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I raised you, not by kindness, but by biological instinct by blood;
Therefore, since I have no grace to you, you need not repay me.
I would like to thank you for your participation, and my life is more complete.
I just happened to be your father, you just happened to be my daughter and son, I'm not your prequel, and you're not my sequel.
You are an individual, a different soul than I am;
You did not come because of me, you came because of a desire for life.
You are free, and I love you;
But I will never take control of your life "in the name of love".
Hu Shi, a historical figure, has mixed reviews. And his letter to the family, everyone has a different opinion. Some people were moved and felt that he was open-minded and not in front of his children"The one who is high up is holding it up; Some people feel that it violates China's "filial piety" for thousands of years.
I belong to the former, not against "filial piety". Isn't filial piety to parents who are nurturing also have degrees? If to harm the body of outsiders. On the premise of interests, to obey the unreasonable demands of individual parents, is this kind of filial piety desirable?
As a mother, I understand""Filial piety" is the filial piety of the father and the son. Raising a baby is hard, but you can give birth or not, the choice is in our hands. And the child does not have the right to choose his parents, if it was Lu Jingjian who gave birth to them to repay the child's kindness, it is not pure love, how can parents demand the child's instinctive love.
Don't flaunt your greatness, think about how your children treat you, you should first treat your parents who raised you.
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Why do people read? In this article, Mr. Hu Shi made a more in-depth answer to the question.
The first is to inherit the intellectual heritage passed down by the elders and use this legacy to create more value. With this intellectual legacy, one can start a family on his own, shorten his work, and have spare energy to do other things.
Our predecessors have left us a wealth of knowledge, which helps us to have experience support when researching in a certain field, so that we will not be at a loss. It also helps us save a lot of time, and we just need to build on this knowledge.
The second is to read for the sake of reading. To study, you should prepare a few good pairs of glasses, anthropology glasses, archaeology glasses, and grammar glasses. The more glasses, the better, and the finer the better.
For example, when I was in high school, I couldn't read "Dream of Red Mansions" and found its language obscure. Now when I pick it up again, the more I look at it, the more flavorful it becomes. This is the benefit of reading more books.
The third is that reading books can provide ideas and help solve problems. People with shallow knowledge are helpless when they encounter difficulties, and they complain about others. Knowledgeable people are never afraid of difficulties and know how to use what they have learned to solve problems and difficulties encountered in life.
Of course, you must know how to apply what you have learned. Mr. Hu Shi made a very ingenious analogy here: Reading is like using soldiers, raising soldiers to ask them to be useful, otherwise even if they have 100,000 or 200,000 soldiers, it is useless, so they have to wait for them to "mutiny"?
You can't read dead books, you have to be able to internalize knowledge, and internalize what you have learned from books into your own abilities. "Raise soldiers for a thousand days, use them for a while", at the critical moment, hit the shot.
Mr. Hu Shi also provided us with a "way to live", that is, every young person must be proficient in at least one foreign language. Reading foreign Chinese is to have joy and no suffering, and if you can do this, there will be endless fun in the book. This advice is very valuable, I used to read foreign books such as "One Hundred Years of Solitude" and "Love in the Time of Cholera", and I always didn't understand the reason why it was passed on to the world, and I want to read the original text to understand its connotation.
There are also abundant resources in the treasury of foreign literature, and we should open up colonies and learn at least one foreign language, so that we can understand the charm of the books, after all, the translated books will always lose some of the original flavor.
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1. My first sentence is very common, that is, there are two elements of reading: the first is to be proficient, and the second is to be broad.
2. I think that there must be four to read, which are "eyes, mouth, heart, and hands".
3. Although we do not advocate endorsement now, there are several types of books that still need to be read by familiarity; For example, beloved poems, such as wonderful articles, read more familiarly, and have a good influence on your own works.
4. What is the meaning of each chapter, sentence and word? Why? So thoughtful.
3) Sometimes it is necessary to refer to it, and sometimes it is necessary to integrate it in order to understand.
5. It is not enough to read by eyes, mouths, and hearts; Those who have to return it have to do it themselves, so that they can get stupid and ruined.
6. If you have to read any book, it is a doctorate. The ancients said: "Open the book is beneficial", and I also advocate this meaning, so it is said that the first thing to read is to be fine, and the second is to be broad.
7. To learn to be like a pyramid, to be able to be broad or high.
8. Reading can certainly expand knowledge; But the more knowledge you expand, the greater your ability to read. This is the meaning of "reading for the sake of reading".
9. There is no shortcut to reading, and there is no easy and labor-saving way to speak of. The habit of reading can be divided into three points: one is diligence, the second is prudence, and the third is humility.
10. There are three important ways to understand books: (1) Love books, treat books as beloved things, and love money just like Scrooge. (2) Reading, reading all the time, and continuing to read.
Only by reading can you understand books. At the very least, you should also see it often. (3) Open up more ways to survive.
If there are more ways to live, it will naturally be lively.
11. We can say: "All books are historical materials. ”
12. To become a kind of scientific knowledge, there must be a system, and it is by no means some fragmented knowledge.
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