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Tone: Both sides are material, both sides are realistic.
It's just that the perspective of thinking about material and reality is different, because the status in the marriage and love relationship is different.
It is undeniable that women in modern society have a dominant position in marriage and love relationships (if someone has to say that they are not dominant across three orders of magnitude, I have nothing to say).
Dominant position means that more demands can be made, or women's demands are clearly expressed, while men, many *** don't say that giving opportunities is a gift. Men's demands are secretly poked and poked, not to say, but they know it in their hearts.
Men in a disadvantaged position are faced with a more fierce competition, assuming that the average mate selection requirement of women is x, and men must achieve at least x+ to get more choices. But this behavior promotes the increase of women's demands, and men will continue to increase their mate selection rights in order to obtain more rights** in order to close the deal.
As the ** is getting higher and higher, after the overall mate selection conditions of women exceed the ability of most men, men begin to differentiate: some men begin to calculate the input-output ratio, some men find that they cannot meet the mate selection conditions and leave, and the men who meet and exceed the conditions are divided.
Men face a more realistic competitive market, while most women, especially some who are expecting a better spouse, are actually facing a reality based on the conditions of others.
Mate selection conditions are part of decision-making, and arbitrary coherence dictates that humans are not sensitive to absolute quantities but are particularly sensitive to relative quantities.
Summary: 1. Both parties are material, and due to the dominant position of women, men's material demands cannot be expressed. (I'm wondering if this is the reason for some of the personification of women or fertility).
2. Both sides are realistic, but men are facing the reality of competition, and women are facing the same sex is more realistic.
3. Women have more power to speak than men, resulting in women expressing more than men.
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No one thinks differently But there are often many men who become big things, and women are only strong women, and they are realistic for money.
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Very realistic woman!
If a man likes a woman and doesn't look at her materialism, and a woman will take this as a very important criterion for choosing a mate, but not all women are like this!
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I agree with the one upstairs, men and women are the same, everyone has their own ideas, people die for money, birds die for food, it's the same
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Hello heart and heart:
Meet you again and your question, what about fate Hehe.
Are all your questions so eye-popping?
When I looked at this question, I thought, "Do you think male cats catch mice, or do female cats catch mice?" Hehehe.
goodluck!
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It's all realistic, there's nothing to measure who is better?
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Women will be more realistic! If you don't believe me, you can do a random survey yourself!
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All the same reality,. You love me, I love you, and I can't love white flour and rice.
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No need to ask, no need to think!
It's definitely a woman!
I've done research!
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The concept of "real man" is the starting point and the end point of Marx's study of historical materialism. Marx defined the "real man" as: the man who is based on material production activities; Individuals under certain historical conditions; Individuals engaged in activities and material production; People who are in a certain social relationship; Individuals with thoughts, ideas, and consciousness.
The real man is both natural and social, and at the same time conscious. The so-called "real person" not only needs to meet his own needs for material materials, but also needs to obtain his own social status and obtain the recognition of others. In short, the real man mentioned here is both material and social.
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In fact, men are more realistic, because they are often good at weighing the pros and cons and know how to defend their own interests.
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In today's society, women will be more realistic, because women can deeply realize that only money can make them feel secure enough, and men are unreliable.
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In fact, women should be more realistic, because in this society, men are generally more capable.
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I think men would be a little bit more realistic. They will not be carried away by love, they will have some opinions of their own, and they will be more realistic.
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Who is more realistic, man or woman, what is the difference between man and woman.
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It's all like this, after all, this is the real society, and too idealistic can only exist in **, TV. It's also normal to feel more and more lonely, so some people will prefer to drink to get themselves drunk, knowing that drinking is not good. Therefore, some people will go to find a hobby (such as fishing, raising flowers, etc., singing and dancing can only become a favorite but difficult to become a hobby), faith, etc., these are things that can be placed on the soul (the essential difference between humans and animals:
People have thoughts. For example, the use of tools, the use of fire, etc., are all derived from thoughts).
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After men enter the society, they are busy working all day long, working hard to earn money, and want to survive and develop, most of the friends they make are related to interests, and there are few friends in the real sense, so they will feel very lonely, no one really cares about and supports themselves, everyone really cares about how to make more money, everyone falls into this trap and can't get out, the emotions that human beings really need are difficult to get, and people only have interests in their eyes.
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Before entering the society, I don't know much about the society, and I am full of illusions about the society, but after stepping into the society, my life experience increases, and I have an objective understanding of life, which is a manifestation of a person's maturity. There is nothing right or wrong.
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At the beginning, the man who said that he wanted to drive a luxury car, live in a villa, and raise a dog within three years.
After experiencing the beating of society, they have become honest and pragmatic, after all, this is only a material society.
It is not very realistic to talk about ideals in a material society.
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I think that men have become more realistic in the years after entering society, and material men are actually similar to women, because life is like this.
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It's normal, it's a material world now, everyone is material, it's not that boys will get out of the mud and not stain, it's all the same.
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Women's reality is generally on their lips. And the reality of men is generally in their hearts, many girls, as long as they really like this man, even if the other party is so poor that they are tinkling, as long as they are really good to him, he will be a moth to the fire. The requirements will drop again and again, and the bottom line will be retreated again and again, and men feel that love and marriage are not the same.
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Is it the woman or the man who is the most realistic?
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Times are changing, society is changing, men and women are the same, I think they are all realistic, in fact, there is nothing wrong with human reality, after all, people have to be realistic if they want to survive.
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Depending on the situation, some women are very realistic, some men are very realistic, depending on their personality, and at different ages.
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It depends on the person, not all men and women.
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Are you a woman? Or female? It's all realistic.
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