In reality, I wanted to break up, but it was so painful

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Realistically. You should give up.

    Because it's not a family change that becomes a reality. As a matter of fact. That's how reality is in society.

    You'd think so. It's proof that you've grown up. It's no longer a child's life.

    In reality, we have to face a lot of things. Think about it.

    After getting married. What you have to deal with is the cost of the house. Everything in the house is bought with money.

    Television set. Computer. **。

    Coal gas. Wok. As little as a circle of toilet paper is bought with money.

    And then there are the children. Having a baby is no joke. It costs money to have a baby.

    Milk powder money for raising children. The cost of the child's schooling. The cost of the usual clothes.

    Dine. Everything is money.

    Not like a person. You don't even need to eat it. Is it?

    Think about it. You will find out. Now the person in front of you. It's not someone you have to rely on. The people you need. People to rely on. Is it the person in front of you? Can He give you happiness? Reflect on it yourself.

    I hope you figure it out soon. Love. What is love. Think about it. Is it love now?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten. No matter how much you love, there will be a day when you will go away.

    No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when you wake up. What should be given up will not be retained. Never let go of what should be cherished, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other!

    and not to be enemies, because they loved each other dearly.

    I love that.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You go back and tell him that I can love you better when I am stable and have money.

    I'm not trying to find someone rich, but I really want you to become rich.

    Tell him not to be too idealistic! Make some achievements and ask your future wife "I" to see.

    I can't even eat, and I love a fart!

    How do you call love?

    Is it love to talk about it all day long?

    Love wants to give each other happiness, you think about it, you can't eat all day, and there is no place to live, he still says next to you every day, I love you, I love you. What will it be? It's terrifying

    Let's be realistic. Women want a sense of security! Not only spiritual security, but also material registration.

    I'm sure you'll be happy, thank you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You ask him if you really love me and want to give me happiness you should cheer up study hard and find a good job so that a man can feel safe, you can't give me a sense of security if you play every day now I can only choose to break up, long pain is better than short pain, if you want to cheer up I will give you a chance. Please think about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're still so young

    You don't have to think about marriage so early

    It's good to work for a while

    Don't be in a hurry to cut off the words with him, slowly fade it, withdraw a little bit, and you won't hesitate when the person who really belongs to you appears

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Freedom occupies the whole mind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everybody can do that! There is no way to do it, just pass!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many straight gay men will reply, let's break up. But as a boy, if you really think that the girl wants to break up with you and decisively agrees, then you are too naïve.

    Here, I can tell you clearly - more than 90% of such girls who often break up frequently do not want to break up with you.

    Such girls are usually insecure, and at the same time, the boys do not show much concern and rarely express their affection for them. At this time, the girl will propose to break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't you feel sorry for young people to give up a sea of flowers because of a flower? If that's what you think, then no one in the world can help you.

    With her eyes on her body, looking forward, there are more girls in the world who are better than her, and she has paid too much in exchange for this cruel pair, why is this happening? It's very bad in my heart. As a man, instead of being despised like this, otherwise you can make a piece of the world with your own hands, and if you have money, you will no longer be looked down upon, and you will not be easily abandoned.

    Man, the most bitter, because you have to hold up a piece of the world, a man who can't even stand a piece of the world, and it is reasonable to be abandoned, otherwise turn that resentment into motivation, find money well, one day, you will thank me, and I think I will almost become famous by that time!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    We always think we can't give it up, but in fact we can.

    If you have immeasurable treasures, you don't have to worry about the copper plates in your hand, right?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why do you have to die? Nothing will be eternal, it will fade away, since you still have so many worries, you should not commit suicide, you go to the orphanage to see, go to the poor mountainous area to see, you know how lucky you are, to see with your own eyes and listen to people to say that the feeling is absolutely different, please give it a try, any troubles and pains will pass, if you are trying to be positive and optimistic, it will pass faster, good luck!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I like you, but it's enough, and I want to change my taste.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love: It's hard to say clearly, if it really doesn't belong to you, you should be open-minded, why bother with a point, whoever is separated from this world can live, and live better, only if you have the courage, the guts, and can let go there will be someone born for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Look at the Heart Sutra more Everything is a floating cloud.

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