A girl confessed to me that I didn t like her, how could I refuse so as not to hurt her

I'm a freshman now, and you and I have the same story. At that time, we were both juniors in junior high school, but we both liked each other at the time. Every day, she fell off the list in the high school entrance examination, and I was also very average in the exam.

But that didn't stop us from falling in love. After the college entrance examination, she suddenly broke up with me. ......It's sad......So I want to say, brother, you can say to her, "Please focus on your studies, think about how long we are going to hold on now that we are starting to develop?"

Besides, we don't know for sure that nothing will change during this period. For now, let's stay friends. If we really have a fate, let's get together at the university. ”

There are a few junior high school students who have found a partner and become successful, and it's very simple not to refuse him!

Let's make a pact, if you can be admitted to the same high school as me in high school, we will find a partner!

Heaven is in charge, we work hard!

Learning, the time we are studying, although it is very bloody and everyone knows that it is fake, but it works, and it has to be refuted.

Child. Don't get distracted. You're almost away from the college entrance examination.

I still have the heart to think about it. If you want to be with her. That's also left until the college entrance examination is over.

If you reject her immediately. She must be sad. When she is distracted, you will be blamed for not doing well in the test.

You should encourage her. Work hard with her to do well in the exam. It was only after the exam that he said he would reject her.

She was sad for a while at most. At least I did a good job.

I was a freshman this year, and I had a similar experience when I was in my third year of junior high school. I think you are now coming to the high school entrance examination, and it is best not to tell her clearly during this critical period, because you both have to maintain a good mood. Encourage each other to study hard and tell her that the answer is after the high school entrance examination.

You tell him, "Let's talk about high school, you're going to the best high school."

Give each other a moment to calm down, and then think carefully about whether or not to be together.

Feelings are not child's play, and if you rashly agree, it is very irresponsible for this relationship. Therefore, after confessing, the boy should give the girl a calm time and let the girl think carefully about the relationship. And girls are also very hesitant and not very decisive.

You can also leave it for two days, and after two days if the other person still doesn't respond, you can send another message. So there will be a response to everything, and even if you can't become a couple, you can continue to be friends.

Knock on the side and ask the girl's friends.

When there is no positive response, the boy can also ask the girl's good friend, after all, the girl will always share it with her friends when she encounters a confession. Girls will ask their friends to come up with a suggestion and then think about it for themselves. So you can also ask on the side, and be tactful when asking, don't be too straight.

In fact, the attitude of girls is very easy to show, you can see it from the speed and tone of her girlfriend's answer. If the girlfriend replies quickly and says that the other person is thinking about it, it means that the relationship is really possible. On the contrary, if the other party does not take a fancy to you, you can stop looking forward to it.

Summing up, the relationship between men and women is like a tug-of-war, either you win or I win. So if you fall in love first, you are in a weak position and need to be judged by the other party.

You should sit down and talk to her, ask her what her feelings are for her, and if she still doesn't show her attitude, then give up.

I think you should adjust your mentality and continue to confess to him, because if he doesn't refuse or respond, it proves that he is in the consideration stage, and at this time you must launch a fierce offensive to be able to take down your favorite girl.

At this time, you must give up, because such a girl is indeed very bad, and she may have been trying to hang you.

This may be because the girl also has a good impression of the boy, so she doesn't respond or refuse after being confessed, because she wants to persist for a while, and she should continue to pursue the girl at this time.

Hello dear, objectively speaking, this situation is really not easy to do.

She will choose to ignore you, and she is really responsible for you. She had a good relationship with you as a friend before, which means that she still recognizes you. But if you confess to her and she refuses, it's really because she doesn't have any thoughts of a couple for you.

So she chose to treat you coldly, because she didn't want you to be cranky, and directly let you understand that she doesn't like you, and you can't do it. In this sense, she is a good girl who respects people. Like it, like it, don't like it, don't waste your time and energy.

However, your situation is now delicate. Objectively speaking, you definitely don't give up, and the reason you find for yourself is that even if you can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, it's the same as before. However, the reality is cruel and you cannot go back to the way you were before.

No matter how many reasons you find to approach her, it's really just because you like her, nothing else! However, she also knows. But as a girl who respects others, she doesn't want to waste your energy.

Because no one lacks friends in life, there is no need to say that you are hard.

Of course, I'm not saying that I don't approve of your confession, I appreciate your confession. Because being able to say love and pursue it bravely is really something we should keep, which is very good. However, the result of the confession was unsatisfactory and very sad.

After the confession fails, the girl ignores you because she doesn't want you to have any illusions, and she clearly tells you that she has no feelings for you with her actions, so don't pester her, find a girl who likes you.

Then ignore her, people have rejected you, and you are still pestering others, how embarrassing it is, and being a licking dog also requires a bottom line. Let her go, someone who doesn't love you, what's there to be nostalgic for.

People don't like you, they ignore you, and you confess to others. People are even more unhappy to see you. If he dislikes you, you don't have to contact him.

If you are rejected, he may just feel embarrassed, or he may just not want you to have a misunderstanding, if you think you can still be friends, then you can explain to him that it doesn't matter if you refuse, we can still be friends.

After the confession is rejected, the girl may feel embarrassed and embarrassed, and you don't know how to respond if you send her a message. Maybe the girl thinks it's impossible for the two of you, so don't delay any longer.

She rejected you, and now she ignores you, which means that there is no fun, let it go, and find other suitable girls.

There's no way because he doesn't like you.

If you ignore you, you ignore her, the more you catch up, the more annoying she becomes, you don't lick it, he may think of you one day if he wants to be cared for.

That is choosing to be a stranger.

The confession was rejected, indicating that there was no fate.

Try to be tactful and direct, love needs mutual recognition. If someone you don't like confesses to yourself, you obviously can't accept it. At this time, how to reject the other party appropriately is very important.

1. For a blunt confession, you can clearly refuse.

Some people are blunt and very impolite when they confess to themselves. ......For such a person, he does not have any good feelings, and it is impossible for two people to be together at all, so he can choose to refuse directly with a clear attitude. ......This will end the matter cleanly and avoid exposing yourself to unnecessary influences.

Some people are very good, but they are not the type they like. ......For this kind of person's confession to himself, he should take appropriate avoidance and tactfully refuse. ......For example, you can send a message to the other party to explain that they are not suitable for each other; For example, you can gradually reduce the number of times you meet him, so that the relationship between the two parties gradually fades, so that you can reject the other party appropriately without affecting each other's feelings, so as to properly solve the matter.

3. For the confession of a person who is not suitable for him, you can send him a good person card and refuse the other party.

Sometimes, the person who confesses to himself is very good, but he is really not suitable for his ......For this situation, you can politely refuse by issuing a good person card. ......Specifically, you can have an in-depth communication with him, fully affirm his advantages, express his sincerity, and explain to him the differences between them, and show that they are not suitable for each other's attitudes and ......With his quality, he must be able to clarify his attitude and choose to withdraw rationally, so that the matter can be resolved satisfactorily.