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<> simple: continue to maintain the existing relationship, no further development is required, and it is fine.
Happy and happy every day!
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I think the main thing is that two people can take care of each other, take care of her, you understand him more, be more considerate of him, and be able to give her some warmth, so that he can feel loved.
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First of all, if you are sure that there is no way to respond to his love, you should not accept it when she shows you at the beginning, once you accept it, this matter will not be clear, if you can't be with him, you are destined to hurt him, so you still have to be decisive in doing things.
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If you don't go back, it's not just that she likes you, but you also like her. They are all ordinary people, believe that they are excellent, don't underestimate yourself, low self-esteem will lose the person you like.
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In fact, there is no need to deliberately say love in the relationship, the love is reflected in the care and care of the other party, and the love can be reflected in the details of life, and the other party will definitely be able to feel it.
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Chinese characters are called square characters, which is the traditional conclusion of the norms of Chinese character writing for thousands of years. It is because in order to write neatly and beautifully, people draw a grid above the material they are writing and write within the square. Then Pinyin square characters are a new pinyin system in Chinese (or Mandarin), the English name is Chinese phonetic characters, created by Hong Kong native Lo Hoi-chiu, first published in Lloyd's book "Pinyin Square Characters".
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As long as you are sincere to her and do not deceive her, over time, she will be moved by your sincerity.
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If you don't want to continue to develop with him, you just tell him not to dwell on it so as not to hurt it even more later.
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You can text her clearly, or find an opportunity to explain to her that you don't like her and don't delay others.
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In terms of age span, they are all very mature adults, and as for how to express it on paper, I believe you have long known it, but you lack some courage. But I still hope that you will maintain a sincere relationship with friends. Don't be so impatient.
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Feelings don't need constant disputes, they don't need this kind of procrastination, they should be swept directly and say well, it's not appropriate.
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Tell her that you are a family man and a gentleman!
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It's not easy, after all, the age difference is so big, you can reject her with any reason.
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To deal with this kind of thing, you can't be indecisive, the lotus root is broken, and you want the shallots to be mixed with tofu neatly, so you don't have to think about how to return her love, and there is no need for this.
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First of all, congratulations on finding your true love, in fact, true love between people has no boundaries. Just like colorful clothes, everyone's vision is different, so the clothes you buy are also different. But it's not without eyes, so for each of us, we must keep our eyes open when looking for a partner, and ask our family and friends when we can't make up our minds, and it's not good for anyone to be hurt.
You think she is down-to-earth and very good to you, you can also accept this relationship, cherish it, and wish you good luck!!
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Maintain a good attitude, no matter at any time, it will not change, it will always be a good attitude, do not change the original intention, no matter what happens, always persevere, it is like this.
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Love is mutual, and you should be able to feel the kindness of others to you and the love for you. You can also. Pass on your love to Him. Such a father's father's love. is the most perfect.
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I think time can wipe out everything, it's not easy to completely forget a person, but it's still easy to fade the love for someone, time will help you solve this matter perfectly!
1. Ideologically want to forget.
Human emotions are always complicated, and a person's love for another person is also an indescribable feeling, and sometimes you have to forget it before you can forget it.
If we want to get rid of this person in our minds, we must first change our thoughts and stop thinking about him every day, so that we will slowly forget.
2. Find another loved one to replace him.
Many people say, "If you want to forget an old love, you have to find a new love." Although this sentence is a bit extreme, I think he still has some truth.
If we want to forget someone, we have to find another person to take their place, although this is very unfair to the new love, but if you don't find a new purpose, how do you know if you will open your heart to others.
When a person has been hurt in front of love, it is very likely that he will close himself, and at this time, a new goal can appear, which is also a kind of salvation for himself.
3. Scatter your mind.
When we want to forget something, we go to do something else, keep ourselves busy, and we don't have time to think about these things, and slowly and naturally forget about them.
Traveling is the best way, I think travel is the best medicine for falling out of love, travel can make our mood instantly better, look at the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and feel that their minds are broadened all of a sudden.
4. Fill the void.
People like to think about things when they are bored, especially what happened to their beloved, so if you want to forget your beloved, you must let yourself have no boring time.
I think money is also the best way to solve this problem, we can use this time to do some things we want to do, or work hard, make a lot of money, so that we are too busy to think about things, and naturally we will slowly forget.
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When we have love for someone, it is always difficult for us to dissipate that love.
Learn to divert your attention, I think each of us is in a hurry, in this society is so stressful, it is not easy for us to survive, it is not easy to live better, so we shift our attention to our own learning, to our own career, I believe that a total of 24 hours a day, if you devote yourself to these things, time is simply not enough, only let yourself not think of another person so often, in order to slowly let your love dissipate.
Learn to see the good in the people around you. Each of us has friends we trust, people who care about us, and people who love us. We should try to accept those who are good to us, after all, there are not many kind people, there are many strangers, we should cherish those hard-won characters around us, meeting is fate, maybe the love for a person is not easy to dissipate, but to re-accept other people, to see the good of others may be simpler.
Better than that person. Each of us has the right to make ourselves better, we also have the ability to make ourselves better, as long as we are strong enough, then we can make ourselves better, you think, if you are better than him, you want to live better, then you have the right to choose a better life, don't you? There's no need to be obsessed with someone.
If you are stronger than him, then you feel that you deserve a better home.
Bless each other. I think that slowly dissipating love is to wish the other person a better life and watch him be happy. Everyone has their own life, even if the two worlds do not intersect and will no longer be connected, but we still have good intentions and hope that the other party will live better, as long as the life is good, you will not feel guilty.
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The desire to fade love for one person often occurs when two people break up, and one of them is greatly hurt and wants to forget the other. If you want to achieve the goal of fading the love for a person, the most effective and fundamental method is time, and with the passage of time, all feelings and love will become a thing of the past. The second way is to try to keep yourself busy and so busy that you don't have time to think about that person.
The third is to regain rationality and let yourself recognize reality until you die.
There is a lyric called "The past goes with the wind", let the past go with the wind, and time is this gust of wind. Time can annihilate everything. Everything and all emotions in the world will fade and fade with the passage of time until they become memories and forget.
However, this method is slow to work, and it often takes a long time for the person concerned to let go.
The second method is the quickest to see results, but because it is only temporary, the results will vary from person to person. There's no denying it: it's the best way to forget about pain for a while.
The human mind is limited, when you use all your energy to think about another thing, keep yourself busy to the point of exhaustion, so busy that you just want to sleep when you get home, and you are so busy that you don't have time or time to care about the person who hurt you. Obviously, during this time, you will not feel particularly painful because of the emotional wounds. On the contrary, after this buffer period, you may have passed the most difficult time, and the good life is beckoning to you because of your efforts, and all grievances are gradually being let go.
The last way is to bring yourself back to your senses and recognize reality again. Just like Mr. Wang Guowei said, life must always go through the three realms of "seeing mountains are mountains, seeing water is water", "seeing mountains are not mountains, seeing water is not water", "seeing mountains are mountains, and seeing water is water" in order to be considered complete.
In this relationship, the first two realms have been passed, and it is only one step away from the last enlightenment. Being able to deny the reality, recognize this relationship, and recognize the person in your heart will directly determine whether you can forget this relationship as soon as possible and start over.
Hope the above is helpful to you.
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Don't think about it deliberately, don't always recall memories about him, and don't take the initiative to contact him, so that the love for someone can slowly fade.
In fact, it is not a simple matter to slowly fade the love for a person. After all, I really loved with my heart, so it was impossible to let go of it for a while. So first of all, we have to let go of thinking about him, don't think about him, don't want to be entangled, and don't contact.
We all say that in fact, letting go of a person is not deliberately forgetting him, but treating him as a passerby. That's how you really don't care. So let's not say anything about deliberately forgetting him in the first place, after all, it's impossible to do that.
Just slow down on him and treat him as one of the thousands of passers-by in your life, that's all.
We want to fade our love for a person, and after slowly moving away from him, we will always can't help but remember him, recall everything about him, in fact, this will only make you more uncomfortable and forget him, and the love for him will naturally be difficult to fade. So we try to avoid recalling things about him. Although it is difficult to resist the erosion of memories at times, we need to be sensible not to let ourselves fall into the vortex of memories, even if they come to mind, you must prevent yourself from continuing to recall.
You can find something else to distract yourself so that you don't recall him, and naturally you won't forget his goodness.
In fact, the most important thing is not to connect, in fact, feelings will only exist if they are interactive, so when you are not in contact, then your love for him will naturally fade. Contact is the only way to make progress, and if you don't contact, you're just a stranger. If you like someone, you will want to pay attention to everything about him and want to share everything about you with him, but this is not advisable if you decide not to like him.
So it's actually important not to be continuous.
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Loving someone is not able to maintain this relationship for a long, long time, if you really want to forget someone, in fact, there are many ways, and this love will always fade slowly.
One: Less contact and less meeting.
We all know that the relationship between people is deepened by continuous exchanges, so if you want to make the relationship gradually fade, you must reduce this frequent contact.
Less contact with your beloved, less meeting with your beloved, and after a long time, you will slowly feel that the original love is not so deep. Many people will feel that the more they don't see each other, the more they miss it, which may be the case at the beginning, but no relationship can withstand the ravages of time.
Two: Try to keep yourself busy.
There are many things waiting to be done in life, not just love. We have work to do, I don't have to study to learn, we have friendship to accompany us, and we have family to rely on.
With so many things, we always need to spend more time to accomplish them. You can't dedicate all your time to love, when we are constantly busy with other things, we will gradually forget about love.
Later, I found out that there are many meaningful things in life, and it is not just love that can make life colorful.
Three: Get in touch with different people and things.
People's feelings are not as single-minded as we think, we can go to our own lives to contact different people, contact with different things, and later we will find that the original I like things can be so much.
The energy is scattered, the feelings are divided, and naturally they will not be so interested in a person.
It's really simple to fade the love for someone, we just have to keep getting in touch with different things, so that our lives will become very fulfilling, and we don't have time to miss someone, and finally we will slowly forget in time.
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