How to look at the behavior of relying on the old and selling the old?

I especially don't like those who rely on the old and sell the old, every time I meet such a person, it is not a good experience.

I encountered it once at the end of last year, when I was on a bus. When the car didn't leave the city, a "fashionable" old man came up, thin and tall, wearing a pair of black sunglasses, how to look at it and think it was funny.

After getting on the bus, everyone bought tickets and got seats. Because the bus on our side is from the city to the countryside, it is still manual ticket sales, because there are a lot of people without the bus, and there are many people who are worried about missing tickets, so the staff at the station will check the tickets from time to time. Each time, the conductor will tell everyone to keep the tickets.

I always thought it was a bluffing gimmick, but I just happened to be checking the tickets that day. The old man couldn't find the ticket, so he was stunned and told the person checking the ticket that he didn't get the ticket after giving the money. also swore to the sky, said a lot of unbearable swear words, and even said that how could he talk nonsense at such an age.

Since this incident is related to the conductor's behavior of collecting money and not giving tickets, it will definitely affect the conductor's salary. After the ticket checking staff left the train, the old man did not stop abusing the conductor. At this time, the people in the same car couldn't stand it anymore, and the man next to the uncle finally quarreled with him:

What are you yelling about, it's one thing to give a ticket or not to give a ticket, it's not right to scold people at every turn, there are so many children in the car!

Then some of the women began to persuade him to look carefully. After twenty minutes of abuse, the old man probably felt embarrassed and began to rummage in his pocket, and soon found the ticket. Just as a group of us were trying to persuade him to apologize, he came up with a sentence:

If you scold someone, you scold someone, and it doesn't grow on your body, so you can't buckle it?

The moment he saw the ticket, the conductor cried angrily on the bus. The driver also stopped and said to let him get out of the car, but the old man didn't get out of the car, and he didn't want to apologize. It wasn't until they reached the entrance of their village that the old man left.

Most of those who rely on the old and sell the old are low-quality people, they have no habit of thinking about others, and naturally they can't feel the sadness of the bullied.

<> phoenix from the "old fir" taste, although relative to the mountain charm, the "old fir" taste is not so difficult to understand, but if you want to distinguish, you also need to be a senior single bush tea friends to taste carefully to drink, this really belongs to the taste of the old tree itself, it tastes very smooth, after the mouth is fragrant, the taste is unique but can not be replicated, just like agarwood, accumulation, precipitation, revealing an incomparable fragrance.

The world is changing, the warmth and coldness of human feelings are constantly changing on both sides of the strait, and the only thing that remains unchanged is the original intention of tea, which warms the world.

Many tea lovers who are new to Dancong will not like to drink the tea of "Phoenix Narcissus", because its floral fragrance is not enough, and its strong background is even bitter.

However, if you face it squarely, sometimes, without the interference of floral fragrance, the taste of the tea itself will be more obvious, such as "old fir flavor", "carbon fragrance", it is like a gentleman in tea, there is no gorgeous appearance, no aggressive momentum, but it has a gentle and elegant, pleasant demeanor, so that you inadvertently, like the essence it contains.

There is no shortage of old tea trees on Phoenix Mountain, but the tea leaves made by these tea trees must be able to drink a strong "old fir " flavor, in addition to the tea trees reaching a certain age, there is also a key factor, which must be allowed to grow naturally and cannot be pruned.

This is the reason why the old tea tree does not produce much, but the cords are tightly knotted, as fine as needles, and the oil is brown and shiny. At the same time, it is also the best testimony that the phoenix single bush maintains its pure natural characteristics.

is older, shameless, and everyone is helpless. A person who relies on the old and sells the old disgraces his family and has a negative impact on society. Let young people lack trust in the elderly, and dare not help when they see an old man having an accident.

The elderly should have self-esteem, self-love, self-discipline and self-examination, and should not regard the respect of social groups for the elderly as capital. However, such elderly people are still in the minority.

There are many such old people in society, especially on the bus, although they are older and able-bodied, they force others to give up their seats, respect for the elderly is our traditional virtue, and some young people occasionally have times when they are not feeling well, but this behavior of the elderly will only increase our disgust with him.

I think this is a very unqualified performance, the behavior of a few people, ruining the image of the entire elderly.

Personally, I think it's a normal phenomenon, because people's personality and upbringing are not on the same baseline. The bad guys get old! Relying on the old and selling the old is more reasonable!

I think it still affects the social atmosphere, relying on the fact that he is an old man, so he has to let him do everything; As long as there is something that does not satisfy him, he will be "morally kidnapped".

When you encounter this kind of person, don't pay attention to him, just avoid it if you can, and do your own thing. As long as we don't hurt others and don't affect society, we can turn a blind eye, show our own demeanor, and laugh it off.

So-called"Leaning on the old and selling the old", not only now, but all dynasties and dynasties, and even more than now. In the past, people thought it was normal or should be.

Our company has this kind of people who rely on the old and sell the old, and I feel that this kind of person will become a resistance to the development of young people and the company, and in serious cases, some young people will be damaged.

Depending on the mood and the actual situation of the other party, you can ignore it when you are old, if the body is very strong, then I will definitely not allow the other party to "rely on the old and sell the old" in me.

Treat the old and sell the old,If you encounter this kind of person, don't pay attention to him, just do your own thing, but don't advocate to fight, the practice is really hateful, but you have to be graceful, and you can't lose your demeanor because of a moment of anger.

1. For a newcomer, the top priority is naturally to integrate into the department organization as soon as possible and adapt to the corporate culture and environment. Therefore, newcomers may wish to look at colleagues who like to rely on the old and sell the old from a different perspective, discover and make good use of his strengths, and copy these experiences into his own strengths.

2. After the newcomer enters the company, he can first observe the words and deeds of these old colleagues around him to understand the organizational ecology. When you first arrive, remember not to refute the views of the "old man", so as not to make enemies on all sides and be "plotted" by others.

3. The rich experience and skills of the old employees and the careful thinking are the best teaching materials for the newcomers. For newcomers to the workplace, the smartest thing to do is to take advantage of the mentality of old employees who like to "guide" rookies to familiarize themselves with the business content and processes in the shortest possible time.

4. Good communication can help newcomers and old employees increase their familiarity and understanding with each other, reduce the resistance of old employees to newcomers, and newcomers can also get more learning opportunities with old employees. A sense of cooperation will be more welcome, silence and autism are terrible.

The older generation uses their long-term accumulated experience to remind young people, which is very good, preaching and receiving karma to solve doubts, but the problem is that educators who always "rely on the old and sell the old" always have to reflect their elder status, and this kind of behavior is not easy for people to accept. Zongfan respects the older generation, if it is really some "learning and success", "making a difference" in society, or the elders who have a certain social status, but they do not love to "educate" people so much, most of them like to discuss things with young people, if the discussion is really intense, very in-depth, they will feel that they have learned something from young people, but will sigh that they accept new things really not faster than young people and so on. On the other hand, some elders who live a mediocre life and have been "doing nothing" and "empty for a long time", the more they go to some family gatherings, the more they like to highlight their "family status", and always come up with some so-called big truths, whether it is something they are familiar with or unfamiliar with, or even some things that they have never been exposed to, they can also open their mouths and talk eloquently.

At this time, once you refute, you will be strongly suppressed by identity, "I have lived for fifty or sixty years, what do you know as a young man who has just come out of society" "I say it's not right, when I was preparing for the manuscript in the society, you were not born yet" Maybe they really have no other way to prove themselves, so they can only find some balance from the "innate advantages" of this family relationship to satisfy their self-esteem! Some people say that elders do act from the perspective of being good for you, and I basically agree with this, but "good for you" must really be "suitable for you and good for you"? Eating eggs is good for the body, but some people are allergic to eggs, you still have to chase him, say to him, I am for your good, you must eat eggs!

This situation is the most difficult, you can't beat, scold, and even more scold. There are enough bits and pieces in life, I hope the elders will stop being obsessed with "educating" the younger generations, after all, we won't listen to what you say!

People who sell the old are the most likely to make people bored and impatient, but we should face this group of people with a more tolerant attitude, the following points:

1. Don't be unfriendly to people who rely on the old and sell the old.

People who rely on the old are often elderly people of a certain age and experience, and they may overemphasize age and contribution to society, which can easily make young people feel unfriendly. But we should think that they probably do this because they feel inactive and lack a sense of worth, so they will express their presence in a way that is old and old. Therefore, we should show understanding and respect to those who rely on the old and sell the old with a soft tone and attitude.

2. Listen patiently.

In the process of interacting with people who are old and selling old, we should listen patiently to what they have to say and understand their feelings and thoughts as much as possible. Older people may lack communication with younger people, so we should be tolerant of them to help them cope with their emotions and relieve their inner anxiety.

3. Share your experience with them.

As young people, we should also make the most of our strengths and share our views and experiences with older people. The elderly may lack understanding and cognition of contemporary society, and we should answer the hot social issues they care about in an objective and truthful way. In this way, the elderly can understand the changes and developments of contemporary society and relieve their inner uneasiness.

4. Respect the values of the elderly.

The life experience of the elderly is unimaginable, so we should respect the values of the elderly and try to learn from their life experience and wisdom. At the same time, we should also let the elderly know what we think, and there should be mutual respect between the two parties.

5. Balance your attitude.

In the process of interacting with people who are old and selling old, we need to maintain a balanced attitude. You can't over-express your views and ignore their preferences, nor can you be so accommodating as to hide your opinions. We should establish a model of interaction based on equality, respect, mutual benefit and reciprocity, so that both sides can achieve better communication and understanding.

01, I can't afford to hurt, I can always hide.

If you encounter someone who relies on the old and sells the old, and you really can't deal with it, and you don't want to be angry at this time, then the fastest and most effective solution is to hide. Avoiding such entanglements and not punishing yourself with the faults of others is the best for yourself.

02. Exercise good eloquence.

If there are times when you can't avoid such people, then you might as well let yourself practice a good eloquence on weekdays. If you have a good eloquence, you will not suffer verbally at any time. And people who rely on the old and sell the old generally like to take advantage of the verbal, so that you have to act according to the other party's wishes after you feel that you have to take advantage of the loss.

03. Find out the weaknesses of the other party.

People who rely on the old and sell the old actually have weaknesses in them. Although they have a protective shield such as "old" and "senior", they also have their own weaknesses, and once you can find the weak side of the other party, you can fight back. So, be sure to find the opponent's weaknesses to break through the opponent's defense.

04. Distinguish the situation and treat it.

Not at any time "relying on the old and selling the old" is bad limbs, sometimes relying on the old and selling the old is just a stubborn thought of the old man in the round bridge, for example, the old man is poor and afraid, and then he is worried that the younger generations will also go this way.

Stay away from them as much as possible and don't come into contact with them, it will affect your mood too much.

1. Adjust your mentality, if you are older than you, say that they are elderly people who died early, and if they are younger than you, say that they are minors and have not yet been weaned.

2. See if the working environment is harmonious, if not, then hurry up and prepare to leave, the disgusting environment will ruin you.

3. If the brigade collapses and destroys this job, then work more and talk less, reduce contact, and don't pull you to the same level as her.

4. After work, hone your psychological quality, exercise your ability to dismantle and flush life, see more of what they are forced by life, and give yourself a warning.