How can you tell your feelings from the way you speak?

Love period: will take the initiative to contact each other, not seeing each other for a day, as if every other autumn. Men and women in love want to be together all the time, as long as they are with each other, everything is meaningful, if you are angry, he will coax you, when he is sick, you will take care of him.

Both men and women in love are more likely to talk sweetly. The salutations are sweeter.

Maturity: Naturally cares about you; I'm very concerned about your little situation. It won't be perfunctory, and the words won't be frivolous.

will care about each other silently, and occasionally romantic, but not very often, very deliberately. It's two people who don't say anything and know what the other needs is.

Decline period: Be cautious of each other in front of him, for fear that if one of them is not careful, the two will quarrel again. and what he used to do, he became disgusted in his eyes, and there was always a kind of disgust in his words, so this relationship probably couldn't be maintained.

Generally, when dealing with strangers or people who are not very familiar with us, we will be more polite, and there will be a sense of alienation between words, and when we treat people who are more familiar with us or have a particularly good relationship, we will speak a lot more easily, and even make fun of each other, which is generally a better feeling.

Let's say your boyfriend comes to your birthday party and you expect him to give you a necklace, but he gives you a watch.

If you say why send me a watch, I love necklaces very much. In this way, your boyfriend will be very embarrassed and will make him very uncomfortable. If you say that I like this watch very much, thank you for the gift you have prepared for me, then you will have a happier life.

So if you can't speak in a relationship, you're going to make what was supposed to be a very good thing a bad thing. That will make the two of you unhappy and prone to more conflicts. It is not possible for you to make your relationship stronger.

Of course, it is very important, because being able to speak means that we are trying to find a way to make the other person in the most relaxed and happy state in this relationship. Because whether you can speak or not indicates whether both parties in the relationship can be happy together.

Sometimes, if you don't speak, you will say something that you care about the other person very much, but you will say something different, and the relationship between yourself and the other person will deteriorate. Therefore, learning to speak in a relationship means that we go through what we want to say in our minds, and then think about how to say it to our other half, so that we can not only express our love for another person, but also completely let the other person know what we think.

We know that speaking is to let our other half not only feel like a spring breeze, but also increase the relationship between ourselves and our other half. Our feelings are constantly developing in this way, and our feelings are constantly advancing.

Speaking is arguably the most basic and effective way of communication between people. Speaking is an art, but it is also true that the saying comes from the mouth.

Many lovers start out as friends, and when we become friends, we think about what the other person wants to listen to and what they don't want to listen.

When we talk to them, we will deliberately pay attention to the deep tone of our words, pay attention to the wording of each sentence, and think about it before expressing it.

So the chats between us are always pleasant, happy, and we are willing to stay with each other. But since we confirmed that it was a romantic relationship, we felt that the other party was our own.

The other party should not have their own thoughts and behaviors, and they will begin to become self-centered in their speech, and they will do everything their own way, which is very disrespectful to the other person's feelings.

When they quarrel, they are even open-mouthed, and sometimes they curse each other to death when they are serious, which is very sad.

Therefore, we must also pay attention when we are in love, we must not be willful, and we must consider the feelings of the other party according to what we want to say according to our own hearts, so that we can be comfortable in love.

It's very important, to be honest, there are a lot of problems, as long as you can talk, you can solve everything. For example, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

As a daughter-in-law, you don't need to pay much money or pay for it, as long as you can say something heartwarming, your mother-in-law will also like you. As a mother-in-law, as long as you don't pose as an adult, instruct the younger generations to do this and that, and let the young people live a good life on their own, there will be nothing. As a man, don't look at the problem from someone's point of view, learn to comfort the hearts of two women, so that there are no problems, how can there be so many family disputes.

The same is true for lovers, you must know how to speak.

There is a lyric that sings well, love is said out loud, which proves that even if we love each other again, we must express our feelings, so that the other party can feel it, so in the relationship, we must learn to speak, learn to express, learn to communicate with each other, whether it is to coax each other to be happy, or to admit mistakes to each other, we need to express ourselves by speaking, so two people must have high emotional intelligence in getting along, and learn to communicate well with each other, so that the relationship will go on happily.