How to Resolve Family Conflicts 20, How to Resolve Family Conflicts

How to deal with family conflicts, that is, we need to help each other, communicate more, be less careful, and smile more harmoniously.

Maybe it's better to treat it in a different way, and ask relatives and friends to do it.

Some ideological work.

The father was machismo, lazy, rough and cold, stubborn and 、......It's hard to change their minds when they're so adults.

I couldn't be provoked, so I could hide.

If you can't hide, then be murderous.

The weaker you are, the more arrogant you are, and the more you and him **, he will restrain himself.

It's just that a typical woman who is born weak, and the children who are in the younger generation are also difficult to have strong strength.

If you can't bear it, then go out to work first, this may not want a house, you can rent a house, and then wait and see the future development.

The ugliness of the family should not be publicized, if you find **, your father will be fine, if not, go out to live.

Guizhou Satellite TV's "Home and Everything" column can help you solve family conflicts

There are senior emotional guests at the scene of the show to communicate and guide.

It is said that there are no parents in the world, but I think some of them are really the places that the elders need to change, if your brother really didn't do anything wrong, then why did your father lose his temper, there will always be a reason, on the other hand, if your brother is wrong, your father shouldn't fight, what age is it now, educating the next generation is very important at that time, and it is good to divide the ways and means, and there is one I don't agree with very much, is it to let your brother stay with your father just to help your father make money, I don't know if your father is worried that your brother is not working and no one is working to make money, or because he is worried about your brother so he told him to go back quickly, I think there are some things that must be made clear, if you are afraid of this and worry about that, then simply do nothing, how do we know what kind of problems will be waiting for us before we take action, they are all in the process of such and such problems, it depends on how you deal with and solve the problems that occur.

Everyone needs a certain amount of space, and it seems that your father and brother have a lot of things on their minds.

Everything has a cause and effect, and your father's bad temper I think is nothing more than too much pressure at work, and it is difficult for people to survive in today's society.

Friend, isn't it strange that men don't lose their temper and get their hands on outsiders?

As for your brother, he is too young, he is too dependent on you, he thinks that even if he falls out with his father, there will still be someone to take care of him, this kind of thinking is not right, let your brother try the harshness and cruelty of society earlier, he may understand a little.

Parents have raised themselves all their lives, which is the greatest kindness, otherwise they will die if they die, and no one cares. There must be two reasons why a father loses his temper with his children.

You should have a good talk with your father and brother alone, especially your father, you have to know more about his life to understand him, and father and son should communicate well. After all, it was he who bleed

Parents have the life of their parents, you can't be annoyed, maybe they have reached the age of menopause, at this time you should have nothing to talk to them more and adjust their relationship! Just do what we have to do!

Send a message and write what you can't say in your words so that he understands.

1. Resolving family conflicts cannot be solved by forbearance and accommodation. When a conflict arises in some families, one of the contradictory parties blindly tolerates and accommodates in order to resolve the problem. On the surface, it seems that everything is fine if there is no noise or trouble, but in fact, everyone is awkward in their hearts.

After a long time, once the problems accumulate too much, it is inevitable that "wars" will break out, or there will be a situation that cannot be managed. Not only that, in the long run, on the one hand, it is easy to cause the other party to "gain an inch", not only did he realize his mistakes and feel guilty, but he felt that he was very correct, which objectively played a role in encouraging his wrong behavior to continue to develop; On the other hand, as a party that has always insisted on "harmony", it is bound to bear great pressure and pain in the heart, and in the long run, it is easy to cause mental illness, which will not only bring great damage to the body, but also affect other members of work and family. Therefore, it is not a good way to resolve family conflicts by adopting the method of tolerance and accommodation.

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Second, the only way to solve family conflicts is to communicate with you. Conflicts between family members are generally not a matter of principle, such as who wastes pulling, who is lazy, or who washes their hair every day......It's all trivial, and there won't necessarily be any contradictions on the big issues of right and wrong in the family. Is it so trivial that you make your neck thick and your face blush?

Why can't we just sit down and exchange ideas calmly, and then talk about it? Hostile sides like the DPRK and the United States are still resolving the DPRK nuclear issue through negotiations, not to mention the big deal that the family can't solve, don't you say? Family conflicts should be bridged in a timely manner in the midst of continuous appearance, and too much must not be accumulated.

A gap and a hole are easy to bridge, there are too many loopholes, can't the water collapse as soon as it is flushed? Of course, it's easy to say, but it's far from being like that. Communication should also pay attention to ways and means, first of all, both sides need to calm down and talk before they can achieve the desired goal; The same effect can also be achieved by taking some roundabout methods, such as finding relevant information that can persuade and educate the other party to recognize their mistakes.

Especially when the juniors and the elders disagree, and it is obviously the elders' fault, but as a junior, it is not easy to say it directly, so it is easier for the other party to accept it by taking some roundabout methods.

3. Have a tolerant mindset. To err is human? No one is perfect, and everyone can make mistakes of one kind or another.

The family is also a group, and everyone in this group has everyone's strengths, and if you are strong in this area, he may be better than you in the other way. Don't take your own strengths shorter than others, and pick your nose and eyes at others. If you treat the people at home with a tolerant attitude, it will be easy to see all the problems in the family, and there will be much fewer contradictions.

Everything can be analyzed from two aspects, that is, thinking about the good and thinking about the bad, everything that is thought of for the good, others will be very willing to listen, even if they have never thought of it, they will agree with your point of view, and when it is convenient, they will do what you want. He will think that you are a confidant, and he will also think that you are forgiving. Use humor to defuse other people's anger.

Learn to forget about unpleasant little things, regardless of "overnight feuds". If someone's words upset you, you should forget about it after the night. For example, if a colleague says something that hurts you, it is best if you can resolve it at that time, and if you don't have the ability to resolve it, you will forget about it the next day.

He also treated him as a colleague, saying hello when he needed to say hello and helping him when he needed help. This is especially true if your wife hurts you over a trivial matter. In this way, you give the impression that you are magnanimous, that you do not get angry easily, that you are willing to joke with you, and that you are very easy to get along with.

Think about everything from the other person's point of view. If two people are at a standstill, if you think about it from the other person's point of view, you will understand the other person and find a way to solve the problem. In ordinary times, we must pay attention not to hurt others and pay attention to winning people's hearts.

Be worthy of others in all things, and be worthy of your own conscience. When a husband and wife have a dispute with different opinions, they are about to quarrel and should be avoided for the time being. If you go out for a short walk, the time is about 1 hour, and it is not advisable to delay sleeping, going to work and eating.

Generally, couples can calm down after about 10 minutes of each other's departure, regret it in about 20 minutes, come up with a new solution in 30 minutes, and look forward to each other's return in 40 minutes. If you avoid it for too long, more than a day, you will think of other unpleasant things.

The main ways to resolve family disputes are:

1. The two parties shall negotiate on their own, or through the mediation of relatives and friends to resolve the dispute.

2. The local village committee or, the people's mediation organization, and the judicial office shall organize the parties to mediate.

3. Filing a lawsuit with the court in accordance with the law and resolving the dispute through court litigation.

In the family, in fact, many conflicts are not serious, but for many people nowadays, interests are the most important. So once the other party's behavior violates your interests, there will be a conflict between the two people. But the family, in fact, is to talk about feelings, not about interests.

Therefore, when there is a conflict in the family because of interests, then you need to think more about the feelings between family members, rather than your own interests.

The affection between family members can be cultivated. Because family members have feelings for each other, even if there is a conflict between family members, as long as the family members are willing to calm down and communicate, it can actually solve a lot of problems. And most of the time, the conflict between family members is not serious, it may be because of a sentence or an action that leads to a conflict between two people.

In fact, even if it is a family, it is easy to have family conflicts, because family members spend more time with each other, but less time for real communication, so even if it is a family, there are often conflicts because they do not understand each other, which affects the relationship between family members. Therefore, if you want to maintain family relationships, you also need to understand everyone in the family, so that you can solve the problem more smoothly and resolve family conflicts after conflicts arise in the family.

If you are in parent-child relationships, family marriages, gender relations, adolescent psychology, individual psychology (depression, anxiety......If you are confused, you can find a professional psychological counselor to help you solve the problem.