Should I choose her or her, and why did you choose him or her?

You're only 20 years old, I don't know if your mind is mature enough, whether it's her or her sister, have you thought about the future? Do you want to live your life, do you want to be responsible? If you really think about it and will pay a man's commitment and responsibility for it, I sincerely advise you:

Cherish what you have now! Instead of eating from the bowl and thinking that the pot hurts others, you yourself are no better

What you like on both sides, you have to make a choice at this time, the era of three wives and four concubines has passed, you can only lie down and think clearly, you can understand how to choose, and don't regret your choice.

Is there one of them who you are destined for? You are still in college, there are still a lot of things after graduation, the place of work and the scope of interpersonal communication will change, you are still too young, the children of the first year of high school are younger, and you can choose after you work, now you can choose whichever you want, come with your heart, choose which one you like, now the choice may not be a lifetime, there is a fate to meet!

Let it evolve naturally.

The years are like a river, the left bank is the unforgettable memory, the right bank is the youth worth grasping, and the middle is flowing fast, is the faint sadness of youth.

There are many beautiful things in the world, but there are not many that truly belong to you. Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, the honor and disgrace are not shocked, looking at the clouds in the sky, and there is no intention to stay.

In this chaotic world, it is also a state of mind to be able to learn to treat everything around you with a normal heart.

The most regrettable thing in life is that I easily gave up what I shouldn't have given up, stubbornly, and insisted on what I shouldn't have insisted on.

Some losses are predestined, and some fates will never come to fruition. Loving someone does not necessarily have it, and having someone means that you must love her well.

Nothing in the world can last forever. If it flows, it flows away; If it exists, it dries up; If it grows, it slowly withers.

Love with your feelings! Believe in your own abilities.

Don't hurt your sister because of this, hurting others is more uncomfortable than hurting yourself.

If you don't understand love, don't talk about love.

Your relationship is immoral love in China.

What else is there to discuss.

Dude has gains and losses, so you better cut through the mess quickly.

Choose a sister. Or neither.

What kind of relationship are you talking about?

If it's a good brother, a good friend, then the woman can't have it, if you're all casually playing, then whatever, what type of woman do you say, very casual or sincere, casual woman, then you can play casually, if you are sincere, you can grasp this yourself.

You should know better what kind of woman her sister is, and you have the most right to decide this matter.

There are no specific stories to share, but I'd like to share a few reasons why I think it's important:

1.Have a good time with. The little bits and pieces of communication and interaction in daily life give me great joy. This plain and comfortable mode of getting along made me see the future.

2.Understand each other. In many cases, you don't need to use words to stare or argue to understand the other person's thoughts, and this kind of understanding feels good. It feels like we're going to be the best interpreters of each other's lives.

3.Support each other. The encouragement and support given by the other party in times of difficulty and anxiety made me feel the warmth of being needed. It makes me wish we weren't just passers-by in each other's lives.

4.Similarities. We share similar values, interests, and ways of approaching life. This similarity brings us closer.

5.Complementarity. Despite our similarities, we still have our own unique strengths. These differences just make up for each other's shortcomings.

6.Calculate costs vs. returns. Consider that the joy and benefits of life brought by spending time with each other far outweigh the pain and loss that comes with separation.

Overall, there wasn't a specific moment that made me make up my mind. It's the different experiences and accumulations brought by being with each other every day, which makes me gradually convinced that the two of them will go together in the future.

If you have similar feelings and experiences, I am sure you already have the answer in your heart. I wish you a better and better relationship with your significant other!