After a conflict with a college classmate, should I go to a teacher to solve the problem?

I think it's very necessary to find a teacher to solve conflicts with college classmates, because at least let the teacher know that you can mediate after that, college is the most impulsive era of people, so even a little contradiction will cause endless troubles, because the university is loose, and there is a lot of personal time, and there is not much pressure, so as long as you encounter a little bit of your own anger, it will cause war at any time, but just find a teacher, Especially psychology teachers or some older teachers with more seniority, because they have seen a wide range of the world and understand the psychology of children at this age, so after having conflicts with college classmates, they must find teachers to help solve them, don't think that they know everything and don't need teachers at all or feel ashamed, teachers are all in order to make their students become talents, and they don't want them to ruin their future and ruin their lives because of a little thing.

I almost had to consult with my roommate on how to solve a conflict with my roommate, but I had a good relationship with them at first, especially one of them, but since I got my driver's license.

After the fourth, sixth, and other of them began to distance themselves from me, and then I felt that he didn't like me talking to other roommates and didn't pay much attention to me, especially when I didn't fall in love after that, and I became more and more estranged from them, and finally I didn't even sit with me, but I didn't think I had done anything wrong, why did they treat me like this, I can't figure it out, and I'm not a good temper If they continue to do this to me, I don't know what will happen.

Until one night I came back to the dormitory, and found that my towel was too dirty, I felt that someone deliberately did it, I almost broke out, but I remembered what my girlfriend said to me, don't worry about them, if the matter is really serious, then ask the teacher to judge, and don't fight with them, because there are too many roommate ** cases that have happened recently, and if you can bear it, ask the teacher to solve it. So it's necessary to find a teacher.

If it were me, I would still be able to resolve the conflict between my classmates, and sometimes it would be best if the teacher didn't intervene.

Compared to boys, the contradictions between boys are very easy to solve, and if you are dissatisfied, you will fart a big thing, either you bumped into me, or I think why are you so careful, boys are relatively big, there is no overnight feud, even if we have a fight today, but the next day we will drink together, but it is different when the teacher intervenes.

After all, everyone is relatively independent in the future, nothing can be serious enough to ask the teacher to solve, so the meaning is different, teacher, parents can not always be your harbor, everything has to find them, we can solve the things between ourselves, for what we have done wrong, we have to apologize, for others to do wrong, do not worry too much.

But compared to boys, the relationship between girls is more delicate, my table mate is a girl, he told me such a thing, she and another girl help A get the courier, because A wants to swipe the order, so many times those couriers are thrown away, but that day A mailed a computer, is a second-hand, relatively small, and relatively light, they don't know, and the result is also thrown away with the garbage.

Afterwards, their whole dormitory was different, and the atmosphere in the whole dormitory was particularly weird, A made them lose money, but these two people were very wronged, taking things for others, thankless work, and losing a sum of money, my table mate was also very aggrieved, and felt that A didn't say anything, who knew there was a computer inside.

In my opinion, when we encounter something, the first thing we think of is to solve it ourselves, if it is because of our own responsibilities that lead to conflicts, then admit it, we must have a mind, instead of finding teachers for everything.

I think that the university teachers will not pay attention to you, because they simply don't have the energy and time to deal with these things, generally speaking, they arrange the class to mediate, and in the end, if it doesn't work, they will find a counselor. However, according to my experience, the final result of the general class cadres is still the same, and there is no difference from before the treatment. Therefore, it is not feasible to find a teacher to help solve the problem, besides, everyone is an adult, try to solve the problem in your own way, and when you go out into society, you can only solve the interpersonal relationship by yourself.

Last time, my roommate Xiaoyun went to the counselor and said that he wanted to apply for a change of dormitory, and he couldn't stand another roommate Xiaopang, in fact, we couldn't stand it, but we didn't say that we wanted to change the dormitory, even if we wanted to change, it would be for her to go, it couldn't be the three of us moving to the dormitory. Then the counselor asked the squad leader to solve this problem, and then the squad leader knew, so he talked to Xiaoyun, but after chatting for a night, there was still no progress, and the squad leader didn't talk to Xiaopang, and the knot between the two sides couldn't be untied, so what's the point?

The last time I chatted with Xiaopang on WeChat, I was very curious to ask her about the previous things, and then I also told her, is there anything that can't be said? When I ask you, you don't speak. I said a lot more after that, but I didn't get a response from her.

Well, you will never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, and since one side is unwilling to compromise, then it is in vain for me to say more. It's a painful feeling, and the interpersonal relationships in college are complicated, and everyone has their own personality, and they don't want to suffer, so some things are destined and can't be solved in a lifetime.

Try to negotiate by yourself, and you can't negotiate with a teacher. However, they resolutely did not use force through their own consultations.

If you are an elementary school student, you should find a teacher to coordinate, and if you are old enough to handle the problem on your own, you should go to the other person to communicate.

Communicate with the other party, communicate with the other party calmly, and make things clear, who is who is not.

Oh, I think it's better to communicate with the other party.

Through your description, I think that conflicts between classmates are a common phenomenon in our daily campus life. When there is a conflict between classmates, the parents of one of the students on both sides will find the teacher, and the teacher will also bring the two students to their own office, understand the ins and outs of the matter, and make a fair decision.

I will not just listen to one side of the story, and arbitrarily scold and deal with students.

Therefore, when the teacher calls you to the office, you must stabilize your emotions, sort out the ins and outs of the matter, and when the teacher asks you, you must be clear and clear when stating the facts, neither humble nor arrogant. Don't be afraid to tell the truth because the other party is too powerful, but believe that as long as you are not at fault and deliberately provoke trouble, generally speaking, the teacher will not only punish you alone. If it's your fault, as long as you apologize sincerely, the teacher will definitely forgive you.

In general, when classmates have conflicts, parents just want to solve the problem with the teacher, resolve the conflict, and solve the problem for the healthy growth of the child in the future. Cherish the pure friendship of classmates. The average teacher can solve it very well.

If you are worried, you can explain it to your parents, (don't doubt your parents' tolerance of you) and let them help you solve it. Life is to make progress in constantly resolving contradictions!

In my opinion, you don't need to be afraid of this problem, because as long as you don't do anything harmful to your classmates, even if the other party's parents ask the teacher, you have a clear conscience, unless you cause some harm to the classmate, such as physical or mental, then it is possible to deal with you, if it is just a conflict, the teacher is impossible to deal with you, because there is no reason to deal with you. Because in essence you don't have a mistake either.

If the problem is not caused by your fault, you can directly explain the situation to the teacher and ask the teacher to coordinate and solve it.

You can also ask your parents to communicate with the other party's parents, as long as it is not a matter of principle, it should be possible to negotiate and solve it. Best wishes!

What's there to be afraid of! The parents of the classmates ask the teacher to deal with the conflict between you, and the big deal is that the teacher will come forward to mediate, if you are not tired of violating the law and discipline here, the teacher or the school will not deal with you.

You have a conflict with your classmates, and the other parent wants to find the teacher to deal with you, you are so scared, I don't know what to do, don't be afraid, the teacher is also reasonable, if it is your fault, knowing that the mistake can improve the great, then you will correct it, if it is his mistake, then tell the teacher clearly, have the courage to face, personal advice, I hope it can help you, good luck.

If you feel that you have made a mistake, you should be brave enough to admit your mistake, apologize to your classmates, explain the situation to your teacher, and ask for forgiveness.

Because of a conflict with your classmates, the other party's parents said that they would find a teacher to deal with you. In this case, you can communicate with the other party's parents and don't make a mistake next time.

Because of the conflict between you and your classmates, the other parent should just want to find a teacher to mediate the conflict between you and your classmates.

As a teacher, I will also objectively deal with conflicts between classmates and students. I won't take the other parent's word to punish you.

So you don't have to be too scared, too worried, you have to correct your mistakes. Take the initiative to admit your mistakes to your teachers and classmates.

You don't have to be scared at all, because it's normal for classmates to have conflicts with each other. Even if the other party finds the parent, you don't have to be afraid if you are reasonable. Both the teacher and the other parent are reasonable, as long as they make things clear.

There is no need to be afraid, the teacher should deal with it according to the actual situation, so if you are not wrong, then you will not be forced to admit it. If there is a mistake, it should be used to admit and apologize.

Don't be afraid, finding a teacher to deal with it doesn't mean that it will be bad for you, and the teacher will protect you well. If you think that the teacher has handled it unfairly, you can also find your parents to deal with it, and your parents will protect you.

Don't be afraid. If you have a conflict with your classmates, you must first distinguish between right and wrong. Then the teacher will not listen to one parent. In the end, even if you are disposed of, what can the teacher do with you? Penalty for copying homework?

Then you can communicate well with your classmates, and if it is your fault, you can admit your mistake well. Let him not make a big deal of it, and you can solve it privately on your own. If it's his problem, and he still wants the teacher to deal with you, you can explain it to the teacher.

Because you have a conflict with your classmates, and then the other party's parents want to find the teacher to deal with it, you are afraid that the teacher will punish you and panic, this is also normal, you can directly take the initiative to admit your mistake to the teacher.

What are you afraid of, you should face it bravely, if you can't find your parents, how to solve it, don't be afraid that there will be no problems, as long as you dare to face it.

You also find your own parents. Teachers can't just deal with anyone, they also have to be realistic. It's normal for classmates to have conflicts. I also have to learn a lesson in the future, some people can't socialize, and there is no need to fight for victory or loss.

It's normal for classmates to have conflicts with each other, and as a parent, you shouldn't get involved in this issue. Just react to the teacher directly.

Because of the conflict with your classmates, the other parent wants to find the teacher to deal with it, and you should apologize in time for this situation to avoid being asked by the parents. When you make a mistake, try to apologize, not dwell on anything else.

If you have a conflict with your classmates, you can communicate with the teacher well, so the teacher will judge the cause of the incident according to the matter, so don't be too afraid. You can talk to your parents about these things as well.

It's normal not to be afraid to get into trouble with your classmates, even if the other party asks the parent to find a teacher. But the conflict is a matter of two people, and the teacher will deal with it impartially.

Don't be too afraid.

Teachers will also deal with it at their discretion. You won't just take one side of the story. You make things clear and apologize sincerely, and the teacher will not punish you too harshly.

You can communicate with the other person's parents, apologize seriously, and if the other person insists on doing so, then face it bravely.

Talk to the teacher, be sincere, the teacher will help you, promise not in the future.

If the cause of the conflict lies with you, finding a parent is a must, and you don't care, it's okay.

You and your classmates are so much, but as a result, the parents of both sides, Mr. Xingzhe, deal with me, what should I do if I am so scared? It's a big husband, since you've done it, don't be afraid, just just bear it if you always look at you like this.

It's normal to have conflicts with classmates, but it's better to find a teacher to deal with it, which can be more fair.

It depends on who is the one between the two of you who makes the mistake, and then you can change the mistake.

If it's your own problem, you can buy something and apologize, if it's not your own problem, you must stick to your principles and don't be intimidated by evil forces.

I think the teacher should first understand and find out the reason for their quarrel through the surrounding students. Second, let the two people who are arguing say the reasons themselves, and let them analyze their own mistakes from the other person's point of view. If it still can't be solved, then call the parents to help solve it.