What do you think about demolishing others?

In our daily work and life, we often encounter some people who lie. For liars, they should be treated differently in different situations, but in general, they should not be exposed in person. Because it is not easy for a person to lie, a lie needs to be covered up with countless lies, which is very brain-consuming.

If it is exposed in person, it will make people lose face and be ashamed, and there will be excesses or incidents.

1. In family life, children often lie to the problem. When encountering your own child lying, it is recommended that parents do not debunk it in person, especially not in front of his friends. Parents should not be in a hurry to express their position when they hear their children lying, analyze the reasons for their lies from the perspective of their children, find a suitable time to teach them step by step, and give children the time and opportunity to make up for and correct their mistakes.

2. If I meet a stranger or irrelevant person who lies, I will listen to it as a joke or story, I will not believe it, and I will not reason with him, because it has nothing to do with it, there is no interest relationship, and I can laugh and walk away.

3. If you encounter a friend or a close colleague in the unit who has the problem of lying, if you expose the lie he said in person, the lying person will be very embarrassed, so I recommend trying not to expose it in person. Take a tactful approach and hint at it afterwards. Because people are very smart nowadays, those who can lie will definitely hear it.

4. In life, we may also encounter some white lies.

For example, if you go to see a patient who is dying, you will be reassured that he will be well. This should not be a white lie for the sake of deception, so learn to be grateful for white lies.

This kind of behavior is irrational, but it has a sense of justice, and sometimes it takes courage to debunk others, and it is easy to offend people.

It depends on what kind of person is exposed. If it is a person who has done something bad, he should debunk his behavior. If it is personal privacy, it cannot be debunked casually, because everyone has their own privacy rights.

Everyone's personality is different, first of all, it depends on what is debunked, if it is a bad thing to debunk, then it doesn't matter!

This depends on the individual's quality and cultivation. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that you can't see through it. The person who breaks it has a certain purpose. At least someone who likes to perform.

If you can dismantle it, it means that there is a problem in itself, and if there is no problem, then you can't dismantle it, and there must be a factual basis for demolition, and this basis is tenable.

Harmless can be ignored.

Principled reversal of right and wrong, black and white, must be debunked.