Confused about reality, what to do if you are confused at the moment

Man's piety is God's pride, and God controls everything, which is man's subjective consciousness. Perhaps one day, man will discover that God does not control man, but that man's willful thoughts drag him down. In fact, this is true of many things in the world.

Maybe I won't be able to read the Bible in my whole life, not on thin paper, but on a siege made of human hearts.

Sometimes we are very willful, and one sentence I just like him or one sentence I just don't like him can resist everything. In fact, this sentence is very evasive, because it just shows that we are not willing to go deeper to verify our own right and wrong. Why quarrels, why discord?

In fact, no one will break this reason, because the answer makes people feel empty. In fact, the answer is very simple.

People have many hearts to choose from: love, sincerity, kindness, zeal, patience, and Buddha......heartSo why choose vanity and jealousy?

In fact, the reason is very simple, but it is difficult.

It's easy to understand, but it's hard to try to do it.

The road is on its own!

You don't think it's interesting because you don't get what you want. I wanted to get it but couldn't get it, and I felt that I didn't have anything now, so I failed. I used to say that if you lose the same, you will gain the same. Think about it.

Although passive learning, as long as it is helpful in the future. All the unpleasantness and discomfort can only be done by letting time **. A lot of things that only time can do.

I went to college, this is a lot of success, your psychology now is that you feel that you are a failure, I used to be like this, but I later took the initiative to participate in many activities, learned the erhu, became the lead singer of our band, and naturally had a girlfriend, you should be like this, say more and learn something, the harvest will definitely be there, although you are not interested in anything now, I hope you will get out of the confusion as soon as possible! Come on! Believe in yourself!

I'm from the past, and today's college graduates will have this state of mind.

I feel that no matter when and where I believe that I come first, as long as I work hard, I will definitely succeed, including love and career.

Remember to believe in yourself and surpass yourself.

Everyone is each other. Although I am younger than you.

If you love to learn. Then I'm just the opposite. deposited in the network. Until it's too late to regret it.

Of course, I don't want to go to school a lot when I'm so old. But I don't dare to think about my future.

What I'm trying to say here is that everybody has one kind of problem. If all drill the tip of the horns. Is that still alive?

I think you get the idea. I just want someone to vent to.

What is the ideal, you keep asking yourself.

As I grew older, I really understood: in fact, the desire in my heart is too far from reality.

Things do not turn out the way you want!

I'm also confused, I'm going to be a sophomore, I'm a junior college.

I don't know what I'm learning now.

Now every day is just to be so troubled by not failing the exam!

Now I think of high school, so wonderful!

Hello, if you are in a period of confusion, then all you need to do is two words, and that is to calm down; You need to calm down first, calmly analyze the current situation, grasp what you have now, and any change needs to be prepared in advance. People in the period of confusion generally stay in an environment or a state for too long, need to make some changes, need to try new things, this is the normal psychology of people, but when we have to be clear about our own psychology. We should not focus too much on what has not yet happened, and focus all our energy on thinking about the future, but ignore what needs to be done in front of us.

I believe that as long as you do the things you grasp now, as long as you adjust the things of the moment to the best, then no matter what changes you choose to make in the future, you will have enough capital; More often than not, we are confused as if we haven't won the lottery yet, and we have to think about how the money should be spent after winning the lottery. Thinking too much about the future now seems to be of no avail, but rather a distraction from the present; If you always want to go to university in the future, but you don't study hard at the moment, maybe you can only end up studying a junior college locally, and you can't go to any city; You may have been thinking about what kind of job you want to do in the future on the eve of graduation, but if you learn the current one, you will be able to develop the skills you deserve.

Let go of the burden in your heart, start anew, it is estimated that you have also had a favorite girl, go for it, whether it is successful or not, you will know if you have paid sincerely, and when you have paid sincerely, you can always ask for the shadow of the past. Now that you have enlightenment, you should have your own goals, if you still have a vague idea to get ahead, I suggest you make your idea more specific, time, place, goal. Write these down to motivate yourself!

For example, I want to be 30 years old and open a software company with 100 people in Zhongguancun. Then make your goals as specific as possible, knowing that you can close your eyes and see what your future will look like!

And then what to do! just do it!

The confusion of life, to be honest, I don't know how many people deceive themselves and convince themselves that they are not confused, but it is really rare to be able to do it. We can only try not to think or imagine, either not to relax, or to relax. Playing games and going out for outdoor sports can reduce your stress and confusion.

There is an ingredient in personality charm called atmosphere, temperament or bearing, speaking generously and decently, and always being able to look at problems from a high vantage point, which is a kind of confusion, forbearance, indifference, modesty, attitude, strength, realm, spirit, wealth, cultivation, depth, knowledge, and momentum; It's about making people feel respectful rather than awe-inspiring. So learn to be a little more generous about life, and you will find that there are still a lot of good things in life.

Sometimes, you can't help but be overwhelmed. When you have a lot of eyes, many little things follow allergies, so that when others look at you more, you think that they are hostile to you; If you don't look at you, you will think that he is deliberately snubbing you. People with many hearts are destined to live a hard life, because they are too easily swayed by other people's emotions.

People with many hearts are always cranky, and as a result, they are trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move. Sometimes, instead of being more attentive, it is better to have fewer roots.

Be a quiet person: don't be too emotional, meet the right people and things, know how to precipitate yourself, flowers bloom in a silent place is the most beautiful, and people are more fragrant in tranquility; Don't be too pretentious, instead of its luxurious appearance, it is better to talk elegantly, the face is passing away with the times, and the connotation accompanies you not to be old; Don't be accustomed to publicity, be unscrupulous, and do things without being impatient; Don't look back frequently, attachment is a sad poison, and forgetting is a good remedy.

Find a job that suits you and you like, avoid being alone, participate in outdoor activities more, distract yourself, and you should quit handjob. When you reach the age when you should marry a wife and have children, then face it bravely! As long as you don't give up, no one will give up on you, come on!

You are the best. I'm sticking with you!

Everyone will have a confused paragraph, which has nothing to do with family background and family background, think about what you can do, what you need to do!! And it's also important to relax yourself Over-suppressed is really uncomfortable Play a game or something Tell what you should do at the moment So it's okay! Good luck.

LZ is similar to me, not more than a year after graduation, but also has been confused, only the computer with me for a period of time, and then from friends and classmates a little understanding, some of them got married, work is also work, I have nothing, such pressure makes me have a new goal in life, along with this goal, my troubles are also slowly disappearing around me, I believe that you LZ will also have an epiphany one day.

Think about it, what do you want to do the most, what is the most meaningful thing in your life, sometimes we don't live for ourselves, when it starts the moment we are born, everyone wants to choose to escape, indulge, but afterwards, it is extremely regretful, or to face life bravely, face everything around you, find your own goal, people still have to have a goal, or it is like a boat that has lost its direction, and it will never reach the other side of the distance.

It's normal to be confused, and who hasn't been confused at this age. No complaints, no repentance, hope not in the time that has passed, but in the present and in the future. In fact, there are many, many beautiful people and things, why not try to pursue it, not afraid of not getting it, as long as you take a step, everything will be different.

Be brave, you can!

Very good! Being able to examine oneself is the beginning of the search for truth! Many people are confused, why are they alive?

Some people choose religion, some people choose different sustenance... As time passed, he gradually forgot about himself and forgot his mission. I recommend you a book, you don't need to read a lot, just read the first two chapters.

The title of the book is "The Seven Habits of Successful People", just look at habit 1 and habit 2.

I hope you can find your way and look back one day and be glad to have my advice!!

Because you don't have a goal, so you are confused, people with goals are never confused, and judging from your performance in college, it is also a performance without goals, you should first think about why you don't have a goal, and make one, even if it's small, if you don't set a goal, it will only make you more confused and will sink.

It doesn't matter, my dear, I've had my share of confusion at one time or another.

Beloved, first of all, you have to cheer up, no difficulty will be difficult for you! The sun and the sea are in front of you!

Dear, a pistol is not good, it can cause severe impotence, and then you will regret it even more! It will be a serious illness.

If you quit your job, don't be afraid, the society and enterprises need talent flow, and you will eventually find a suitable job if you continue to submit your resume every day!

Bless you in advance.

Kawanishi Wu Baiding.

Confused, everyone has it, it's nothing, the key is to think about what you have experienced when you are confused, how many mistakes you can change, how many mistakes you can't change for the time being, think about it, you won't be confused, there will be countless times of confusion in the future, you are confused, and you still say that you haven't experienced it, think wrong, think anew.

In fact, what's good and evil, and don't sin, from your description, you are at least a kind child, life is a combination of various problems, don't think too much, one step is one step, and the experience of the god horse is not a day or two can go up, right? Go out and take a look more, relax and study at the same time, travel can call me Oh, ahahahaha

Don't keep paying attention to this matter, adjust your mentality, but also restrain yourself, pay attention to your body, find your hobbies and interests, work hard, everything will be fine, think about when you are complaining that you don't have shoes, there are still people who don't have feet, so cherish the present.

You have to look at the point, you have to believe that most of the compatriots in China who have reached adolescence have the same experience as you, and most of the people in the world who have the same experience as you before puberty; As we prepare to graduate, we also have to bear the pressure of employment and better survival. So, look away, big brother, you're not fighting alone.

Lack of self-confidence performance, what's wrong with handjob? It is a normal physiological phenomenon, do not feel guilty, otherwise it will cause great harm to the body. To give you an example, do women have to feel guilty after every time their aunt is over?

Life itself is slowly honed in this way, no one can become a successful person at once, they are all out of the predicament, insist on coming out is victory, don't give up! There are many more unfortunate people than you who are still holding on, so what do you have to avoid.

Just graduated? Me too, but now I've found a job Although the salary is not much, but I can barely make ends meet, the reality is like this I can only adapt to it if I don't change it, and the pistol is normal Physiological needs, I won't talk about it if I understand the big reason Anyway, settle down first, and then find a good other half Then you will know why you live

Friends, we cannot deny that the failure to work hard in the past will definitely lead to the gloom and repentance of today; But I've always believed that everything in the future is yours. From my experience, as long as anything is within the rules, as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed; Of course, this can also be life. Best wishes!