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For many married couples, there are often some quarrels and bumps in daily life, which is often normal. However, many people often complain that the other party hates each other when they quarrel or face conflicts. But if two people quarrel all their lives, and suddenly the other person leaves first, is the rest of the people truly relieved or the beginning of pain?

OneThe rest are miserable

In fact, not all husband and wife quarrels will hurt feelingsIt is very normal for most couples to be noisy and quarrelsome throughout their lives. And the older I get, the more noisy and noisy it becomes. It's also a kind of spice in lifeAnd such a couple when one of them really goes first, thenForIt's really a pain on the other side

For example, my grandfather and my grandmother. Even when the two of them are seventy or eighty years old, they still quarrel with each other and dislike each other, but when the grandmother left, the grandfather suddenly became silent. You must know that my grandfather used to be a very poor old man, and he often liked to make all kinds of jokes with his family, but these have not appeared since my grandmother left.

I think it should be a pain in the face for my grandfather.

IIThe rest is a relief

However, life and marriage are not always smooth sailingSome people often really hate each other in marriage. But due to various family problems or other reasons, there is no way for two people to divorce, so it has been dragged on for a lifetime. When the other side leaves, it is really a complete relief for the remainderIt's like our neighbors.

An old couple, the old man often drank heavily and beat and scolded people when he was young. Even when the old man reaches the age of 70, he still commits domestic violence against his wife after drinking. Later, the old man died because of drinking, and his wife did not have any pain, but the whole person's living and mental state were getting better and better.

So to sum up the above,Although couples with good feelings have quarreled for a lifetime, as long as one party goes first, it is a pain for the remaining one, but for couples without feelings, the other party goes first is the beginning of real liberation.

I don't believe that there will be no emotion in my life, and the noisy and noisy days will be more fulfilling, leaving only more loneliness and loneliness.

Of course, it is pain, noisy and noisy for a lifetime, beating is love and scolding, and it will be very uncomfortable to lose it after getting used to a way of life.

I think it's a relief! Because I have been arguing for so long, I can finally stop arguing and be clean alone.

It is very painful for those who are sure to leave later, because they have been with each other for so long, and those who go first generally have no thoughts to think about it, and the one who stays has to accept the loneliness of life.

The pain of walking backwards, the older the person who goes, the more likely he is to be sad, and he will recall the past by himself and recall the bits and pieces of the past, so the person who walks backwards is more painful.

I think it should be the first to go happier, if two people love each other, the one who goes later will miss the one who goes first,

Of course, it is the pain of walking backwards, because it will be very painful to leave yourself alone in this world, without a companion and no one to take care of you.

It is the pain of leaving behind, because the people who stay have no hope of life, and there is no one to accompany them, so there will be a strong sense of loneliness.

Of course, it is the pain of going backwards, because two people have been with each other for decades, and this person leaves suddenly, which makes the other half unacceptable.

After walking the pain. Because those who stay will be very lonely and lonely, and their children are not around, they will suddenly become a person, which will be a little uncomfortable.

After walking the pain. Because the person who left behind is not accompanied by his wife, he is very lonely, so it will be very painful.

Of course, it is so painful to go back, because the other half who has been with me for many years dies suddenly, and the living person is the most painful.

There is a saying: A woman's life is good before her husband dies.

When the husband and wife reach an older age, if one of them dies first, in fact, the living person is often more painful. After all, they are old husbands and wives, and the relationship between the two people is relatively deep. If one party leaves suddenly, and the other lives in the world, you can feel that the departure of your wife makes you very painful.

Old husbands and wives, if one of them dies, the future life will make the living feel lonely.

If the relationship between husband and wife is very deep, no matter who goes first, both husband and wife will be painful. Although the person who left the world first did not feel anything after he died, but at the moment of leaving, because he wanted to leave forever, he would not see his wife in the future, and the inner struggle of the old man who passed away first was extremely painful. Husband and wife have been together for a long time, and they have a kind of spiritual dependence.

If this dependence is to leave all of a sudden, it will inevitably be painful.

Whether the husband dies first or the wife dies first, in fact, both of them are very painful. It's just that the pain of the person who died first cannot be seen, but the pain of the old man who is alive can be seen. Therefore, most people generally believe that when the elderly reach a certain age, one party will leave first, and the other party will live to experience the pain of longing.

Between husband and wife, when an old man is about to pass away, the pain between each other is the most uncomfortable in the final moment of separation. At that moment, two people who have lived for most of their lives are about to be separated, and the pain is unimaginable. Therefore, when one of the elderly couples dies, the pain coexists.

After the husband and wife reach old age together, which is more painful, the one who leaves first or the one who leaves last?

Loneliness is the norm in life, and no one can accompany anyone through this life. Even if you are a husband and wife, you can only accompany you for a while, but you can't walk the whole way, and you still need to walk the rest of the way by yourself.

In fact, as long as you love each other, everyone will suffer! Those who go first bear the pain of illness and parting, and those who live bear the pain of worry and longing for the rest of their lives!

I can't feel this until I'm old, and what I'm talking about now is all imagination.

The one left behind is the most painful, thinking about each other all day long.

I feel that the one who left last was the most painful, after all, I lived by memories.

I think the other one must be painful, although it has been noisy for a lifetime, but both people have love in their hearts, and it will definitely be sad to leave this world alone.

I'm really miserable, because although the two of them are arguing every day, they still care about each other's people very much, and when the other party leaves, they will feel very empty and uncomfortable.

Being able to quarrel for a lifetime and still be together, that's true love, I think it should be painful, and suddenly there is one less person who quarrels with me, and it may be even more painful than ordinary couples.

It's pain, as far as my grandmother and grandfather are concerned, they quarreled all their lives, and the relationship they quarreled with, and then my grandfather fell ill and died, and my grandmother was very painful, and it took a long time to come out.

I think it's painful, because after all, after being together for so long, there are still feelings, and I feel uncomfortable when I leave suddenly.

Suffering. The quarrel between two people is also a way to show affection, and suddenly someone is gone, it will be very lonely and painful.

No matter who you get along with, there will be conflicts, and the same is true for bumps and bumps between partners. The family affection in getting along is also increasing day by day. When this emotion is lost, loss and loneliness follow. It's not so much about liberation as it's about loss.

In fact, the other one must feel special pain, because after a lifetime of quarreling, he has become accustomed to the existence of the other party, and if the other party leaves suddenly, then he will also make himself very lonely.

I think there will be a little more pain. Take my parents as an example, since they got married, they have been getting along with each other a little bit a day, a big quarrel every three days, but they actually love each other very much, and they will be very worried about each other's physical condition, maybe this is also a kind of love.

After arguing all his life but not getting divorced, it means that there is still a reason to continue living. And suddenly one party leaves, it must be reluctant and unaccustomed. Although I have quarreled all my life, I must still have feelings!

Husband and wife have quarreled for a lifetime, and one day suddenly leaves, it depends on whether there is love or hatred between the two, if it is love, it is pain, if it is hatred, it is relief.

Cherish the time together and don't hurt each other. At critical moments, the person closest to you is your strongest support. Being kind to others is a virtue, and being kind to your loved ones is fundamental.

Quarrels have become their unique way of communicating.

If the couple does not have problems in principle, of course painful.

See if it's a real quarrel or a fake quarrel, a real quarrel is relief, and a fake quarrel is pain.

At first it was pain, then it was relief, and then it was pain.

It's pain, because there is no one to quarrel with him anymore, and there will be a sudden loss in my heart, and I will feel pain.

Husband and wife have quarreled for a lifetime, and one suddenly left one one day, and the other is of course painful, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel with each other, and those who can live a lifetime with a quarrel indicate true love.

It should be very painful, although it is noisy, but it also has deep feelings, and of course it will be painful.

Probably both!

Let me tell you a true thing, I have a friend, a rabbit, just turned seventy this year, her wife died five years ago, her wife is a year younger than her, she is a dragon, they have two daughters, these two have quarreled all their lives, and they went to the office to open a divorce certificate when they were interested!

When they first met, the man was a worker arranged by the educated youth, the woman was a temporary worker, and then the field did not need temporary workers, the woman in order not to be dismissed, hurriedly married the man, the man was cheerful and short-tempered, and the woman was introverted and a little lonely, it stands to reason that they can complement each other, but on the contrary, after two or three years of good life, they began to quarrel, and the big one did it!

When my wife was alive, I persuaded them a few times, and then my wife died, and the couple was not bad and helped me a lot, so we became good friends who talked about everything!

In the nineties, the two of us went to fortune telling together, and the fortune teller told her that after forty-two couples would not quarrel, but after forty-two quarrels were more fierce, and finally no quarrel, each had its own way, I persuaded my friends many times, old to rely on children are not good, but also rely on the wife, after a friend was sick once, I realized some truth, and slowly the relationship between husband and wife improved, and then the man retired, the two relationships reconciled, just at this time, the man died of a sudden heart attack, not even a word left, just left!

I thought my friends wouldn't be too sad, they quarreled all their lives, the two ends combined, good less than five years, who knew that she cried all day long, when my wife died, I cried, she scolded me, I can't live without a man, she told me that her wife went back to her parents' house to live for a few days, she couldn't wait, she was very happy at home!

After her wife died, I took back what she said, and she said in tears, can this be the same?

It took her more than a year to come out of her grief, and I don't know what was going on in her heart! But she was really sad!

It's both. It's true that people can't quarrel anymore after they're gone, it's a relief, but in fact, there are still feelings, and to a certain extent, it's still painful.

The other will feel very painful. Although the husband and wife have quarreled all their lives, both parties still have feelings and are accustomed to each other's presence. If one of them suddenly leaves one day, the other will be very uncomfortable, and it will feel as if something is missing, and it will feel very painful.

I think it's a pain. Because the two have quarreled for a lifetime, the relationship is very deep. When one person goes, it must be painful for the other.

It should be painful, even if you quarrel for a lifetime, it is also the person who has accompanied you all your life, and you have developed the habit of having him with you, when that person suddenly leaves, you will become lonely, you will become a person who no one cares about, no one to talk to, so it will be painful.

I think it should be a relief, just like my parents are now, their way of getting along is a small quarrel a day, a big quarrel every three days, and they often hate each other. In order to reduce the number of times they meet, they all consciously sleep in separate rooms.

I think it's a pain. Because the husband and wife have quarreled all their lives, this is the display of love between two people. Suddenly a person is gone, and it will definitely bring pain to the other person.

I think it must be a pain because the people closest to me are gone.