What do you think of the 55 year old graduate student aunt who was deceived of 350,000 yuan in onlin

Every time I fall in love, I talk to this pair of words and **.

First of all, I think it's sad。We need to understand the height of the 55-year-old graduate aunt, his academic background and social status. Graduate students can already become the top talents of the current academic qualifications.

Generally, people who have obtained a master's degree will have a lot of achievements in some fields of production and life in the future, but such a talent was deceived of 350,000 yuan when he was dating online.

Second, we need to understand that both sides are at fault on this issue. The first is the person who is dating this aunt online, he is already an illegal and criminal act, and he belongs to the category of huge amounts. We're talking mainly about this auntHe didn't have a clear idea of his condition.

Although he graduated from graduate school, he is 55 years old, and in ancient times, he was already a grandparents. The second is that as a graduate student, she may be second to none in his professional field, but in some social life and emotional fraud prevention situations, she may not know anything.

Then, that's all I have to say, this sad point. After 4 years of hard study in college, and then go to graduate school, we may also study doctoral students, master's students, so that our daily life is constantly going back and forth between the dormitory and the research room, and we rarely come into contact with some social sinisters. Their social experience is basically the same as that of college students who have just entered the university, which leads to a lot of difficulties when they first enter the society, such as fraud.

Just like this aunt, he may have worked in the research laboratory all his life, and the people around him have already had families, so he has never been exposed to love, causing this aunt to expect too much from love, so that he will be deceived by criminals.

Finally, I want to say that even if we are going to graduate school and later doctoral students, master's students, etc., we must keep our eyes open and not be deceived by criminals.

Let's talk about the 55-year-old graduate student aunt who was deceived because of online dating.

Although this news is mainly about middle-aged women who were deceived due to online dating, this time the news mainly emphasizes that the woman's education is a graduate degree. In many people's cognition, the higher the education, the less likely it is to deceive, because they have the ability to distinguish.

But the truth isEncounter rhetoric, even if you have a certain degree of education,After all, it still can't resist the other party, resulting in being cheated of money。Once you are cheated of money, you are really empty of talents, and there is no spiritual dependence on others, and there is no money.

A 55-year-old graduate student aunt was defrauded of 350,000 yuan because of online dating, and this kind of news about being defrauded because of "online dating" is endless, I thinkThe two main pointsYesThe loneliness of middle-aged women and clever scams

Middle-aged women in news like this are cheated out of money because they completely believe what ** says, coupled with **'s sweet words and coaxing. Why do these middle-aged women fully believe what they say? Because it isThey are lonely and lack communication with their families, so they let ** take advantage of the opportunity

Nowadays, many young people are busy with their own work and life, and many have little contact with their parents. Then, some parents will feel a little lonely, and they don't know who to talk to, and they always feel empty. So, some elders willPost your daily life through some social softwareIn this wayInvisibly will attract some**, let ** find the target to start.

Behind a lot of this kind of news is actuallyLoneliness from eldersSuddenly, there was a stranger who cared very much about him, graduallyIt is easy to get caught up in it and become obsessed with and believe what the other person says。This also causes some elders to be cheated of money because of chatting and online dating.

In fact, the best way to do it is not really smart**It accurately captures the emotional needs of middle-aged women。So these ** will send warmth to each other again and again,Wait until the relationship between the two parties warms up, these ** willTrick middle-aged women into transferring money for various reasons

One wife after another, "I love you very much, I believe in you very much" and other words coaxed the other party around, making some middle-aged women mistakenly think that he really loves me. It is these "clever" means that make those middle-aged women think that they have met the right person in their lives.

Originally, online dating was very risky, but now many elders are lonely and empty, which also gives ** an opportunity to take advantage of online dating. Here, I hope you can see the truth and falsehood in your feelings.

First of all, I don't think it has anything to do with whether or not you will be cheated or not. It can only show that the current ** means are getting more and more sophisticated, so that many people can't get out**.

Be careful**. Let's start with **. Many of today's top students are high-achieving students, some are undergraduates, some are graduate students, and some are even doctors.

And these graduate students and doctors are all going to study routines, and some endless routines make us lost. In recent years, more and more deception routines have been refreshing our cognition. When you're still in 996, it's already 007.

Have you ever seen such a hard work?

Routine. Let's talk about graduate aunts again. Older people are the target group.

Is it because you're a graduate student that it won't lie to you? The answer is no. It's not a shame for a graduate student to be cheated, it's a shame for you to be cheated over and over again.

It's the title of graduate student that makes it seem like Auntie can't be deceived, but think about it, isn't Auntie also one of us ordinary people? You all want to fall in love, is it because I'm 55 years old this year, I'm not eligible to fall in love? We always say don't deny everything you want because of your age, and Auntie's original intention is just to have someone to accompany her, and she never thought that she would be cheated.

Online dating scams. The goal is the money in your pocket, and it doesn't matter if you're a graduate student or an ordinary person. We shouldn't laugh at the 55-year-old aunt who was deceived in online dating, she worked hard to get admitted to graduate school, not to be used as an after-dinner conversation when she was deceived.

If you didn't have the title of graduate student, would you still have such an attitude?

This incident also tells us to keep our money bags tight and not let criminals have time to exploit. When choosing your significant other, be sure to keep your eyes peeled to prevent victimization. It doesn't matter if you are an ordinary person, or a graduate student, or a doctor, don't let your guard down, anything related to money must sound the alarm bell.

The 55-year-old graduate student aunt was deceived of 350,000 yuan in online dating, not an older leftover girl is easy to be deceived, but a stupid person is easy to be deceived, regardless of age of men and women.

Even if you have a high sense of anti-fraud, you can't stand people from casting their nets wide and catching more fish, and there are always a few who are fooled.

No matter who you are, when you are in a hurry to achieve a certain goal, you are generally not cool-headed.

But specifically for this deceived graduate aunt, ** still did her homework.

They analysed the causes and needs of older leftover women and turned them into a high-quality group of deceived women.

But then again, we can't really understand these deceived people, and feel that they lack social experience and are so easily deceived.

But are they really lonely, and older women don't need company? Don't need love? Don't need respect? Don't need to understand?

Just like the elderly, why is it always relatively easy to deceive the elderly?

Because they spend time and cost to fill the companionship that the elderly need most.

How to look at the 55-year-old graduate student aunt who was deceived of 350,000 yuan in online dating, maybe this aunt wants a man's love too much. It's also that man who is too good at soaking women.

Nowadays, many people don't like that traditional way of blind date, and they like to find those beautiful little brothers or handsome young ladies on the Internet. Then they get to know each other and fall in love online, and if they feel right for each other, they may still run back, but in the meantime there will be all sorts of problems.

After all, the love on the Internet is also virtual, and there is no way to know the real situation of that person through the computer screen, and I don't know whether what he said is true or false. In 2019, a 30-year-old man in Yangzhou met a woman surnamed Cheng on some platforms.

Then the two of them started chatting with each other, and they felt very close to each other, and then they met each other. Later, after looking at the ID card of the woman surnamed Chen, the woman put on makeup and thought she was also beautiful, and then the meteor man chatted with the woman in her 30s and fell in love with each other. Later, the two of them got married and met each other's parents, and then the man surnamed Liu gave the woman a bride price of more than 70,000 yuan.

But after getting married, the woman often didn't come home for various reasons.

Later, the man, surnamed Liu, felt that something was wrong, so he went to the local police station to call the police. The truth that came out later was indeed shocking and unacceptable, because this woman's surname is Xu, and she is in her 50s this year。The documents for marrying the man surnamed Liu were all fake, and then when I met the man surnamed Liu, I also put on a relatively young makeup and successfully deceived the young man.

The woman surnamed Xu confessed that he was because she was really unable to repay the money he owed, and then took the pretending to be 85 to defraud the bride price money to pay off the debt. All the documents used by the woman and the young man to marry were fake. And remind those who are worthy of getting married that if you want to get married on top of online dating, you must find out the details of the other party and know some real situations before deciding.

It should be the aunt who used the makeup technique to deceive the young man, and now the Internet itself has a good beautification effect, and online dating still has to be vigilant.

Older people are generally more experienced in relationships, and it is easy to guess what the other person wants. Coupled with the various makeup techniques nowadays, as long as you draw yourself younger, no one will see your age.

Through the Internet, in an invisible situation, the aunt passed false information to the guy, disguised herself as a young woman, and deceived the guy's feelings.

I think this 85-year-old aunt should be very good at chatting when she is online, and this guy will fall in love with her because she is confused by her on the Internet.

In the process of online dating, you must pay attention to the safety of personal property, do not easily transfer money to the other party, and do not easily believe that the other party says that they like you. You should always be vigilant about people you have never met, and don't be deceived by the rhetoric of the other person.

1. Don't transfer money to the other party, not under any circumstances. Many people are dating others online, and the ultimate goal is to defraud each other of their money, because everyone can't know our real information on the Internet, we can just make up an identity, defraud others of their money, and then block the other party. In the process of being online dating, you must pay attention to your property safety, no matter how pitiful the other party feels to you, or how rich the other party is, you should not easily transfer money to the other party, because this may be the purpose of the other party and you online dating.

The Internet has always been very virtual, and when you transfer money to the other party without knowing their real identity, your money is easy to lose, and it is very troublesome to find it back.

2. Don't be sure about a relationship until you meet. I've always felt that online dating is very unreliable, because in the Internet, everyone doesn't know whether we are men or women, let alone our real names, if the other party intends to deceive you when you are chatting or voice chatting, he can let the people around him talk to you so that the other party can't detect it at all. So I very much recommend that you don't confirm the relationship with the other person before you actually meet, if you feel that the other person is very suitable for you, then you can be a good friend to chat with him, first understand the truth of this identity, and then decide whether to fall in love with him.

3. Don't meet with netizens alone, and make records. Most of these online dating people will meet in private, and I also advise everyone to pay attention, because there are many traps set by people, and I hope you will get into it yourself. When meeting with netizens offline, you'd better record or video the whole process, which can ensure your safety and the safety of the other party.

This video will keep you safe and leave you with great memories in the future, and if the other person really wants to be with you, he will agree to do so. When meeting with netizens you haven't met, it's best to have other friends around you to witness, these friends can protect your safety, and they can also help you distinguish the authenticity of the other party's identity. Many people are irrational in love, you may also be easily deceived by the other party, there is a sober friend around you who can help you distinguish the truth from the false, and he can also give you some very reasonable advice, so never meet each other alone.