What do you think of the high requirements for post 90s women to choose a mate?

As far as my personal feeling is concerned, when a girl says something about standards and requirements such as "having a car and a house", it is really just a casual talk, or a good wish. Most girls are emotional, and when they don't meet someone who is destined, they will set a standard for themselves, which is actually the same meaning as "making a wish", just a good wish. But if you really meet the right one, the right eye, and the right feeling, in fact, these standards such as a house and a car, you don't care.

As far as I'm concerned, it's because of the poison of the brain-dead Mary Sue drama. The brain-dead drama is standard with a rich and handsome male protagonist stalking and beating the little white heroine, and the ignorant girls who can't figure out the reality can't recognize their own level on the one hand, and on the other hand, they fantasize about who is blind and waiting for an accident to come. It's a pity that life is not an idol drama, and it doesn't have the spirit of chasing and fighting like Xiangqin, and I thought that the first choice like Naoki would be sent to the door by itself.

Because now women are getting better and better, talking to university professors about the imbalance between men and women, a few teachers recruit graduate students, five or six people, and there is only one male student.

Nowadays, women only look at their best friend's boyfriend whether they are excellent or not, if others find it well, then they will find a better one, that is to say, upward transformation, the reality is definitely realistic, and everyone who is excellent wants it, but there are some points x number.

Society is progressing, the overall ability and quality of women are also improving, except for some women who will care for the weak out of motherhood, most women are more likely to be attracted to objects that are stronger than themselves. So the requirements are also relatively high.

Most of them are influenced by the family environment, the eyes of the people around them, and they are at an awkward age, and they naturally can't take a step forward when they think about more problems. Especially girls who have never been in a relationship before, have no experience and don't know how to start. However, the more I haven't talked about it, the more I want to find someone who is suitable in all aspects, and someone who can handle it, so the standards become more and more demanding.

This is normal, because under the traditional custom in the country, if girls and boys have the same income, the standard of living of women is much higher than that of men. Therefore, their mate selection conditions will be inflated.

The social interface is narrow. Nowadays, many girls are very homely, it is difficult to meet new friends in a small circle, and they can't understand new things, so their vision is limited, and they can only form the so-called view of mate selection through some better quantitative standards, which can actually be equated with no view of mate selection.

I think that because the cost of living is getting higher and higher, and at the same time, in the social context of women's status and self-ability, the corresponding requirements and expectations for life will also increase.

Because men earn 10,000 a month, and women earn 2,000 a month is the same quality of life, so they don't match each other.

Society has changed, and women are much stronger now than they were in the past.

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