Why is it so hard to find a daughter in law? Why should you find a daughter in law?

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Marriage is a shortcut to a higher sense of "well-being". Choosing the right partner to marry is not only to find someone to face the wind and rain together, but also to make happiness present from simple and specific things.

Intimacy can give people a "sense of belonging". Those who don't have a partner and don't have children are more worried about it at a certain age because they no longer have a sense of belonging. It seems that the heavens and the earth are so big that no one needs themselves; The world is so vast that there is no place that can keep itself.

And the partner, in fact, is to replace the parents to help themselves provide a "sense of belonging" at some time, there is a place for each other, they have a home, a place to go, and someone is cute.

The meaning of a partner is only clear when you are old, because the "companion" of the "partner" is the usual companionship, and it is also the care of the other party when you need each other. Life is very long, and it is indeed chic to walk alone, but in the end it may be a little lonely. Alleviating this loneliness and letting yourself have something to rely on may be the meaning of marriage, when you really have it, as long as you feel it with your heart, it must be a beautiful thing.

When you reach a certain age, you will understand that having a sense of belonging is the happiest thing, and those worries will become the motivation for you to give up and help you overcome thousands of problems. It's not that the person who cares about it has the ability, but that it cares about it, and it will make you empowered. So now, when someone asks me again, "Why do you want to get married?" I might tell him:

It is not necessary for a person to get married. However, if you want to have something to rely on, then you have to enter into marriage.

Looking for a daughter-in-law is to find a beloved of oneself and then organize a small family. Have children together and raise offspring, and when you are old, you will have a wife who takes care of each other.

Why do you want to find a daughter-in-law, this is on the road of life, the person who spends your life with you, bears the difficulties together, enjoys the blessings together, and also for your family to reproduce. That's why I need to find a daughter-in-law.

Find a daughter-in-law because you can pass on your bloodline system downwards. You can have your own offspring, and you can be with your daughter-in-law when you are old. In this way, we can have a happy life.

Because if you are looking for a daughter-in-law, you can still let two people love each other, and you can form a happy family after having children, which can allow you to enjoy a complete life.

When a man gets married, a woman gets married, and when a man reaches a certain age, he should find a daughter-in-law, which is a normal thing, and it is also so that you can live together well in the future and grow old for life.

If you want to have someone to accompany you for the rest of your life, with you, and then your children, you can actually go to your daughter-in-law, if you don't think you need all this, you can also not look for it, as long as your family agrees, or yourself. I think it's okay.

Looking for a daughter-in-law because I want to start a family, live a good life with him, get married and have children, and start a happy future with interest.

The reason why I am looking for a daughter-in-law is to have a lifelong partner for myself, and then the family will live happily and have children

How do you say that? Then why don't you want to find a daughter-in-law? Looking for a daughter-in-law means to form a small family, and then have their own children, the family is happy, so that the life will be enjoyable, if a person is not married, lonely, and when he is old, he will not even have a companion, so what do you think?

In this case, I personally think that the main thing to find a partner is to find someone to face the world with yourself, whether you are happy or unhappy. There is someone who accompanies you to face it, and when something happens, she will stand next to you, or stand behind you, give you strength, and then the two of you go through a lot of ups and downs together.

The man is like a bamboo stick, upright, tough, and soft. But without a daughter-in-law, she is always a single.

A woman is like a bouquet of red fruit on a tree, beautiful, ripe, and gorgeous. But no husband is scattered, as if the mind is not settled.

And when a man marries a daughter-in-law, it is like wearing a bunch of red fruits on a bamboo stick, and he is surrounded by beauty and tenderness from then on.

And when a woman marries her husband, it is like a bouquet of red fruits being worn by bamboo sticks, and she has relied on and settled since then.

Once the bamboo skewers and red fruits are strung together, it is like a man finding a daughter-in-law, and a man and a woman enter the palace of marriage together, and their bodies are like being wrapped with rock sugar. Since then, the taste has become sweet and sour.

Inheritance, solving physiological needs, and old companions.

You can set up a happy marriage and family, be able to pass on the family lineage, and your life will be happier and happier.

You don't have to find a daughter-in-law, you can live alone for the rest of your life, but when you get old, you won't have anyone to accompany you, and you will feel very lonely.

Find a daughter-in-law, you can be with you for a lifetime.

This is to find a wife in order to pass on the family lineage, that is, to continue the incense for the next generation, and this is also the willingness to find a wife.

It is difficult for rural men to find a partner mainly because of the following aspects:

1.Outflow from rural areas: With the acceleration of urbanization, more and more young people are flocking to cities for development, resulting in an outflow of people from rural areas and an imbalance between men and women.

2.Poorer living conditions: Poorer living conditions in rural areas, such as transportation, communications, and health care, are also affecting women who are willing to return to the countryside compared to urban areas.

3.Influence of traditional thinking: Some traditional ideas in rural areas, such as the inferiority of men and women, and the idea that men should have a house and a car, can also lead to wisdom or a low degree of matching between men and women.

4.Different concepts of marriage: Due to the differences between urban and rural areas, the concept of marriage in rural areas is relatively traditional, and many men tend to marry young and beautiful women, while women pay attention to factors such as family background and living conditions.

Therefore, to solve the problem of rural men's difficulty in finding a partner, it is necessary to start from many aspects, including strengthening infrastructure construction in rural areas, improving the quality of life, and strengthening the guidance and change of traditional concepts.

The bride price is heavy, and the cost of marriage is high. Now the bride price in rural areas is rising, and the prominent problem of heavy bride price has caused many families with sons to have a headache, and now the cost of marriage in rural areas is getting higher and higher, and the starting price of bride price is generally more than 100,000 yuan, and even requires a car and a house. This is too much of a burden for the average middle-income family to bear.

Even some areas still pay attention to "three catties and three taels", "motionless", thousands of purples and thousands of reds and a little green", etc., and many marriageable young men finally gave up the idea of marriage because of the "sky-high bride price".

There is an imbalance between men and women. In the past, the concept of rural people was relatively feudal, and they have always had the idea of emphasizing men over women, so there were more boys in rural areas, and now there are other factors such as heavy economic burdens, and rural people do not dare to have too many children. As a result, there are now more young men than young women in rural areas.

As a result, it is becoming more and more difficult for young people in rural areas to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

Life flow and changing attitudes. After the reform and opening up, China's economy has developed rapidly, and the speed of population flow has accelerated. There has also been a change in the mindset of rural girls.

Many girls who have entered the age of marriage and love choose to go out to study, work, and start a business. Many girls do not want to stay in the countryside to work as farmers when they move to the cities. The urban living environment and quality of life have an increasingly prominent siphoning effect on rural girls.

It is becoming more and more common to go out to work and form inter-provincial marriages. As a result, there are fewer rural girls. Therefore, it has become more difficult for rural guys to find a daughter-in-law in the village.