What is the reason for those who have never been able to touch love in their lives?

It's all because the longing for love is too idealistic, and it's always on the way to find the ideal love.

I think it's because of the personality, because boys and girls have less communication, they will be more shy, and if they don't take the initiative to fall in love, then they won't encounter love.

People who have never been able to meet love, probably because they have not opened their hearts, even if there is someone they like, they dare not pursue it; It may also be because he is not good enough, not eye-catching enough around his friends, and not liked.

There are too many reasons, it may be that you are ugly and short, but you are very demanding, or it may be that others look down on you and others are too conceited.

Don't worry if you can't meet the right person all the time, it's not that you can't meet the right person. It should be that you don't know what kind of person you want to meet and what kind of person you want to live with for the rest of your life. The world is so big, there are so many beautiful people and things, go out and see more in your spare time.

Participate in more social activities, learn more, improve, enrich yourself, and you will definitely meet that other person.

Everyone is unique, and the chance of meeting the right person is very small, or even impossible, just like a person's fingerprint, there is no complete identity. The so-called right person must have the same personality, habits, hobbies, etc., and such an encounter is almost impossible. As far as everyone is concerned, there are many times when they are contradictory to themselves, they can't know themselves, they can't understand themselves, let alone others, how can they be right?

When you meet the right person, you must learn to compromise and empathize. To put yourself in the right position first, and to meet the right person, it must also be the result of the joint efforts of two people. Love will come when it should come, don't worry, but if you haven't done any effort, no matter how many people you meet, it won't be your ideal type, and you won't be someone else's ideal type.

When you meet the right person, you should communicate with her more, and then go out on dates more, do more things together, and stay together more, but you must pay attention, for example, girls must not be too casual, they must know how to protect themselves, and boys must let girls, and girls must not bully too much. Get along well. Let's see if it's suitable, and if it's really okay, go home and inform my parents, and then get ready to get married.

In fact, I think that contact between people, especially emotional contact, it is difficult to meet at first glance and feel that this person is very suitable for themselves, I have not gotten along, but it is not accurate just by feeling, maybe the first impression is good, but after contact, it may be because of personality, temper, knowledge, etc. Only after a long period of integration will it be suitable in the true sense, so contact more with the opposite sex, give yourself more opportunities, and I believe you will find it soon.

There's always someone waiting for you somewhere!

There are quite a lot of reasons for this, maybe you yourself have walked into a strange circle, always comparing this person with that person, in fact, this is unfair to others, you can't just see the shortcomings of others, but should see more of the advantages of others, so that you will soon meet the right person.

This is because you don't have a clear position for the relationship, and you don't know your own situation, so you can't always fit into a new relationship, and you will never meet the right person.

It may be because you have never met the right person in the first place, which means that the other half of your life has not yet appeared.

This is because you still have very few people to see and experience very little, so you have never met the right person, and you should continue to wait.

This is because I have never met the right person, and I never give in the relationship, so I feel this way.

Maybe your fate has not yet arrived, don't be anxious, you should correct your mentality, there will always be someone waiting for you at the end.

If you always feel that you can't meet the right person in love, it means that you have high requirements for love and should know more friends.

It may be that you yourself have not figured out what kind of person you are looking for. That's why I always feel hesitant in every relationship.

It could be because you're demanding too much of others, or it could be because you really haven't opened your heart.

There is no right person, why should you start love?

This is caused by your lack of assertiveness and the fact that you don't know what kind of love you really want. Some people say that girls have no love, and whoever is good to her, she will be good with whomever she is. This seems to be fine, and many people recognize it, but many people ignore one point, what girls really need, not only that good, but also the deeper needs of their hearts.

The second is, how long can boys be so good. It's like a girl likes a piece of clothing, which is a little expensive, but the guy graciously buys it for her. The girl instantly felt that this boy was good to her, and then the boy took her to eat, go shopping and watch movies, she felt that this boy was too good to her, so they were together.

Later, she kept wanting such a good, and the boy's economy was not allowed, she felt that the boy was not good to her and didn't love her anymore, so she proposed to break up. The boy was fed up with such a request for things that were not changed, and he knew that he couldn't satisfy her, so he had to break up helplessly. After the breakup, the girl looked at the clothes that the boy bought for her, although they were outdated, she didn't like them anymore, but she felt that it was a pity to throw them away, after all, they were once favorites, and they were so expensive.

Therefore, many girls will keep asking for such a good pretence, but they ignore what kind of love they want. This is also related to women's thinking, they care about the beauty in front of them, but they do not have long-term good plans. They think that as long as you are good to me now, you should be good to me in the future, but they ignore that everything will become.

Therefore, if you want to put an end to whoever loves me, I will love whoever I want, then you must deeply understand what your needs are, and then make targeted choices, don't veto such love because it is not good at all, and then another love appears, and you feel that this love is not good. If this thinking does not change, it will always be yourself who will be hurt in the end. P.S

I once read such a question on the Internet: There are two boys like me at the same time, who should I choose? Such an answer is also suitable for this questioner, which is to think about what kind of love you really need, what kind of love is what your heart desires and can last.

Instead of the superficial kind of good, the superficial kind of excellent, you have to consider it in combination with your own real needs. This kind of love will go a long way. Similarly, this is also the reason why many divorced people now, at the beginning they felt that she was good to you, but they felt that they were a lifelong person, and they didn't choose to think about it, and they didn't choose to recognize it.

This is too little to care about the needs of the heart, but to care about the surface.

First: When looking for a partner, you must look at the character, not the appearance and sweet words.

Like a person, it starts with appearance and is loyal to character. It is undeniable that a person who is handsome and beautiful on the outside is still quite attractive to people. And on the basis of being handsome and beautiful, and a little rhetoric, for people who are eager for love, sometimes it is simply a deadly poison, and in a trance, they will fall unconsciously.

But in order to truly achieve happiness, that kind of long-term and safe happiness, the most important thing is to look at a person's character. A person who can treat you sincerely, know your warmth, hurt your sorrows, and give you happiness.

You must not let yourself fall into the misery of the rest of your life for the sake of short-term happiness, and the so-called delicate flowers are thorny, this sentence applies to women as well as to men.

Second: to learn to refuse, true love does not need to be proven.

Many people will believe in each other unreservedly during their love, and even sometimes when the other party makes some excessive requests, they are reluctant to refuse and resist, always feeling that if they don't agree to each other, will they make the other party feel that they really care about this relationship.

So in this blindness, in the name of the other party's packaged love, they were deceived and framed, and too many girls have been retaliated by their former partners for posting intimate photos after breaking up over the years. Eventually, they all became depressed and depressed in pain.

In a relationship, no matter how much you love and care, you must always keep your inner line of defense, give yourself a safe space, even if the love does not continue one day, you can leave safely.

Third: Don't be soft-hearted when you meet a scumbag, and give determination and punishment.

After being hurt by a scumbag, many people will take care of their former feelings and choose to forgive and settle things, but this approach often not only wrongs themselves, but also gives the scumbag a chance to hurt you again. The end result will only be more damage to yourself.

Therefore, for scumbags, for those who are not right-minded, it is useless to forgive, you must learn to use the law to protect yourself, not only to let the person who hurt you be punished, but also to tell everyone, so those who have hurt others will be punished, unforgivable, and will never be tolerated.

It is inevitable to encounter unpleasant feelings in life, those who are not right-hearted, and have never had true feelings for you, how sweet they are when they love, how ruthless they will become when they don't love, and protecting themselves is always the most important thing.

This may be everyone's personality problem, it may be that they understand love, but you can't understand it, so this may be the person you describe who doesn't know love, or it may be that you haven't met someone you really like, and the person you really understand is pure Sun imitation or someone who understands you.

The time has not come, fate has not arrived, and the cycle of life and death for three hundred years has only been exchanged for sleeping with the same pillow in this life.

It is not easy to meet the right person in love, often because our social circle is too small, I don't give other people a chance, and I don't meet the right person, so when we fall in love, we should invest in judging whether this person is the right person for us.

The circle is too small, there are no excellent people around, there are no opportunities for others, there are no suitable people, and the people you like don't like you, basically these reasons.

The circle is too small, there is no chance, because I am not active enough, I weigh the pros and cons too much, and my vision is too high.

I haven't seen love, all I see is interests, and we will be together out of a profit.

There will be such a person, if a person does not meet his ideal person, he may not get married for the rest of his life.

In terms of probability, experience, and other aspects, it will not be a lifetime of adversity.

Unless you fall yourself, then there is no cure!

As long as you yearn for a better world tomorrow, you will definitely be at the bottom**, and even have a life that has been opened!

There will be people who will never meet true love in their lifetime, and true love must be in love!

When you fall in love with someone, you will feel happy when you look at her, and she will feel excited when she looks at you! Think about how nice it would be for her to sleep next to you every night, and even think of the name of your future child.

Yes, how many people in the world get married because of love, most of them because of the family affection they have because of marriage.

Robin greens have their own loves, the important thing is to be yourself, don't let yourself get hurt.

Once fate arrives, it can't be stopped.

It's not so easy for people to meet someone they know in their life, I don't think you need to think about this when you get married, why do you have the idea of not getting married, or two people live a little better!