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Smile at her and be polite to her so that you can keep your mind calm, and as for whether or not to be friends with her, that's another matter.
Emotions are a set of behaviors, and the state of mind sounds good, but things are too elusive and difficult to manipulate, and you can control them slowly by treating emotions as behaviors.
Just like whether you are angry and scolding someone, or laughing and scolding, the same hostile behavior but your own experience is indeed different.
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This can't be completely said that your mentality is bad, if you have a really bad mentality, you won't publish it on the Internet. Personally, I think it's not wrong that the person you hate doesn't like it, the key is that you haven't dealt with the relationship between people, if you hate her, you can be invisible, when she doesn't exist, you can also say that she is really annoying to you, then you should be happy, right, how can she reflect your likability if she doesn't hate? If she's very likable, you're not an obnoxious person, and you're a nuisance when compared to someone who is very likable, so you should be happy about it.
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Why do you want to work? Ask yourself seriously.
If it were me, I knew that the purpose of my work was to support myself and by the way, to improve my abilities so that I could better support myself in the future.
I know that in order to achieve my goals smoothly and as soon as possible, the support, acceptance and support of my colleagues and leaders around me are indispensable.
For the sake of your goals, try to get along with the people around you, and look at their strengths, and you will be happy.
If your goal is to work with someone you like, it is advisable to start your own company. It's up to you to make the final say in recruitment
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Kindness.. It can only show that you are still a simple person, and if you have been honing in society for a few more years, you will not be so easy to be happy.
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Learn to tolerate a person Always thinking about hating her will only make you uncomfortable Others won't lose a piece of meat or anything If you have any contradictions, just get straight to the point and make it clear Reduce misunderstandings People can't be perfect.
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There are some people and some things that we cannot force and cannot do, so since this is the case, we should relax our minds and let it take its course. Maintain an open-minded mindset and don't let yourself live tired, let alone let your heart be too tired. There is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, and there is no bend that cannot be turned.
The road is at our feet, our own road needs to be walked by ourselves, no matter how many wind and rain we have to go through in front of us, we must work hard to walk down-to-earth. Relax your mind, go with the flow, and don't care about the gains and losses of every little thing in life, which is really happy. Good mentality, all right!
For yourself, live hard, and live happily!
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It's a matter of mentality, there are so many people in the world, there are all kinds of things, there will naturally be what you like, there are things you don't like, similar to what you like in life, what you can do is to choose what you like, don't show a dislike attitude towards what you don't like, just know it in your heart, as long as it doesn't affect your life.
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It's true that cultivation is not enough, read more books to increase your knowledge, and see more! Discover everyone's brilliance!
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It is not good to have a state of mind, not to affect the inner peace of mind with external things, but to strive for peace of mind, broad-mindedness, broad-mindedness, and the unity of nature and man, when you reach this realm.
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You should try to control yourself as much as possible.
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Take your time, there are always so many unsatisfactory in life, and you will get used to it after a long time.
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This kind of problem will basically appear in life, everyone has everyone's style of doing things, strong points are the same as what you said, nothing can be shown, but in the future as an adult, it is better to be stable, try to avoid everything emotional, you can try to face her, first suppress your mood, try not to be excited, I really can't stand it, you can try to contact him as little as possible, put your mind at peace
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Well, your mentality is not good, you hate a person, and you can't bring it out, let yourself calm down, and ask a few more whys when you encounter something.
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It's not entirely a matter of mentality, you can find out why you hate her and slowly improve it, and that's fine.
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It's not that the mentality is not good, everyone's mentality is very strong, but the reaction to the situation is different, and the summary is that there is little experience.
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Mindset is very important, you have to try to communicate well with your classmates, that will ease your relationship.
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I want to know you, after all, it's a true temperament, but this is not something to eat in society, society is like this, you have to see people talk about people, see ghosts and talk nonsense, maybe you are still young, just experience more,
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You should try to get to know her, figure out why you hate her, be calm and don't show it so obviously.
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When you lose money, you will know how to deal with this kind of problem.
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It shows that you are still a simple person, a very straight person.
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No mentality means no feelings, no expectations and no ideas.
Collapse of mentality means that the development of the sail circle of a certain thing or situation collapses beyond expectations, and it is impossible to accept it.
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It's the difference between looking at the keyboard in a daze and smashing the keyboard crazily.
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Hello dear. According to past experience, if you understand from a professional point of view, there should be two levels, one is that it is difficult to maintain a more objective and detached attitude towards various social phenomena or experiences, and it is easy to be dissatisfied and complain, and it is easy to understand the problem from a negative perspective. This situation has something to do with personal life experiences, and it may also have something to do with personal personality.
If you are not usually such a person, or the average person who usually behaves cannot see it, and it has recently worsened significantly, it may be related to depression and anxiety, and it is necessary to rule out whether there is depression or anxiety first. More serious bad mentality may be a pathological manifestation, prominent personality disorder patients often show bad mentality, the general understanding is that it is easier to complain, in the eyes of the patient no one is good to themselves, may have a certain relationship with personality disorder. [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale].
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A bad mentality can generally be carried out in the form of psychology and self-adjustment.
The adjustment of mentality is very important for socializing, the two common mentalities are positive mentality and negative mentality, under the effect of positive mentality, patients will become cheerful and overcome difficulties when encountering difficulties, on the contrary, negative mentality will bring negative effects to the human body, so that patients look at problems with a gloomy attitude, and feel disappointed and meaningless in life. If the patient's mentality is not good, it will lead to the quality of daily life, adults will have an impact on work due to a bad mentality, and the student's bad mentality may also affect the grades. Patients can also use self-regulation to improve, communicate with parents and friends, pour out inner pressure, and effective exercise to divert attention, so as to achieve a good state of mind.
Patients maintain a positive and optimistic attitude in their daily lives to avoid affecting their physical and mental health.
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It really doesn't workDivorce。What else should we do? Because of this kind of thing, looking for death? To die? Sister, do you think it's worth it? Because this kind of person is not alive, and you are only 25
As for child consultation, there is always a solution. It's useless to think about the rest of the matter, what divorce is not good for children, it's difficult to raise children alone. It's hard for you to leave, it's still hard not to leave, and it's hard to be horizontal and vertical.
It's up to you how you choose? It can only be said that there is still a little chance in the future, and it may not be possible to meet a sincere person in the future.
There may be a way to alleviate family conflicts, the problem is. Family conflicts are a family affair, and everyone must understand their own problems and work together to make changes. You can't solve it alone.
Mother-in-law has always been strong, you beg to endure it, ok mother-in-law, that's okay, what about yourself? How long can you endure it? A day or two?
A year or two? Lifetime?
I really want to scold you, don't you think you are a fertility wife in his family? It's not okay to have a daughter, you have to have a son. There are children and daughters still alive, and the family conditions are so casual, just this family?
What is the guarantee for the future life of the child? It's hard to raise, and his family lets you give birth to you, don't you have any idea? Although it's useless to scold you now, I just want to scold, nothing else.
For your own sake, get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible. I've been kicked out twice, and I'm still cheeky. Is his house a golden house or a silver house?
To put it mildly, what can you do if you are in a hurry, and when the child throws it away, he turns around and leaves? 25 You can't stand being ugly? Lower your conditions to find a man who doesn't know anything else?
Of course, this is quite irresponsible, and God Lao Zhao will say it casually. It's nothing if you do this, at most he will continue to scold you behind his back, scolding? Have you been scolded less over the years?
Children are pitiful, you are destined to give birth to them in this kind of family.
You Kai weighs everything by himself.
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People with a bad attitude first affect their mood, no matter what the situation is, Hu Cha will be very unhappy;
Secondly, it will affect the outcome of the matter, which is quite simple, and the bad mentality may make the pants cover skin stuffy and complicated;
Finally, a bad mindset can affect the interpersonal relationships around you.
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What kind of person will have a bad mentality.
Usually stubborn, arrogant, subjective, and short-tempered people are not very good-spirited. For these people, the advice given is to learn to look at things dialectically, what you see with your eyes is not necessarily true, and you must learn to see with your heart. And the more things are solved with negative emotions and mentality, the more you can't find a suitable solution, so try to calm your mind and adjust your mentality, and you will find a better way.
What to do if you have a bad mentality.
1. Learn to vent. Violent venting methods often hurt themselves or family members or objects, choosing the right way to vent will not only make people easier but also have no impact on others, such as sports, karaoke, crying, etc., are good ways.
2. Learn to share. It will be easier to write down unpleasant things with a pen or find a friend to talk to you about them.
3. It is also a good way to go out for a walk or travel together, in the process of traveling, you will dissect the bad emotions in your heart, and you will also grow from it.
What to do if you have a bad mentality. To learn to vent and release, you can vent by singing, eating, and crying. In the process of walking, people will experience different people and errands, and they will also find their own attitude towards life, and try to adjust their current attitude to better adapt to life.
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I do choose to travel, because this can make us feel the beauty of life, love nature more, love life, and be more positive about the beautiful life in the town.
Therefore, it is very important to be optimistic and positive to yearn for a better life, and we can do the following to improve ourselves and improve our good attitude:
1.Know yourself well.
We must reflect on ourselves wisely and quietly, thoroughly understand ourselves, list our strengths and weaknesses, understand which aspects we have done well, which aspects still have insufficient efforts, and understand ourselves more objectively, which aspects can be solved now, which ones need to be solved for a long time, etc., and only after fully understanding ourselves can we effectively improve ourselves, find the goal of improvement, and have continuous motivation.
2.Take a long-term view.
When we make some major decisions, we can take into account the situation in five years, we can be more independent and self-disciplined, the more long-term a person's vision, the clearer his goals, the more able to stick to good habits.
3.Be realistic in setting goals.
The goal is unrealistic and too ideal, which leads to the bad situation of working hard for a period of time and still not seeing hope, so you will lose the motivation to work hard and cannot continue to persevere, so we must set goals realistically, and make a little more progress every day, so that we will make ourselves better and better.
4.Dare to change yourself.
When you want to become self-disciplined and better, some bad habits will be accompanied by changes, and if you want to change bad habits, you must, after continuous efforts and self-adjustment, so it is very important to adhere to self-discipline, only persistence, in order to cultivate new good living and working habits, so that you can effectively improve yourself, so that you can become more and more excellent.
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