We have been in love for five years, what is the result of being in love for 5 years

He still holds a grudge against you in his heart. Even if you're fine, you'll often have conflicts over this in the future. I think he's also the girl who feels fresh, you should face him with another self, since you can't go back in the past, start over.

Start with a different spirit and behavior!

I think you should be separated for a while to calm down, and after two or three weeks or a month, to see if the other person is a good fit.

Feelings can't be forced--- if you really love him, respect his own choices---

If you care about his house very much, forget it, if you really love each other, then you can work together, at least you have to trust him, and make it clear to your parents that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

If it hurts you, it hurts more than you! Landlord, if you really love, don't give up! But you have to find a way to make him not give up, you have to guide him to look on the good side, he may be discouraged now and feel that he can't give you a good life, you have to take a stand, you want to go with him in the future.

At the same time, encourage him and hope you can be happy.

Let it go, wouldn't it be good if you brought it back again, tell him, treat me as your faith, and give me a future if you love me.

If you think about it carefully, if you love him very much, tell him that being with him is the greatest happiness in this life!

It's good for you, and it's good for him.

He's worse than you, and it's definitely stressful to be with you.

You still can't see each other, he will worry that he won't be able to keep you, and even think that you may not love him anymore and will have to break up with him sooner or later, so he will say it first, so he won't be too passive.

It's better to divide it up Long pain is better than short pain Your problems are too troublesome And they are all very practical problems It's better to make it easier for both of you.

It may be because of pressure that he chooses to break up In the face of the reality of lack of resources, love is not bread After all, men and women want to be different For him now, it may be a burden Even if he loves you very much.

Care about him, don't talk about feelings! Just help him get a job! Because he's the weakling now!

Landlord, a woman like you is really extinct, if you want to replace me, he will work hard, and I will not give up... Bless you and hope you are happy.

His love for you is just an excuse.

Divide it, or you will regret it after being together for a long time.

It shows that he really loves you, and it's the kind that loves you to the bones.

He hopes that you can really live better, however, he feels that he has no way to give it to you.

Go and do psychological intervention for him yourself.

There is no way, many more sensible and responsible men will do such stupid things, you have to find a way to give him enough confidence.

After all, both of them are still young, and they have a lot of time and energy to create the future, so why choose such an extreme way.

Love will succumb to reality many times!! In fact, marriage is not just a matter of the two of you, you marry him and his entire circle (relatives, friends, etc.)!

If two people think that they are each other, I don't think many things are a problem. But looking at what you wrote, I think both of you have been shaken, in this case, even if you are together in the future, it is estimated that you will not be able to last long!

So my suggestion is to separate for a while and give each other some space to think about it!! When both sides have a relatively clear attitude, whether it is a division or a combination, I don't think you need to come here to ask ...... anymore

Bless you all!

Let's be realistic, after all, the two places are too far away. There is also the fact that your age is not as good as early when you are late, and it is not too late to marry yourself now, who knows what will happen in the future.

I understand your feelings. Feelings take time to verify. After all, so many years.

What you have to think about is later. Marriage is for the good of both parties, but it is clear that you are married to him, both parties will not be good, and he has wavered. Why should you insist?

You have to think about your parents, who will take care of them in the future? I think a breakup is the best.

Just on my own behalf, of course! I hope you think about it.

1. Distance is not a problem, the problem is that both of you still have a previous relationship to maintain.

2. According to what you say, then foreigners cannot marry Chinese because of distance. In fact, you can overcome many problems, for example, if you talk about festivals, you will go to your parents' house for the Chinese New Year this year, and you will go to his house for the New Year next year, and your only child and your boyfriend are half of your sons, your parents must be very good to him, if you really want to take care of them, you can live in the same place together. Let's give an example.

My brother-in-law's brother, a native of Fujian, married a Tianjin (only daughter), both of them are currently working in Chongqing, if you deal with it like this, then they are not going to break up, but they are going to get married this year, and they have also bought a house in Chongqing, if both parents want to see them, they can go to Chongqing to live for a few days. This time, my brother-in-law's parents both went to Chongqing.

3. Some people's fate is like this, don't cut off your future because of this little thing, maybe after breaking up, can you find someone who understands each other so well? As long as you persevere, there will be results.

Bless you.

Is there still love between you? Do you still love him? I think you have to think about it carefully, instead of being unhappy together, it is better to redeploy, if you still love, try to overcome it with him, love, is the driving force to solve everything, the girl's youth is very important, but if you are unhappy together, you will get divorced after marriage, it is better to break up freely, time is a good medicine, think about it yourself, no matter what you decide, I hope you are happy, I wish you happiness.

Hehe, someone has been in love for six years, and the bed is on the bed, so it's time to divide it.

When it's time to let go, you must let go

If it really doesn't fit, then give it up... If you can't solve the distance problem, the gods and horses are all floating clouds.

If you find a problem and there's no way to fix it, why not give it a try? Maybe it's because it's been too long, you've gotten used to each other, so you're obsessed, maybe you shouldn't be together in the first place, 26 is not old, and you're trying a new beginning. However, you must think clearly, if you feel that you are determined to solve the problem together, just insist, if you decide, don't regret it, face it together, the sun is always after the wind and rain, God loves people who can bravely face difficulties.

You have to see your fate, if it's love, let's go on.

Whether you can go on or not depends on how strong your faith is.

If he doesn't have faith in your future, how long can he count on your faith alone?!

Let go when it's time to let go, you're only 26 years old, and you still have a good life, don't wait until you're old and decrepit to break up.

This is hurting yourself, don't be so stupid.

If there is love between you, or you can continue to stick to this love with him for a long time, then say yes, you also said, it is not easy to find another person who cares about yourself, why not make your life better in the future? Didn't someone say that the person who married him is not necessarily the person he loves the most, as long as he is willing and really cares for you, it is not a bad thing to agree, this is from my point of view and my point of view.

Because the choice lies with you, you have to understand that you don't necessarily have to bear all the things that others give, and you can make others feel better for a while (because their efforts have been rewarded), but can you be sure that you will not regret it in the future?

Think about it, other people's opinions can only be used as a reference for you, and it is you who really have to decide.

Hold on, it's been five years, in fact, sometimes I'm also wandering, whether I want to leave him, but think about it, forget it, leave him, maybe no one thinks about him like this, love me, love me, you're in a period of love fatigue now, after a while, when you look back at the current things, you will feel ridiculous now, there is a person who loves you and you love, this is the test period of your love, keep going, happiness will be waiting for you to find in a corner.

You are a woman, he is a man. A man wakes up later than a woman, and perhaps only when he is at the end of his rope will he wake up...

Hey... I ask what the world is like. It makes life and death promise!

The 10th was repaired to cross the same boat.

100 years of repaired pillow cotton.

If it's fate, cherish it, and change it if it's not suitable.

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, women's thoughts, men will never understand, I guess she's not too young, right? So she wants to settle down, she wants a home, and now you can't give it for a while, so she chooses to leave, and what you have to do now is work hard to make a career in the shortest possible time, and then go to her, and now you need to give each other a space of your own.

Accept the reality that some feelings are not able to be solved, just let it go I understand the mood of the landlord

People don't want to live with you, and there's no need to hurt you anymore, so I can only support and encourage you.

Time can talk about everything, and the ending of love is already very bitter

If it's not bitter, it's not called love, eh?

There must be a reason, find out the reason and the matter will be solved.

It's very pitiful! It seems that she still has some feelings for you, wait for you to go back and chase her!

Maybe she already has a new boyfriend. Separation is a reality you can't solve! He supports you and encourages you, mainly because she feels guilty about you in her heart!

You have to learn to give up and find someone who really belongs to you again. If she was really with you, she wouldn't have waited 5 years to break up with you.

Loving him doesn't necessarily get her, sometimes letting go is love.

Does she have someone she likes?

Five years, how many five years are there in life, If he really doesn't want to marry you, you still break it off as soon as possible, A woman's youth is always necessary, if he wants to get married, no matter what difficulties are not a problem for a man.

The following is just my personal opinion, you can refer to it, but you still have to consider it yourself! As a woman, you can't rely on others, especially men, to live for yourself! Okay, let's imagine if there is a man in your life at this time, who is better to you than your current boyfriend, and is considerate and gentle, handsome and golden, who will you choose?

Of course, this question is a bit extreme, but, I used to see a sentence in American dramas: If you have two men in your heart and want you to choose, it is recommended that you choose the latter, because, if you love the former, then it is impossible for the latter to be in your heart, in the same way, love is not money, not appearance, not family background, not status, in fact, when you hesitate, your heart has been shaken, and your love has decreased. Needless to say, love should be based on happiness, why love if you are unhappy.

sure If you decide to love, then you must stick to it!

Think twice, five years of relationship is not easy to come by, and it is recommended that you and both parents have a good talk together.

A lot of people are like that, wrong. You wear a pair of shoes, they don't fit, but you have paid for it, and you are reluctant, do you really want to wear them for the rest of your life? By the time you get to the point, I'm afraid it's too late.

We can't help with the comics, but I still bless you! If you can, I suggest you do it yourself, because no matter how you draw it, you can show that you love her!

It still depends on her, if she still has feelings for you, as long as you sincerely redeem and correct it, I believe she will definitely accept you again. Learn to cherish it.

Don't force yourself to change, why don't big men have no wife! Go to Vietnam and buy one

The most precious are those that have not been obtained and those that have been lost. Cherish it.

Use your actions to move her, girls need to be cared for, be a real man to love a lover who needs to care for you. I wish you success.

Then act now. Commitment is no match for any real action.

How do you want us to help you, do you want us to help you draw?

It's hard to change what a woman thinks, so it's better to give up.

I went straight to apologize. That's for the best.

Just do it with your heart. You should get the results you want.

The reason why people have to stop and look at it after walking for a while is because people are used to always walking forward, but while walking, they will always accidentally drop some precious things, so they must stop and look, but after stopping, remember to turn around and continue to move forward. Every relationship always has more or less some sweet memories, beautiful to cherish, but if one day the beauty disappears, you must also remember what kind of perfect love you wanted when you were in love, if the reality has deviated, you must quickly throw away the burden and get back on track as soon as possible. When love becomes a mess, what are you still nostalgic for?

Such persistence will only make his family reject you more, make him more embarrassed, and make you less like yourself. Do you remember what it was like to yourself five years ago? After all, it is painful to give up what you already have, but just like broken nails, it hurts and bleeds when you break it, but the best way is to cut it off as soon as possible, otherwise you may accidentally scratch your own ** face, and you may hang on to something else to tear the flesh to bleed more, and cutting it off is to reduce the damage, and it will never be better if you don't cut it.

Tell yourself more about being strong, don't be unbearable to see him sad, in fact, as long as this time passes, you will all go in a better direction. And you yourself have to work hard to do the ideals that you wanted to do but didn't do or didn't do because of him and his family, make yourself stronger, and tell him that you can be good yourself, and tell his family that you yourself have become strong too. Come on, I wish you happiness!