How do you build a guard? What is Caution Knowledge of Caution

When people ask you, think clearly about what you can and can't say, what you should say and what you shouldn't say, be cautious and be cautious, and sometimes when people ask me, I feel a little inconvenient to say in my heart, so I ask him, "Guess? "What do you think? Or blessedly, "Is this important?"

I don't think it's worth mentioning? "Are you interested?" Why?

Say something ambiguous, try not to be too clear and detailed, try to avoid the important and light.

Their questions are not exams and do not need to be considered for scoring.

It's also a good way to change the subject and talk about something else that doesn't matter.

First of all, the mentality should be flat! In the face of scheming people, it must be calculated and calculated, and it is best not to offend such people as a last resort, so as not to get into trouble. Of course, it's good to smile **, but in addition, you should keep a certain distance, but you can't ignore it.

Do "flickering far and near" so that he thinks you are very courageous, so that you can be better than others in terms of mental defense. Before you speak, it's best to keep in your head for a moment what you want to say, even if he says you're slow. Our great *** speaks, especially in public, and many times the speed of speech is slow, just because of thinking about what to say in the head.

One more point to add: the realm is the highest point of people's thinking, and reaching a higher realm is from this!

1. Caution, pronounced jiè xīn, is a Chinese word that refers to the heart of vigilance.

2. The behavior of self-protection (psychology) generally exists in the biological world, and the performance in animals is relatively detailed.

3. Vigilance has its advantages and disadvantages, the advantage is that the auspicious book can better protect oneself and reduce the possibility of being harmed; The disadvantage is that excessive vigilance will affect the banquet and get along with the people or things around you.

To be honest, it's a good thing to be unsuspecting, not to think about guarding against others, and to be able to really get along with people. This is a rare and precious thing.

Of course, everyone in this society has it, and it's not okay to be unwary of others, to be honest, you don't need to deliberately cultivate this thing, because no matter how you cultivate, it will always stay at the stage of talking on paper, and the person who really wants to hurt you will never write his hostility on his face, but it will hurt the relationship between friends. Besides, the person who really wants to harm you will definitely try his best to dispel the vigilance in your heart, and some things are really not careful.

Therefore, you must rely on your own wisdom in certain things, keep an eye on everything when getting along with strangers, always keep a little clear, and don't be afraid if you are deceived sometimes, because sometimes suffering losses is indeed a blessing.