Should I go to my boyfriend s father s birthday?

Updated on educate 2024-06-26
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Of course, you have to go, so that you can give his family more opportunities to get to know you, otherwise it is easy to cause misunderstanding and think that you are avoiding. Don't make a bad impression of his family in this regard. When the time comes, just follow your boyfriend, he will take care of you, as long as he loves you, and even if his father doesn't like you, there is no way to stop him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe it's because her dad doesn't like to talk.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    His dad just doesn't like to talk, it's not for you alone, just think it out yourself!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you go, you can go! If you don't have an invitation, you won't go!

    That's it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think that you are your boyfriend's girlfriend, and his father's birthday, no matter what, you should go and congratulate him.

    You don't think his dad's first impression of you is very good. You should go even more, it's a sign of politeness and an opportunity for you to improve your impression in his father's mind. Let his dad know that you are a good girl...

    That's the best way to go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't go. You're just a girlfriend, not a fiancée, you have no name and no share, what are you going to do, not to mention that people don't like you yet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'll go if I invite you.

    Buy a gift without an invitation and ask your boyfriend to bring it back to him.

    It's ok le....

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course you have to go, this may be your best chance to get him to have a crush on you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Did he invite you? Going. How do you want to give your boyfriend face. Again. Meet at once. You don't have to touch all of them.

    Maybe this meeting will change his father's impression of you.

    Didn't I invite you? Don't go to classes. Otherwise, it feels like a home. It feels like you're shameless. I didn't even invite you. You're here.

    And also. It's better if his dad says please. Better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men love to pretend! If you don't go, he'll be upset and will criticize your boyfriend.

    If you go to him, he is obviously snubbed on the surface, but in fact, he is still happy in his heart!

    Thinking that Secluded You are his son's girlfriend and he should be happier to be proud of his son.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are invited, you will go, if you are not invited, don't go, at most buy a gift.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course go to La! Then be generous and be a good helper in his house for a few days! If he really loves you, he will only be happy from the bottom of his heart and will not embarrass you when he sees you mingling with his mother, which is also a testimony to your love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you love him, of course you have to go, this is your chance to behave. If you feel in doubt, it's best to ask your boyfriend for clarification.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Silly! How can you go about it! The name festival is important! Ahh Not married yet? I'm not afraid of being laughed at! ~~

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since it was his mother who invited you, if you don't go, his mother will think that you are playing a big role.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go, you must go, he said that you are tired because of the excuse.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you reach the age of falling in love, then go generously. After all, the old man likes to be lively.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Nothing! Go if you have time!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go, no matter what, I'm going to go, and his mother said why don't you go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Whether you like it or not is your boyfriend's business, whether you go or not is your business, believe in yourself!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If the other party is not invited, you can not go, ask someone to bring a blessing, or just congratulate you in advance. It is not necessary to give gifts, and the parents on both sides are generally about the same age, so if you know this, you can greet them.

    If you are invited, you have to go, and you have to have a gift.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have a boyfriend, you can go by yourself, and you don't need your parents to go. But it's best if your parents give your boyfriend's father a ** congratulations.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the relationship is very good, it should go

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's up to you two at that stage.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It should be out, and it's okay to be out of the general friend, because you're not married, if his family knows that you're there, then it's more than others, because in this way his family can improve a lot of feelings for you, you're not married, but you're still friends, aren't you, as friends, you should also come out, right?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You don't have to go out, just let the people arrive, and it is better to respect the old man and say some blessings than anything else.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't, you haven't married him yet, it's not in line with the etiquette.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Show your heart, the old man shouldn't mind if you can't get out, but other relatives and friends don't know, so you avoid leaving a bad impression on them, and you should wrap a big red envelope.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You don't have to go out of the molecule, buy gifts.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When you go back, you buy gifts, and the first time you meet his family, his family will also return red envelopes to you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If both parents agree that you are dating, and you also plan to get married, such as the occasion of the 60th birthday, you should go, your mother thinks that it is not good for you to go often, probably because she has some concerns, and may be afraid that other people's gossip will affect you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You also said, your mother said that it is not good to go often, which means that you usually like to go a little, and you usually go often, but you don't go on a special day like today, what will others think, today his father (that is, your future father-in-law) has a birthday, I think you have to go to congratulate.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello, if your development is to get married and the man's parents are also very recognized, I think this kind of 60th birthday should be celebrated on this occasion, not to create unhappiness in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    They are right, you should go, don't have any scruples, go.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Ask your boyfriend what his parents like about it, just be within your ability, you don't need to be expensive, you just have a heart.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Ask your boyfriend what his father likes and dislikes, and it's best to prepare it with your boyfriend so as not to send it wrong. Try to pick the festive ones.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you are an elderly, you usually send wine or tea, and if you don't want your boyfriend or mother to be angry, don't send cigarettes.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Necks, clothes, you can do it, and it's not expensive.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Ask your boyfriend if his dad has any hobbies or favorites.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Ask your boyfriend, or prepare with your boyfriend.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Supplements, clothes, tea, good wine.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's best to smoke and drink, my mother doesn't know.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    His dad drinks tea, and when he drinks tea, he can send some good tea, and if he smokes, he can send a good cigarette or good wine.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Of course you have to go.

    As his girlfriend, you can't be absent from this kind of occasion.

    You don't just have to go.

    And be careful when dressing.

    Pay attention to the gifts you buy.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If the relationship between you and your boyfriend has been determined, then you can go, and his mother should admit you when he asks you to go, it doesn't matter if you are familiar or not, you must go from unfamiliar to familiar, and if you want to become a family in the future, come on

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Don't get acquainted, if this man is married, then you have to go, give enough face, and give your man enough spirit.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think you should go, his mother told you to go. Go with something practical, festive.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you get married in the future, you won't go, then it's better not to go.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I don't know what you're hesitating to copy? But obviously I feel the pressure from you.

    It's because you don't want your relationship with your boyfriend to go too fast.

    Or is it just because you feel uncomfortable and stressed about going to such an unfamiliar environment (they are all relatives)?

    If you're sure it's the first thought, you're not ready to settle on a relationship. Then you might as well excuse yourself to have something at home and give him a decent gift.

    If it's because their relatives will see you, you feel uncomfortable and stressed about it. Then you can consider going, just take the opportunity to get closer to their family. You also understand that when two people are together, they need to be accepted by the family.

    It's just that on the day of the birthday party, you need to communicate well with your boyfriend, you can ask him to take the initiative to introduce you to his relatives, and stay with you during the birthday party, and not leave you aside. That should be a little bit of a relief for you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's best to ask your boyfriend about his dad's personality to see if he is very face-saving or amiable, and to know if he is right about his dad.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    In that case, I would like you to tie a scarf for him, but the important thing is the heart, the courtesy.

    Version light affection is heavy But let you meet your parents, that means that your relationship has been affirmed now, as for what to say, it will not be known until that day, I am not very clear about this aspect, I have not encountered it But on that day, I want to be a girl, I should be generous With the idea of "if you come, you will be safe", don't be too nervous Work hard, come on

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Judging by the current situation.

    His bai's father is only possible Aquarius, du

    That's easy. zhi

    Aquarius people.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Sixty birthdays, your performance should be mature, steady, and you must bring gifts, if his father is more academic.

    If you are non-academic, Moutai, Wuliangye, red wine, etc., you should sit upright, look directly at each other's eyebrows when speaking, and don't take the initiative to speak, because his parents must have a lot of things to understand from you, if you talk more, it will seem that you are very abrupt, giving people a feeling of atmosphere, which will make the elders have a good impression of you, and take the initiative to help his mother cook, even if his mother does not let him, he must do it until your boyfriend tells you that you don't want to do it, You have to show submissiveness and go back and continue to ask his parents questions.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Buy a cake, it's the easiest.

    As for how to do it, keep smiling, I'm sure your boyfriend will take care of you.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Buy cake and some clothes for the intimate warmth.

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