate, find out the problem after because there is a base sheet, so it is easy to correct.

You say that your account is not right, you come up with evidence, discuss with the company, and the company will give it to you, good luck!

First of all, you can communicate with the person in charge and the boss of the decoration company to solve the problem. If it is easy to say that communication still does not work, you can take up the law and defend your rights to solve the problem.

It's not much, no matter how bad it is, it's not bad for the 8,000, and you should borrow it if you have a loose hand for your children!

Don't you understand what your bf thinks again? Why don't you try to sit down and talk about it first? Let him talk about his thoughts? Tell me what you think. Wouldn't it be better for both of you to say this and then come up with a way to do both?

I think such a man is really not reliable at all, if you marry him, sooner or later you will regret it! Your father raised you so big, just borrowed 8,000 yuan from you, if you don't borrow it, if you think you can be worthy of your conscience, don't borrow it!

He's your dad, and if he had, he would definitely be kind to dad.

I understand your situation, that's how a girl is, he suddenly treats you coldly, it will make us cranky! And his casual words will also seriously affect our mood! It's normal for these questions to make us feel uncomfortable, but you also have to cool him down, or is he really tired and doesn't have much energy to spend on you?

After a while, the decoration is finished, and if he wants to treat you, then there will be a problem! Let it be, wait, if you bother him at this time, he will be very tired! Trust me to wait and see!

Decoration is very tiring, I don't want to decorate at all, which do you say is better? Would you rather live in a house without renovations?

The decoration is very tired, I have lost 4 pounds, I know. Don't think about it, you should understand him. It's for you, too.

This problem is the same as the fact that men should focus on work (career) and ignore women.

That's it.

It's okay, it's not with other women. The renovation is full of trouble.

The house thing is really tiring, you have to be more considerate of him. Imagine what it feels like when you are very, very tired, especially when you are tired and annoying and have not finished doing something, you will know why he is colder than before, it's not that he's cold, it's that a person only has 24 hours a day, and for a period of time, he may not even have time to think except for busyness and rest, but this doesn't mean that he is cold. Your mood can be understood, but the more times like this, the more you have to learn not to give him more trouble, he is working hard for your happiness, and what he wants to see most is that you should be grateful for the gentleness, otherwise he will feel that the more he works, the worse the result will be and he will feel very discouraged.

And don't say that if you want to show that he doesn't have to worry about you alone, "playing with others" is too simple and easy to make people feel uneasy, you can say something more detailed, such as who to play with, or study with peace of mind, it's very good, after all, you also have to take the exam. In short, give your future husband more encouragement and love, and wish you all a long life