We broke up, how do I deal with his concern?

Updated on society 2024-06-07
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Tell you, your experience is the same as mine, I am like this now, my girlfriend went back to her former boyfriend, but she made a decision in a situation where she had no choice, but she told me that she loves me, she can't live without me, I believe in her because I love her! So I still want to do the same to her before, and she doesn't refuse, because she knows that I am the best. So, you too, think about whether he is the best, whether there is anything you should cherish or regret!

    Feelings are a very profound thing, not as simple as you think, and don't think about it as simple!

    I hope I can help you and hope you have a happy life and love!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's like refusal, since you have broken up, you should forget this love, and life must look forward, especially if you are proposing to break up now. Maybe that man still loves you, if your heart really doesn't love him anymore, don't give him any chance, it will hurt him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal, it's just that he didn't die in his name, and he still wants to be with you!

    If you don't want to be together, tell him very clearly, thank you for the relationship, but we can't do it, don't give him any hope, otherwise he will chase after him!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's up to you.

    If you still love him, try to be together again.

    If you don't love him, then politely decline.

    Don't procrastinate, hurt others and hurt yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. If you want to care about each other, you can also use your friends. Thinking about who you are now, it is more of a feeling of embarrassment. I want to care about the other party, but I am afraid that that person will cause misunderstanding, so I don't care about myself and sit on pins and needles.

    I believe it is also a very good way to send condolences and solutions to things through friends.

    2. Sending a simple text message is also a challenge for your own heart. But since you are destined to be a thing of the past, then you can also have a normal heart. It is not impossible to be the friend around him who is most worthy of his cherishment, and then I believe that he can bear it.

    2. Is it appropriate to care about the other person after a breakup?

    1. Many people are also worried that if they care about each other after the breakup, they are afraid that the person will cause any misunderstanding, and they are afraid of bringing some unnecessary trouble to that person's life. Since you have such worries, you must let yourself hold back the kind of concern in your heart. You might as well be a person who is soft on the inside and strong on the outside.

    2. I want to care about a person, and I think about whether I can do such a thing. Since you are worried about the right fit or not, you might as well let go of your mentality. Let yourself endure this kind of torment, and don't bother the other person.

    Since that person doesn't have any suspense about you, and there are no illusions, I believe that they will gradually forget you.

    The most painful ending between lovers is to break up, after the breakup, many people actually have no dead hearts at all, and want to send blessings to each other, send care at the same time, and feel that they have some superfluity. How do lovers who have broken up care? After reading it carefully, I realized that I needed to consider each other's feelings.

    Think about it, since you broke up, and there is one more person by his side who loves him, there is no need to cause trouble for the other person. Think about how much you care about someone at the same time, but what other people think in their hearts, have you ever thought about it? Everything is two-sided, and when you don't want to have emotional entanglements with someone again, and don't want to cause trouble to that person, you have to learn to come out of the other person's world.

    Since you can't give her happiness, then don't have any entanglement with her, maybe it seems ruthless, but in fact, it is really let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you still want to care about her after breaking up, it means that you are still disconnected from her and have not given up the pursuit of her, this kind of care will easily affect your future love life, so if you want to care about her, you can only care about the difficulties he encounters at work, and you can't help her in other aspects.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After the breakup, you don't have to care about her anymore, after all, you have already broken up between you, if you don't plan to continue. What's the point of caring for him? If you care about him at this time, it is only possible for the other party to misunderstand you, and even the other party to hate you.

    Since they have all broken up, they should let each other go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you want to care about her after a breakup, you can start with her friends, but don't send her a direct message, because she may also need to calm down during this time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To be honest, there is no need, if you really want to care about the other party after the breakup, then it is enough to greet the other party politely and appropriately, because excessive concern will only make the other party more sad. Be sure to pay more attention to yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After the breakup, if you want to care about him, it is recommended that you pay more attention to the dynamics of his circle of friends, like him, and then ask him for a message from his friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can ask him if he's feeling bad and how he feels now. If you want to go further, you can give her what she likes to buy, so that you can make it more clear that you care about him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After the breakup, in fact, you can still care about him, and you can still shush him as before, but the way you use it is different.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After the breakup, you can often go to the girl to fight **, or often buy some gifts for the girl, buy some snacks that the girl likes to eat, so as to show that you care about the girl, and the girl will thank you very much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello! Hello, dear user friends, I am happy to answer your questions! That is to call her more, ask her if she is full, pay attention to her health, and often ask her about things, so that you can If you are insufficient, you can continue to ask, if you are satisfied, thank you

    Thanks!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After the breakup, if you want to care about her, don't mention the reunion, you forget about it, and get along with her as an ordinary friend, so the care should be just right, and it's okay to chat occasionally.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After the breakup, if you particularly want to care about this girl, you can directly take the initiative to call this girl, and ask a girl what kind of life situation she is now, as long as you take the initiative, then you will definitely be able to show your concern for this girl.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After breaking up, you can send a message to ask for warmth, send her a gift on a holiday or birthday, and he will know that you can't let go of him and will get back together with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The change in the relationship must understand in your heart that you are no longer the other half of the other party. If you want to care, you should occasionally make a ** or text message in a simple way, but don't chat frequently. Knowing how to say simple words is less, so that person will be able to understand that you don't care enough about yourself, and at the same time that he feels this way, he has already proved that you are friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The best way, then you are to prove it with practical actions. Because if you really want to care about the other party after the breakup, then you can only take the initiative to prove it to this girl with practical actions, then it is possible to move her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the breakup, there is no need to care about the other person anymore, your silent attention is the greatest concern for him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can often say some nice things to this girl, or often say hello to this girl, or often say good morning and good night, or say this kind of concern for yourself, I think it is a very correct approach.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After a breakup, try not to take the initiative to disturb each other's lives. This is a minimum of respect. You can silently care about it in your heart. If there's something she can't solve. But as a friend with appropriate help.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since they are no longer together and have broken up, there is no need to care about her anymore, it is useless to care about her, he doesn't have you in his heart, and your concern for him will cause him to be more disgusted, so the best thing to do is to calm down, stay away from him, don't think about him anymore, and no longer care about his feelings and contact with him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you want to care about him after a breakup, you can send him a message through WeChat to care for him. If he wants you to care about him, you can care about him, if he doesn't want to, you care about him, it's a burden for him, and you don't care about him anymore.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't care about your former girlfriend after you break up, after all, the two of you have broken up, you are both free, pay attention to your future love life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After breaking up, there is no need to care about her anymore, because the two people have no feelings, let alone intersection, if they still care about each other, it is a kind of secondary injury, in fact, there is no need to give her good wishes, I hope she is happy, and she can live her own life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you want to get back together after a breakup, you can care about her, for example, when you come to your aunt in your life, when you are in a bad mood, you can care about her, take care of her, and pick her up when you go to and from work. It's all a sign of concern.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After a breakup, as long as you care about your ex-girlfriend, you can text occasionally or occasionally interact with the two of you. But I personally suggest that you don't think too much about it after you break up, so that it will be difficult for the other party to accept.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Although they broke up, they still care about each other's daily life.

    1. It shows that he really loves his ex.

    Have you ever really loved, after breaking up, you can see your behavior clearly; In a person's heart, as long as he has truly loved someone, then in this life, he will definitely not be able to be quiet and unable to let go; So after breaking up, people who still love their ex, their favorite thing to do is to turn over their ex's dynamics; As long as you see something sent by your ex, you will be very concerned and care very much; I can't help but want to see what the other party has sent, and I'm very curious; This is a person who has never really loved him, and he will never behave in a way; People who have never really loved each other, as long as they do anything after separation, they will not take it to heart, and they may block or delete each other.

    Second, it shows that he will remember his predecessor.

    If you break up, it doesn't mean that the love is broken, and the love is gone; There are many people who just change their way to love their beloved; So a person who still looks at the dynamics of his ex after breaking up can say with certainty that in his heart, the love for his ex has always been there, and in his heart, he has not let go, and has been thinking about the ex's manual; Therefore, he will not be able to control himself, and will always look at his ex's dynamics when he has time and time, to understand what his predecessor has sent, so as to comfort his heart; A person who puts down his ex and doesn't think about his ex, he won't take anything his ex does seriously, and he won't take the time to look at his ex's dynamics.

    Third, it shows that he still wants to get back together with his ex.

    can accompany the person you really love, experience the most beautiful life together, and see the scenery together; This is something that everyone has no control over in their hearts; And if a person, after breaking up, still goes to see the dynamics of his ex, it shows that in this person's heart, he still has illusions about his ex; I always think that one day, I can continue to be with my ex and watch the flowers bloom and fall; And a person who doesn't want to have anything to do with Yuan Hui's ex; Even if you have love in your heart, you don't want to be disturbed by the other person; So not only will I not look at my ex's news, but I may also delete my ex's WeChat, and I feel out of sight and upset.

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