How does a mother s cultivation manifest itself in her child?

The mother is the closest person in the child's life, and it is said that the mother can tell what the child will be like, and most of the characteristics of the child are inherited from the mother. <>

1. The child's appearance.

In the past two days, I have done an English reading, which is about the influence of mothers on children. One of them is that if the mother is an impetuous and irritable person, it will affect the child's diet, and thus affect their appearance and longevity. For example, when the mother is upset, she doesn't want to cook, and when the child is hungry, she will bring the child some snacks such as potato chips for the child to eat.

In the long run, eating too much fried food and not eating well will make the child lack nutrition, and because of eating too much fast food, the child will slowly gain weight, and after a long time, you will find that the child is fat and looks bad.

Second, the child's speech and behavior.

Walking on the street, you can see that many children's behavior is a copy of their parents, and they feel that what their parents do is right before forming their own understanding and opinion, so they consciously imitate it. If the mother is a generous person, the child will also be a person who likes to share, the mother is a civilized and polite person, and the child will correspondingly become a polite child, the mother is thrifty and housekeeping, and the child will not be extravagant and wasteful. This is what we usually talk about the influence of family background on a person, children born in performing arts families may have better acting talents, and born into ** families may be more sensitive to **.

So you can tell what kind of mother a child has from how she talks and behaves.

3. The child's personality traits.

Some qualities of the mother will greatly affect the child's personality, because the mother's life status will become a standard in the child's mind. A strong and brave mother will educate a child who is not afraid of difficulties and has the courage to move forward, an optimistic mother will educate a child who is full of yearning for life and expectations for the future, and a calm and calm parent will educate a child who is calm and calm in the face of trouble.

From a child's behavior can not only reflect the mother's cultivation, but also reflect the family's cultivation, so now many bear children are not bears, but parent bears, which is the most terrible.

First of all, a child knows when to make trouble and when not to be quiet, which can best experience the cultivation of mothers. Because mothers, as girls, mostly like to be quiet, naturally if she can give her habit of being quiet to her children, it will be able to reflect the cultivation of grandma. And a child who can be quiet at the right time is very likable, and it can show that the child is educated.

The second is to love to be clean, because mothers love to be clean as girls, not to mention being particularly particular but at least cleaning up themselves and their children. If the child knows what can be touched, what is dirty, knows to pay attention to personal hygiene, and washes his hands before and after eating, I will think that this must be taught by his mother, and this mother must be very cultivated, so that she can teach her children so well.

In the end, because I have seen many children, especially girls, do not have the appearance of a girl, I feel that my mother's education is very important, and if my mother wants to educate her children well, she needs her mother's own cultivation, so that she can lead by example. So many times what kind of children have what kind of parents behind them, because the best and earliest teachers that children contact are parents, especially mothers, mothers are the closest people from birth to later lactation, and mother's words and deeds directly affect children, so mothers must set an example.

As a crucial role in family education, mothers have a really great influence on their children. Many times, we feel that there are shortcomings in our children, but in fact, we don't know that children are our own mirrors, and we also have these shortcomings. The so-called teaching by word and deed, there is probably a way to learn from it!

I'm a very impatient mom who loves to lose everything. So under my influence, my children also became impatient, and things were thrown everywhere. When I was in school, I always forgot to take my Chinese textbook today and my math homework tomorrow.

For this reason, my child and I were always criticized by the child's teacher. When I got home, I started educating my children, and once or twice a day I told me to pack up my homework and textbooks, but to no avail. The habit of losing children still can't be changed.

I finally figured out that the ultimate root of this shortcoming lies in me, so I am ready to correct my shortcomings and hope that my children will also correct them.

Another typical example of our family is one of my aunts. Her personality is very gentle, every time she speaks, she speaks softly, she doesn't speak here and there with a smile first, which makes people get along with her like a spring breeze. is such a mother, and the three children she has raised are as polite and gentle as her.

I finally understood that a mother's cultivation has a really great impact on her children.

One time I went back to my mother's house, and I happened to see my mother losing her temper with my brother, and it was really a yelling mother. Suddenly, I saw my own shadow, and I finally knew how my yelling shortcomings had formed. I think that in order for our children to be better, as mothers, we must first improve our self-cultivation.

In many cases, we can see such a situation, that is, if a parent cultivates well, then his child's cultivation is bound to be not bad, and if the parent's cultivation is poor, then the child's cultivation is likely to be bad, so the parent's cultivation can really affect the child to a certain extent, treat the same thing, what the parents do may the child will also learn their behavior to do, so the influence of parents on the child is unfathomable, and as an elder, We should set an example and set a good example for our children, and never bring our own bad habits to a child. <>

Just like when my sister and I went out to eat before, I saw such a mother and daughter, when the two of them were eating, the child deliberately threw all the chopsticks in the restaurant to the ground, and the boss asked them to pick them up, because the whole box was on the ground, and the boss was a little busy at the time, and they got things to the ground, so it was normal for them to pick them up, but what I didn't expect was that the child's mother continued to eat his things as if she didn't hear it, and didn't pick it up. So at that time, the boss was very angry when he saw this scene, he felt that the child was ignorant, but he didn't expect adults to be like this, and it was because the child's mother was not cultivated well that she would teach the child to throw other people's things.

In fact, there are many similar things in our lives, most children do not understand many things because they are young, so they will generally follow the behavior of adults to do, and in this way, the words and deeds of the parents directly affect the child, and all the behavior of the child also reflects the cultivation of his parents, so if you want to let your children cultivate well, you must set an example and teach by example.

It reflects a child's character, character and behavior. Children don't understand anything, which is a good stage for learning and imitation. One is the child's character, how to do things.

A lot of the time it comes from the imitation of the mother. If the mother is the kind of self-cultivation and good conduct, then the child will be mostly a well-behaved and good child under the influence of the mother. As the saying goes, if a mother's own cultivation fails, then her children often have similar qualities to her mother.

So many times, the child's personality can be seen in a mother's cultivation. <>

Generally speaking, the school is mainly responsible for educating the child in the learning aspect, and the child's character is educated by the parents. Especially mothers, because fathers are stricter, children are more clingy to mothers. So many times, some of the child's behavior habits are imitations of the mother.

Therefore, the mother's cultivation behavior is very important to the child's education.

I have a relative's family, and my uncle died when I was very young, so my cousins and cousins are all taken care of by my aunt. But it's because my aunt educates the children alone, so my cousins and cousins don't have very good character. Because my aunt is a greedy person, selfish, and likes to speak ill of others behind her back.

So usually cousins and cousins make mistakes, and other people's parents come to the door. Arithmetic is usually not done to educate cousins and cousins. Instead, he scolded other people's parents, like a shrew scolding the street.

And teach them how to bully other children. Children are not educated when they think about it, and they can't change it when they grow up. So now cousins, cousins have nothing to do all day and cause trouble everywhere.

I think that a child's character is the expression of a mother's cultivation.