I don t like my husband s sister. What to do. Alas.

1. This is the charm of a woman, you have to be able to manage your husband, after all, it is your husband who you want to live a lifetime, not her.

2, how does his sister say that you can't change, what you can change is your husband, and don't want to change her domineering.

3. Don't speak ill of his sister, you will only set yourself on fire.

4. Sometimes it is better to let him experience such consequences by himself, and you are fueling the troubles. For example, if his sister says something, if you hear it, just say that it is so good, and sincerely add praise (don't let him feel that it is sarcasm, it is counterproductive), make him disgusted with such a decision, and let him oppose his sister.

--If you don't like it, try to contact as little as possible, and you must maintain a certain politeness and politeness no matter how reluctant you are! This is also due respect for your husband's family!

You can try to understand the good side of her, or change your opinion of her from another angle, or self-persuasion (self-deception), in fact, sometimes it really works!

The care of the sister-in-law and the sister-in-law is already very difficult, don't fall out with your eldest sister for this matter, it will make it difficult for your husband. You're about to move anyway, and it's your husband who lives with you for the rest of your life, don't be unhappy about these things, that kind of relationship is difficult to repair once it is damaged.

What's wrong with her that you don't like "Maybe she doesn't like you either, since everyone is a family, let's tolerate each other, and besides, it's not her who lives with you, so it's okay to minimize contact with each other."

If you don't like it so much, you can't look at people one-sidedly, you have to look at it in two, and if you don't like it, you just have less contact with her.

If you don't like it, you just have less contact, and there is no way, it's hard for you to get divorced!

If you don't like it, you can't avoid contact, no way, bear with it.

Then avoid contact with her, no contact, and will not hate each other, only by avoiding contact, can we reduce contradictions, if we live together in the future, try to respect her, although hateful, but can not be contradictory.

If you don't have a particularly deep relationship with your boyfriend, break up early, and if you like him very much, then try to accept his sister, even if you avoid contact with him, don't show excessive annoyance, which will cause others to resent it.

At this time, you should communicate with your boyfriend, because relatives who are boyfriends on both sides can't do too badly, and communicating more with his sister may get better.

You can adjust your mentality, after all, it is your object's sister, and you will be a family in the future, and you will be good at discovering the advantages of his sister, so that you yourself will become like him.

Sometimes that's the case, women will always be entangled in some small things, first of all, the boyfriend's house you go to is not his home, his parents have the right, she is already married, this is just her mother's house! As for you, you should do your own thing, you should buy food for the child, just continue, her attitude is not good, you will deal with it with a smile! In this way, not only will she not be angry with you, but the evildoer will be even more sad!

Originally, it was insensitive, but then I saw his sister (sister) chatting with him, and his sister asked him how he found this kind of girlfriend, and he didn't buy gifts for their family. Then he said that I was in poor condition or something, probably because he thought I was poor.

I can't say that I don't like it, or I really dislike the two of them talking together or something.

If she goes to your house again to meddle in her affairs and scold her for fucking off, what kind of thing is she raised by Xiaobi?

It depends on your husband's attitude, if he listens, it will have an impact on your life, and if he doesn't listen, it's like his sister is a neighbor, and it doesn't affect your life at all.

Hello. Maybe his sister is a little more lenient. You can discuss with your husband first, and say that you can take your own family affairs by yourself, and his sister can refer to them. After all, relatives, don't stiffen the relationship.

You can tell your husband about this.

It is estimated that some of her practices should make you very disgusted and then you will annoy her, but we all know that choosing a marriage is to accept his family, and it is said that it is not to live with his family, but in fact, a lot of troubles are given by the other party's family, so if we want to worry less, we will take some things not to care, be tolerant and generous, it is difficult to do, but if you want family harmony, you still have to do it, how you do it depends on how much you love your husband, love the house and Wu, isn't it.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been good, but as long as both parties can stand in each other's position and think more about each other, things may become very easy, my mother-in-law is a typical rural old lady, she has a deep patriarchal thought, and sometimes she is very helpless, but when she sees her husband's helpless expression, she has to give up. Think about how easy it is for you to just follow her wishes, sometimes she is very much like a child, so you also coax her and follow her. We are all young people, and we don't need to be like the elderly.

Be more forgiving, your husband may love you more. The family will be more harmonious and life will be happier. Be a generous person.

Life will surprise you endlessly.

Husband's sister is in trouble with you? Does your husband care? It's better for him to come forward to solve it, in the 21st century, mothers-in-law are good mothers-in-law, what kind of fame can the eldest sister jump out of, try to avoid meeting less, it's not about yourself, hang high, and live a life.

Since you are married

It's better to settle down.

Don't think about that

Live a good life, don't think about it, you are sisters and brothers, she never wants to be with you. It is impossible for her to switch from family affection to love, even if you are not related by blood.

Of course, it's not completely impossible, it depends on whether she's very mature.

It's best to be able to visit, and if you can't go, you must call ** to say some comforting words and care about it!

I think the most important thing in dealing with my husband's family is mutual respect and understanding.

If a person doesn't like a person, there must be a reason. As an outsider, it is difficult to integrate into my husband's big family and be liked by everyone. Especially getting along with my parents-in-law and sister-in-law, it is even more difficult.

Everyone is obviously not a family, but because of their husbands, they are forced to live together. It's good to be able to understand each other, but if you can't understand it, then the days will pass. If you have a mother-in-law at home, and a sister-in-law who doesn't know anything, then life will be even more sad.

Of course, the main thing is your husband, what is his attitude? If I stand on your side, I will inevitably have a bad relationship with the big family. If you stand on the side of the extended family, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

So for my husband, if he doesn't handle it well, he is not a person.

In general, the relationship between the eldest sister-in-law and her brother-in-law is not good, which is nothing more than the following reasons. First, the daughter-in-law has a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, and the sister-in-law wants to help her mother, and then deal with her younger daughter-in-law with her mother. The second mother-in-law prefers her daughter and helps her take care of the children, but does not help her daughter-in-law take care of the children.

The same is true for other little things. A bowl of water is not even, and the daughter-in-law has complaints in her heart, which naturally has a bad impact on the eldest sister-in-law. Third, the relationship between the daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law is relatively good, and the eldest sister-in-law was snubbed by her mother and felt that she had no status in her mother's family.

I was a little jealous in my heart, and then I wanted to do something, so I stirred up trouble all day long.

I don't know why the two of you have a bad relationship, but I think it's good to just do your part and do what you have to do. Don't bully others, and don't let others bully you when others bully you. It would be best if I could handle the relationship with her.

Home and everything is prosperous, in this way, your husband is happy to watch.

It doesn't matter if she likes you or not, as long as you live in face and have special respect for her, others can't find fault with you, your husband likes you is the most important, and it doesn't matter if others like you or not.

First keep your distance, don't live with his sister, and then go to greet and care for her every once in a while, and over time, she will find that you are sincere to her, and she will accept you.

If you have time, you can sit down with his sister and talk about what is in her heart, ask her why she doesn't like you, and if there is still no improvement after that, then there is no need to bother, as long as you and your husband are good.

My husband's sister doesn't like you, I think you should communicate with him and find out the reason, after all, it's a family, and if there is a problem, it must be solved.

In this case, you don't want to cause too much conflict with your husband's sister, you just need to serve the family with all your heart, and slowly your husband's sister will like you.

At this time, I think you should ask your husband what kind of girl her sister likes, and try to disguise yourself in front of your husband and sister.

You can often go out shopping with your sister and give your sister a little gift, girls are more fond of lipstick, so she will like you.

I should keep some distance, and there is no need to force the relationship between people, otherwise it will only make the situation worse and worse.

Personally, I think that if you are going to go down with your boyfriend, you can only face this situation and cannot avoid it.

First of all, is his sister only selfish and indifferent to you, or is she like this to anyone, if the former means that his sister has not really accepted and recognized you, then you have to take some time to understand your boyfriend's sister's hobbies and hates, try to do what she likes, and slowly break the estrangement and distance in her heart.

If it's the latter, the only way can only be for your boyfriend to make some reconciliation between you and her, which is a great test of your boyfriend's ability to deal with things, the two bowls of water should be even, and you don't have to be too entangled, after all, you will have less time to get along in the future, you just need to be polite, don't do it because she is selfish and indifferent, you also do it, obviously I don't think it's wise enough, over time, the people around will naturally know which person's problem is.

Finally, don't deny the rest of his family just because of his sister's unkind attitude towards you, if you are really together, please be tolerant, but if after a long time you feel that his family is indeed as you see, you can not live together after marriage, or that sentence is to his liking, it will definitely ease the relationship between them.

Hope it helps.