Can I marry someone who doesn t have compassion and doesn t care much about me?

I can only read from your description, I can only read that he has only 1 flaw - not caring about himself and others.

You can take a piece of paper yourself and write about his shortcomings on the left and his strengths on the right. So you have a clear comparison. Let yourself have the answers!

I don't know if you have lived a housework life with him, to be realistic, after getting married, the harmony in the housework life of the two is much more important than love, love is after all those years, and the days are decades. Weigh it yourself. This can also give you some basis for judgment!

From your description, I also sense that he seems to be very negative about life, if that's the case, forget it!

If he has money.

And you don't want to work your own in the future.

Then you can get married.

If there is nothing.

And it's cold. Then you don't want to get married.

Such people generally have mental defects.

It is recommended that you choose someone else.

China is huge. What good people don't.

Love is no better than bread.

Say a thousand things and ten thousand, it's all in vain, emotional things are not clear, you just need to ask yourself: Do you feel tired with him? How tired is it? How long can it last? What you have to learn is to choose from your own answers.

This only shows that this man has not (at least not yet) loved you.

I can't talk to him about marriage yet!

Marriage is a lifelong thing, don't joke about marriage. When it's time to let go, it's time to let go.

Marry him, and you are doomed to failure in this life.

Finding someone who doesn't love you to marry can only be sad for the rest of your life.

Don't be with him, he'll hurt you, give up, don't you feel tired like this?

You tell me? Are you going to marry someone who is even skeptical of yourself? Wake up.

Wake up, girl.

If you want to find someone, find someone who cherishes you.

What do you want? I feel like you have to be worthy of your heart.

It's all pampered by my brothers and sisters. So, he has love, but he can't express it. I don't know where to express it.

Let's start by caring about your older brothers and sisters, and start by caring about your parents. From doing small things for parents, older brothers and sisters to cultivate. It won't be long before you show your love.

Family factors, caused by the environment in which I grew up, it still takes some time to change!

It's not that he doesn't care about others, but he doesn't know how to express it, he has a heart with strong feelings, but he doesn't show it, he looks cold but is actually very enthusiastic.

Normally, such a person does not know how to care about others, and when he is 40 years old, he will understand.

If you don't have compassion, you don't have compassion.

In general, men who have no empathy for others are good to those around them.

I hope you can choose the right one.

After all, getting married is your life's event!

Only know how to care for the disadvantaged??? There is no one in the world who needs to be pitied....Is he sympathetic to people with an equal status mentality? If he doesn't know how to care about the people around him, it means that he is not really sensible, and it is difficult for him to stand on the society....

Same with me. But when he matures, he will know that his parents are irreplaceable, and believe in him, he will be filial to his parents.

When you see someone who needs to be cared for, you have to reach out and help them.

The material is satisfied by him, and the spirit finds another satisfaction.

I sympathize with the two options, or find someone who really loves you, but the marriage is not always perfect, or he doesn't care about you, you can convince him to care about you, and if you behave well, he may be truly in love with you.

If you love him, you will continue to live, and if you don't love him, you will divorce.

Communicate with him well, or you take the initiative to care for him first.

It can be expressed in the following words:

Watching coldly, standing idly by, and ignoring it

Femme fatales are heartfelt, ruthless, and indifferent

Wolves watch, turn a blind eye, and have a human face and a beast's heart.

Crazy, devoid of conscience, and inhumane.

A smart woman will not compare herself with her husband's mother, and she is not comparable.

To put it mildly, my wife can be changed, but my mother can't.

If you must think that you are better than your mother, then such a husband is likely to be better than you are to Xiaosan.

There are good things that should not be left for the husband, nor should they be left for the children, so that they can only feel that this is the way it should be, it will spoil them, and the good things are shared by everyone.

What should be honest between husband and wife, if you don't like it, say it, if you don't say it, how will the other party know, you have to guess your mind, how to please you, who will keep this mind every day?

If you leave when your husband is at his most down, others will not have a good impression of you. Are you sure you can find a better one?

But whether to go or not is up to you, if your husband is really not a good person, you should still decide, judge for yourself, after all, it is a lifelong thing.

Such a person, you must let him know your importance, so that you go out to play for a few days, you don't call him**Don't send him a message, let him take the initiative to call you, you can't get used to him, this will spoil him, you can't be too proactive.

If you praise the other party as the emperor, the other party will treat you as a princess, and love needs to be managed and tolerated.

Maybe he's too busy, you can be more spoiled with him.

In fact, husband and wife don't need anyone to please whom,

Find something to enrich yourself, watch some favorite movies, buy a favorite clothes, and adjust your mood first. Participate in more social activities, go to orphanages to see children, nursing homes to see the elderly, and let it be.

It's okay, you can try to care more about others, and if it's okay, communicate more with the people around you, and it will get better slowly.

Want to escape? The reality is cruel, have you been defeated, then you are too inferior.

The road you choose by yourself is no matter how difficult it is, and there are some things along the way that you won't hand him over, so you can talk about it appropriately

Some men's personalities are like this, my husband is good to me for everything, that is, he doesn't care about people, he won't comfort me when I'm sad, landlord, be more tolerant of husband and wife, be considerate of each other, you haven't known each other for a long time, the emotional foundation is not very stable, and it will get better if you run in slowly.

First of all, you have to care about him and be considerate of him, so that he understands how important it is to feel like this, and how you treat him, he will do to you.