Family. Problems with parents, family parents and children

Hehe, in this society, it's a lot of pressure on families and parents.

They just want you to stop falling behind and put their hopes in you.

Actually, it's quite irrational, because what we do in school is applied to society and to work.

It's not very obvious, at best it's a sense of discipline, a learning method, and then the biggest role of this school stage is to build your own network for the rest of your life.

Build a good relationship with your classmates, in the future, what's yours is mine, mine's is yours, you don't have to study well, but you can have a group of friends with their own strengths, and that's enough.

Of course, it's also a test for you, and you can't even convince your own parents that if you just rely on yelling, then you're too unskilled.

Learning is only one aspect, a very minor aspect, even.

You students are just a commodity that teachers make money, and the higher the school, the more obvious this is.

They sued and spurred the poor students who prevented them from raising their wages, and it was good that the method was right.

But if it develops to the point where the family is unhappy about it, then it is excessive.

In a word, tell your mother that the school study test is scored, but what you learn from your parents is how to be a person.

Learning is not based on the length of time, not by the soul and then locked up in the house.

Be human, believe in your children, and parents are good role models for their children.

Don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, no one wants to be locked up, then I want to go out and play on National Day, because even if I study, I don't have this formalism, and in the worst case of this state, it is really not worth it to have a bad relationship.

You should communicate well with your mother.

You are rebellious. She was worried that you would become bad and didn't find the right way to educate you.

She was also distressed.

Let's talk to her.

There is a generation gap of three years, not to mention that you are separated by a generation. Parents are not open-minded, it is not easy to communicate, what is the use of self-harm, you who are wronged, you are still injured. Stop doing stupid things.

Try to express your mood and feelings in words, whether it's a message or write a letter to her. I've tried it before and it works well. Also, if you need to do your part.

In fact, there are examples of not getting along well with parents everywhere. Parents are also like this for your own good. You can put yourself in your parents' shoes, and maybe be like your parents.

You have to talk to them calmly, and trust that they are not so unreasonable. If you feel that you can't communicate well with them, try to ask your other relatives and friends to help you convey your intentions and avoid confrontation!

Then you can try to be the person of their hearts, and mom will always forgive you, friend... I don't have many true friends, I still can't lose it, my thoughts may not be the same as your thoughts, my thoughts are more realistic, whether it's from interests or other aspects, it's good to consider multiple friends

Suitable. You husband and wife don't have time to take care of the children, ask your mother-in-law to help, she can come, you can't let your mother-in-law and husband separate.

Although it is a second marriage, it is also Old Taishan, and it must be respected, not to mention that it is here to show you the child.

So rest assured that your mother-in-law and father-in-law will live in your house, and everyone will be happy.

Definitely not suitable. But you have to ask for others, so look at the other person's character.

There is nothing wrong with being relatives, but unless you live in a house with a small space, then you should consider helping your mother-in-law rent a house.

It's so suitable, it doesn't affect your own life, and you can pick up and drop off your grandson, killing two birds with one stone!

Family problems, the husband is very busy with work, and asks his wife to send the children and pick up the children, but the wife also has a job, so she handed over this work to the mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law brought her second-married husband to live in her house, such a mother-in-law is too few, too strange.

Family problems? Family problems depend on mutual understanding and communication, and understanding the rights and wrongs of the family in order to be happy!

Forgive me for my bold guess, if you are the child in question, if your parents do this to you, you need to pay attention to adjust your mentality. Parents are also human beings, and their abilities are also limited. They all have good intentions for their children.

However, there is a point. The approach can be wrong, and the impact is immeasurable.

It is related to the family environment and the way of education, and parents should first find out the problems in themselves. Parents are always arguing at home, and children can feel that a family is insecure. Always criticizing your child will make him have low self-esteem, and you should encourage your child more.

In the case of the third child, it can lead to precocious puberty and the loss of childhood joy. The fourth child should be said to be more well-behaved, no one affirms or denies it, and his personality will be more neutral. The fifth child, who is too introverted, will affect his life and career out of society.

Children grow up fragile and unconfident, on the one hand, parents do not affirm their children, and on the other hand, environmental problems.

Question: I'm going to the hospital today to see my teeth, I got up late, my dad didn't call me, he has been very angry after I got up, I went to the hospital without a number, I asked him to help me hang a plus sign, he didn't hang, and scolded me, it rained heavily today, I asked him to pick me up at the front door, he drove away from the back door by himself, didn't wait for me, left me alone on the road, I told my mom, my mom beat ** scolded me in turn, I'm very emotionally broken now, I want to die, because I still have a cold in the rain today, my mom just hit ** again Come and scold me, saying that it's all my fault, because I got up late, so today's incident is all my fault, I deserve to be left on the road by my father, what to do, I'm so helpless, I want to die.

Maybe today's behavior of mom and dad makes you feel very wronged, but every parent loves their children, doesn't they?

No parent can guarantee that everything is right, and everything can be discussed with them, right?

Maybe what they did made you feel very wronged, and it made you think like that, and when I was a kid my parents sometimes made me think like that, but when I look at it now, it's ridiculous. I thought: I must make them regret it in this way.

But now it seems that this is just a kind of episode of my own adolescence. Everyone's life is completely different, life is always accompanied by ups and downs, and no one is born with sugar in their mouths. I believe that as long as you sit down with your parents and have a good conversation, all problems can be solved.

I talked to my mother about the question, she said that she blamed me, if it wasn't for me, today's incident would not have happened, I was very aggrieved and cried, and when I lost control of my emotions, she said why didn't she stand on my side, she said I deserved it, what kind of tantrum did I have, and said that I don't think I'm a daughter, teacher, I'm very emotionally broken now, what should I do, my mother doesn't listen to me at all, and doesn't want to talk to me well.

She is still texting and scolding me, saying that I have a weird temper, I deserve today's incident, I should endure it, why cry, what is there to be wronged, my dad still wants to beat me, and also says that I deserve it, he wants to throw me on the road, what qualifications do I have to be wronged.

Question: I'm at home now.

I kind of wanted to end my life and let them realize that I was really wronged today, and my mother said that I had better die quickly, and she would raise me for nothing.

Maybe your mother was angry at that time, don't keep thinking about it, this is a small thing you encounter in your life, you can apologize to your parents first, say that you shouldn't get up late, and then look at their attitude.

Okay, then how will I get along with them in the future, no matter what happens, my parents have never been on my side, they all scolded me, what should I do?

Answer that you have any brothers and sisters, or relatives who are close to you, aunts and aunts, and ask them first when you encounter something, after all, you are still young and can't make up your mind when you encounter things, and they can also give you advice. You should apologize to your parents for this incident first, see how their attitude is, and if it is a little relaxed, then you can do it as usual. If they still keep scolding you, you can find an adult to persuade you.

At present, the problems between parents and children are mainly in the following aspects: First, the pressure of survival in modern society is increasing, and parents are unable to communicate with their children in order to cope with life and work. Second, modern life is fast-paced, and parents do not have more time to play with their children.

Third, more importantly, the current information is developed, and some of the parents' views on the present are not up to the times, and they do not have a very good understanding of what their children are currently thinking and thinking. Solution: First, take more time to play together.

The second is to do more in-depth exchanges. Third, parents should learn new knowledge and be able to further understand their children. Of course, from the child's side, it is more important to be considerate of the parent's nurturing grace.

Be considerate of the tiredness and hardship of your parents' work, and take the initiative to do some housework within your ability. Take the initiative to talk to your parents about what you think.