He s not a good boyfriend, but I still love him, should I break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell you, yes.

    I'm in the same situation as you.

    It's the same with my boyfriend, it's not that he doesn't really care, he just wants to save face.

    I'm not as important as his face.

    Such a man is unacceptable.

    Girls don't be so stupid.

    I figured it out a few days ago.

    So I parted with him.

    There's nothing wrong with that.

    What about loving him? He doesn't deserve it!

    We should pursue our own happiness, and that's right.

    We have the right to choose.

    Give yourself a little time and give him a little time.

    Let him understand that he should be good to his girlfriend.

    Let yourself forget about him too, time will dilute everything.

    If, he gets better.

    You can go on.

    Wishing you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm also that kind of incompetent boyfriend, a lot like your boyfriend's situation.

    Anyway, men are enthusiastic at first, because men have the desire to conquer, but once things go their way, their true nature will be revealed. Men are macho and don't want women to interfere with their thinking, they all do what they want to do. Women generally have a kind of resistance to arranging things.

    I don't think he doesn't love you anymore, it's not that his feelings for you have faded, it's just that he doesn't want to do it like a shot, because he thinks it's too unselfish to do that.

    If you can accept it and understand it, don't give up on him easily.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't divide it yet......

    After all, it's a holiday......

    He may not see it, and he may feel strange ...... himselfDon't divide it, be patient and wait until the start of school, and then talk about meeting at the beginning of school, because there are many things, ** and the text message is not clear......

    Don't ......... on the spur of the moment

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love him, I want you to continue, love is not reciprocated giving.

    The love of two people is like sunshine and water, without either, love will not blossom and bear fruit.

    But not without one of them, love will wither, and it will have to wait.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'll give you a word, I said.

    Missing you is the fault of his life, and missing him is the blessing of your life.

    Such a man deserves to make you like this.

    You'll get better.

    I was like that at the beginning, and later.

    Time will make you forget everything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Divide it. Love such people.

    It's just torturing yourself.

    Let yourself go. He was released too.

    Isn't it better? Why bother

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you still love him, it means that he still has something in him that you are worthy of love, so it should not be separated.

    You yourself said that the reason why he ignored you was because he didn't sleep well after playing all night, and you woke him up and you were angry with you, and it can be seen here that he still has a child's temper, and it will be fine in the future, so you should guide him and take him to change some bad habits.

    I think you'll be happy that way

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I haven't changed since I realized it. If you lose your temper, you want him to coax. He accommodated me, and he was accommodating all along... Oops.

    A word of persuasion. It's better to break up, maybe it's really not suitable...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He's so impatient, he's not a man of grace...But if you still love him, it means that he also has many advantages. You can also try to hold him in the first place, after all, love sometimes needs to be kept sanity. True love stands the test!

    Believe in yourself, if he loves you deeply, he will come back to you. Calm down in everything and make a decision ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What else is this kind of person worthy of your love?

    After a long time, it will be bearish.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Get him back It's very hard to love someone And you care about him too much So you have to make him care about you like that In the future, you will think about simple problems complicated Men sometimes need their own space If you love him, try to understand him more As long as the line is in your hand You let him fly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You also need to be self-reflective.

    Sometimes it's not necessarily a good thing to push someone too hard.

    You should calm each other down.

    Think about it.

    See if there is any need to continue.

    Sometimes, just because you think you're still in love with him doesn't necessarily mean you're really in love, you're just telling yourself that you should love her.

    And then I forced myself to do it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell you responsibly that the breakup is right!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, to be honest, after reading what you wrote, I feel that such a man should not be wanted, and now it is like this, what will happen if he gets married. A woman has to find someone who loves him more than herself. It is better to think sensibly and give up.

    But it's easier said than done, but I'm just like you. Knowing that he would not be happy with him, he also proposed to break up. But I still didn't let go of my heart.

    You can only let time slowly calm down, maybe you love him now is just a feeling of getting used to, and you will forget it when you find another him. That's what I'm thinking about now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's just a thought on your part! Let's see if your heart still belongs to him! What about love and not love? You can't win 'em all!

    In a flash, the sea and the sky are wide. Stride away, don't look back.

    The geese pass through the sky, the shadow falls into the flowing water, the geese do not leave traces, and the shadow does not leave water!

    The wise man is happy with the water, the benevolent man is happy with the mountain, and the good is like water, and the virtue is loaded.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He doesn't care about you at all, and the breakup was the right thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hey, depressed, to be honest, your requirements are a little too high, that's just that you don't feel it, and sometimes you have to think about the other person. I'm sure he still loves you, he has you in his heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's right, sometimes you should let go, you don't need to be nostalgic, otherwise you will hurt yourself, believe in your choice, and don't regret it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    According to your requirements for love, he is not suitable for you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Many people choose to be with another person, not because of love, maybe just because they are suitable, or because they feel lonely. When we choose to be with another person not because of love, it is a kind of deception and a kind of harm to the other person. Some netizens said that he found out that the person his boyfriend loved was not him, but he didn't know what to do or whether to break up.

    So about me finding out that the person my boyfriend loves is not me, should I break up with him? Here's what I think:

    1. If your boyfriend doesn't love you, you will definitely break up.

    Two people can choose to be together and choose to fall in love, the most important thing is because two people have feelings for each other, and two people have love for each other. So if we find out that our boyfriend is not in love, we should break up decisively and find the other half who is happy with us.

    2. Feelings without love cannot last long.

    The reason why a relationship can be maintained and long-lasting, the most important thing is that Qingchang depends on the love between two people. Feelings without love cannot last long, so in the face of this kind of feelings, long pain is better than short pain, and we should decisively separate from people who do not love themselves.

    3. In the face of a person who does not love us, we will also have resentment towards that person.

    And when we find out that our boyfriend is not in love with Zhiyu himself, there will definitely be a resentment in our hearts, and we will definitely feel that we have been deceived. So in order not to let this resentment, not let this feeling of being deceived swallow up yourself, make yourself unhappy, and break up with a boyfriend who doesn't love you, it is the best choice.

    About me finding out that the person my boyfriend loves is not me, should I break up with him? That's my opinion. Do you think that if a person finds out that he has a boyfriend and loves not him, should he break up? Welcome to leave a message to communicate!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you find that your boyfriend doesn't love you, it means that your boyfriend doesn't cherish you. And if you break up early, it is also a kind of protection for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since you have found out that the person your boyfriend loves is not you, you must choose to break up, and if this kind of love continues, there will be only harm left.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Mutual love is the technology of two people's emotional maintenance, if two people do not have love, then two people together to have a brother will be very painful and difficult, you are not married yet, so you have more opportunities, don't do a thing that makes both parties painful, so you can choose to let go, if your boyfriend finds that he loves you the most after letting go, you think about whether to continue.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If, in the process of dating, you find that the person your boyfriend loves is not yourself, then if you are sure that God has decided this situation, you have to break up with him, and you should hesitate again if you don't search for it, which can only be the biggest harm to you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Your friend's boyfriend doesn't love you, so why are you still with him, because he is with you, you may think that you are a spare tire for the chain banquet and can take care of him, of course you are going to break up with him. Spike silver.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You find out that the person your boyfriend loves is not you, of course you have to break up with him, a marriage without love is unhappy, and if you don't love, you have to let go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This kind of must be broken up, isn't the purpose of finding a boyfriend to have someone to discuss Lu Qifan with someone next to the stool in case of early hail, and need to face difficulties together, and have someone to accompany and love you in the future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello, you have found out that the person your boyfriend loves is not you, then you must break up with him, unless you are willing to accept your wishful love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course it should be broken up, if your boyfriend doesn't love you, then there is no point in the two of you being together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should break up with him because he doesn't love you at all, it's just a waste of time to go on like this, and you should free yourself from it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you don't have children like that, I suggest you two break up, because if you don't even love you, then there is no point in being together at all.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since he doesn't love him, let's break up, and it hurts the most to get a person who can't get his heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If a man doesn't really love you in his heart, then decisively propose to him to find out the hidden hand, there is no need to waste his precious youth and time, such a man is destined not to change, no matter how good he is, he will not like you, or break up?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Yes, there is no need to continue this kind of relationship, and continuing to do so will only hit you hard.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Can you love someone other than you? But he is still standing up with you, and he doesn't break up with you, I'm sure you should break up with him quickly! Now the remaining barrage is not good in this kind of family.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course you want to break up, the person he loves is not you, why should you be with him? You deserve to be loved and you deserve to be a better person.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You can't choose to break up with him because of this, after all, it's just that you find out that your boyfriend doesn't love you, and your boyfriend doesn't really love you, and you can also use it as early as possible to enhance your relationship in the process of getting along with your boyfriend again, so that your boyfriend falls in love with you, which is better than choosing to break up.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This kind of pain is only you who stays around, don't force it if you don't love, let him go to the hall to find the person he loves! Letting go is also your own relief, and finding someone who loves you more will not be so tired.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love is mutual, it's up to you to deserve it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you find out that the child is not yours, but you love her very much, but she is still Huai Zhaoru and guess that you are together, there is no other idea, it is more excessive, and you can still be together.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

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