I m so sad that there are no good Samaritans willing to help me

Don't feel like you're a special person who doesn't hold relationships, because relationships aren't meant to be held by one person.

Relationships between people can change, especially friendships, which can change a lot.

Friends on the intranet and write that friendships are permanent, these are only temporary, because the circle of friends will change.

After they work, the friendship will start to change.

Today they are friends, tomorrow they may not be good friends anymore.

There are only one or two confidants in life, and the others are just passers-by in life.

Don't take friendship too seriously, you'll be sad.

Don't expect too much from your former friends so you don't disappoint.

That's the reality. I'm a sophomore now, and my relationship with the dorm is pretty much the same, so I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Anyway, they don't matter so much to me, to me, to them.

You have to learn to get used to the road ahead. You may experience a lot of it, and you have to learn to get used to being alone.

Don't make a fuss about trivial things, me! Basically, I don't have friends, so life has never tasted, but I also like a girl, we don't have a look, and others don't like you, hey, I dare say that there is no stronger person in the world than me Ugly, is it my fault

I am kind enough to help others, why is there no one willing to help me when I need help?

Hello, sorry to hear about the situation you described. You are kind enough to help others, why is there no one willing to help you when you need it? It's chilling.

But if others don't help you, it only shows that they are indifferent, which is not the fault of the law, but just a moral degradation. There will be people who like to help others as much as you do. Don't be too upset.

It's hard for you to judge this matter, mainly because we don't know about the two men. But as a woman, I think a woman should still find a man who knows how to love herself and love herself, of course, material life is an indispensable condition, we don't require to wear gold and silver, eat and drink spicy, but the most basic living conditions must be met, you say that your current boyfriend is not self-motivated, unwilling to endure hardship, such a man to tell the truth, married to him, he is no matter how good you are, you will not be happy, you think about women are more or less a little vain, If we want to wear a beautiful dress, we have to see if there is enough money at home, what do other people's children want, what do our children want, can you not be sad when the time comes? Although your parents can support you financially, but the old people have a hundred years later, even if they don't want to go so far, we are all so adults, even if we don't honor our parents, we can't reach out to them every day to ask for money, right?

No matter how strong we women are, how strong can we be? Even if you are very successful in your career, you will feel very hard at that time, we women are different from men, people work hard and go home and lie down to sleep, we have to be busy with housework, we have to cook, take care of children, tutor homework, you don't have to eat to cook for your husband and children, you think about it and have to work and run a home, will it be very hard? The boyfriend your parents introduced to you, you can meet and get along with him, the main thing is that we women can generally only hold one person in their hearts, and you haven't come out of this relationship yet, so deep down you are prejudiced against him, and he is not necessarily a proud person, even if it is, no one is perfect, each of us will have shortcomings to a greater or lesser extent, mainly depends on how he treats you?

You have to get to know each other. Men are sometimes busy with work and tired, and it is normal for people to have no time to text us back, if a man doesn't do anything all day long, he will coax you to be happy, what do we eat and drink, isn't it? In a word, the world really only has their own parents for our people, there is no harm in listening to the opinions of parents, whose parents will not harm their children, they all hope that we are happy, after all, the old people live for decades longer than us, rich experience, we can't see through people in a year, maybe they can see through it at a glance.

I'm not asking you to obey your parents' arrangements against your own will, I just hope you can calm down, keep your eyes open and see both of you clearly, if it's not suitable, you can find it again, find someone who really loves you, if a man really loves you, he will be willing to give everything for you, he will work hard to earn money to make you live a good life and give you happiness. Here, I wish you to find Ruyi Langjun as soon as possible, happy and happy!

I think the two men in front of you are fish and bear's paws, and neither of them can move.

Being out of town is not a thing at all.

That person is better than you in everything, self-centered, can you be happy if you get married? Just like the Northeast people have a witty saying, "said that the southerners are all thieves, or the poor will have money left", even if the material conditions are good, there is no you in your heart, then you are far worse than the material conditions, the spiritual life is richer, the so-called family and everything is prosperous, the core of this family and harmony is the harmony and harmony between husband and wife. He has good conditions, and his personality dictates, he will inevitably neglect your feelings, and if there is a contradiction or something in the future, you will be particularly passive, and far away, it's really not a thing, the current society is so chaotic, I think it's good to fall in love and husband and wife, even if you can't be together every day, you have to be able to meet.

As for your current boyfriend, you can find things that worry you from the current ** angle, which means that he does have a lot of problems, and some of them may be more serious than you think, but you don't know it yet. So I don't think he's a good fit, at least not the kind of person he's best suited for.

You say you don't want to step on two boats, which is very valuable, and you end up choosing to put your feet on the same boat, but I suggest that you leave one boat at the same time, be prepared to leave this one, go back to the shore, and wait for the one that is more suitable for you. Out of respect and trust in your parents, you give up your favorite boyfriend, your parents will be considerate of you and will not be so sad, and at the same time, you will also return to the original point, live a single life, and rethink your life, which is very good.

During this time, I felt that although I didn't make money for a few months, I felt that it was worth it, and life was like this, I couldn't say.

I still suggest that you let both go, of course, if you're not old enough to be persecuted.

My advice is that you give up on both sides and start all over again.

The reasons are as follows: 1. If your former boyfriend is really as you said, if he is not self-motivated and hard-working, then your life will not be better. Because your personality determines that the man in the family you want to form is dominant, he must be tenacious, able to take care of you, make good decisions, and stand up as the backbone of the family. In the case that his own conditions are not very good, a man lacks these, then his future is not optimistic.

2. Your current boyfriend, as you said, his natural sense of superiority causes him not to pay too much attention to you. If he values you, then even if he can't reply to your message after something, he should explain and apologize later. A girl's intuition is often very accurate, and if you feel that he doesn't care about you, then there is a good chance that this is the case.

3. Talk calmly with your parents, respect your parents' opinions, and let your parents understand your thoughts.

First of all, tell your parents that no matter how good the boy's family conditions are, no matter how good he is, you are getting married, and you have to choose one you like and can stay with you for the rest of your life.

Secondly, we should pay attention to the views of our parents, but paying attention does not mean blindly following them, after all, there is a big difference between the concepts of my parents' generation and your generation. However, after all, your parents are from the past, and sometimes it is more accurate to see people, which can protect you from being hurt.

Thirdly, according to your personality, you need to look for a man who has a sense of responsibility, can love you, and also has a stable income, and can bring you a sense of security and a good life.

4. Put your mentality well, don't worry too much about these things, there are still many good men, and there are still many opportunities for you to choose, since you are very distressed and not easy to choose, so why do you have to be persistent? It's better to give up all and start over, and my feeling is that neither of you is very suitable for you.

Hope it helps

Other things, it doesn't matter if women are weak, but emotionally, you must be strong, you remember, marriage is really a lifelong thing, if you find that it is too unsuitable after marriage and divorce, it is good to have no children, if you have children, not only will it have a wound that is difficult to heal for your life, but it may also put huge pressure on your child's life. In addition, the man you like, if he also really likes you, don't give up, remember another point, parents' hearts are also flesh and blood, not to mention that no matter what we do to his children, they are actually for us, they don't accept your boyfriend, because they only see that your original boyfriend's work is not good, his family is not good, and they don't see his love for you. Also, parents are vain, and they want their children's partners to have a good job, a good family background, and more confidence than others when chatting, which is understandable.

What you have to do is have your parents gradually accept your boyfriend, tell them that you love him very much, and tell them that you are going to live with your partner for the rest of your life, not your parents. I don't know if you have watched "The Age of Naked Marriage", Tong Jiaqian's parents hate Liu Yiyang so much, but they finally got married, Sun Ran experienced a lot of ups and downs, but the ending was happy. I wish you happiness.

In fact, you can't ask others if you are happy or not, only ask yourself You may be a little lost in the definition of happiness In fact, many people don't have much money, don't have a big house to live in, don't have a good job, but two people love each other and enjoy each other's care for themselves That's also very happy Happiness is not necessarily only based on money In the end, you need to ask yourself what you need most in your life Is it love or material Everyone's values towards love are different Some people get married for each other's money Some people are married for each other's money Some people are for the pursuit of love What kind of person do you think you are? Think about what you need most, and you'll know what to do.

As for parents, I think in this day and age, marriage is really not something they can control us, if you decide that you want happiness, it is useless for them to interfere, this is not unfilial piety to them, but a kind of attachment to your own beliefs, you can tell your parents, marriage is your own, happiness is also your own, and the person who spends his life with him is you, not your parents, so the final decision is of course yourself, and you yourself must be clear about your own direction, don't get lost, if you yourself are lost Then your parents will have to introduce you to a messy boyfriend The person you like and the person you identify must insist on yourself You have to measure it yourself and live a happy life with someone who has money and a good job, but you don't love him, or live a happy life with someone who doesn't have any big ambitions, but he loves you and you love him, think about it.

You have a cowardly personality and no fighting spirit, this is a hard injury, so you will definitely listen to your parents' arrangements in choosing which boyfriend, you have a boyfriend who really loves each other and goes against your emotions to go on a blind date with others, which is enough to show that love is not important in your heart, your parents' theory is that there is happiness if you are rich, and marrying your own boyfriend who loves you will live in hard work, in fact, two people have love, they are working hard to **, and no self-motivation is also your evaluation of your boyfriend, So you give up your boyfriend who you love and be with this rich man, it is estimated that the world is peaceful, but you have to deal with the man you love and let him be less hurt.

Marriage is a lifetime. Trust your heart and stay true to your own feelings. You can actually tell your parents how you really feel.

I don't think external conditions are the whole story of happiness. How many people got married for the sake of external vanity, and later divorced. Marriage is not the end, but a new beginning.

Sincere advice, give a high score.

In a word, in this case, don't listen to your parents, although it is a material society, can money buy happiness? If you force yourself to be with him like this, you won't be happy, that's all.

Look at what you want to do First of all, think about whether your parents can satisfy them once you raise us See if you can persuade them to respect their opinions once No matter what happens in the future, you can't complain about your family In fact, it's not easy to be a parent Just want us to live a good life.

Don't look at whether he has money now, see if the man has potential, and don't trust your judgment too much. When I was young, I didn't really know what love was.

Also, whoever is rich is not as rich as himself.