My parents are divorced due to a broken relationship, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-17
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The relationship between parents is broken and disagreeable, and as children, we should act as intermediaries to ease the relationship between them. Because your parents are your dearest and most beloved people in the world, there is no one. Their happiness is your happiness.

    If they get divorced, I believe you don't have a good feeling in your heart, and you won't be happy.

    There is no parent who does not love their child, even after divorce. But any parents who have a little affection for their children, even if they remarry and start a new family in the future, they will not forget you. So, rest assured, you haven't lost your parents, it's just that they won't live together in the future, that's all.

    I believe that the happiness of the family is what you really want to see.

    Be open to your parents' feelings. Parents have their own way of life. The divorce of parents is indeed difficult for children to accept for a while, but the parents are adults, and now they divorced after three years of cold war, which shows that they really can't live together, and they decided to divorce after careful consideration.

    Who says divorce? This decision is probably the best option for both of them. Probably in the future, they will live happier than they are now.

    If you want to say what you should do, it can only make you adjust your mentality and look away, because instead of them being unhappy with each other like this, it is better to choose to let go, because a red book is bluntly involved together will not be happy, as a child, you should actually understand. My mother told me that only when I really get the divorce certificate can I be truly liberated, although I can't understand it, but I still bless my parents in my heart, because I am not happy together, so I don't get entangled, sometimes the long pain is better than the short pain, and the knife is quick to cut the mess. Just ask you if you love your parents?

    If you love, please respect their choice, remember, no matter what, in fact, your dad is still your dad, your mom is still your mom, although they no longer live together, but the essence has not changed, so the relationship between parents cannot be forced, don't hold on. Let them live their own lives and their own way of life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My parents' relationship is usually very good, but when I was in high school, my parents had a big quarrel over some trivial things and almost ended the marriage.

    I remember that I was on the eve of the college entrance examination, and I was very nervous about studying, and I had to take one day off every month, and I had to throw out half a day to take the car during this day of vacation, and the remaining half a day was enough to eat and sleep at home. It happened to be our holiday, so I packed up in the dormitory early and got on the bus home.

    After two hours of bus work, I finally got home, and as soon as I opened the door, I heard my parents arguing in the bedroom, and I was even more irritable because I was irritable about studying. <>

    After putting down my luggage, I pushed open the bedroom door of my parents, and saw that my father was arguing with my mother, and my father was angry and hit my mother, so in front of me, when my mother saw me come in, she couldn't hold back anymore, crying and hugging me, I glared at my father fiercely, and helped my mother into my room. I watched my mother cry, and my heart was also very uncomfortable, and I began to blame myself, why didn't I talk to my father and mother before, and why did I make the relationship between my father and mother more vicious.

    My mother hugged me and said that I didn't want to live in this house anymore, I was very sad and ran to my father to ask, why did you do this, why did you beat your mother, isn't your mother for your good, not for this family? Now that my mother doesn't want to live, I don't have the heart to study, so I might as well go to work outside.

    After saying this, his father also felt a sense of guilt, after all, his mother also did not let him play cards for his own good, and then he went to his mother to apologize. My mother also forgave him with my persuasion. It's a family, so why bother with each other!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If your parents are really unhappy, you can persuade them to divorce peacefully, so that they can get together and find their own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Rest assured, you will also get married and have your own family in the future, don't care about your parents, don't interfere, just do your own work, parents are together or not, you need to work and study, start a family, this does not delay your personal choice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whether zero foreshadowing is true or false, first of all, think clearly. You can persuade and persuade them first, if you can get together, it's fine, if you can't get together, you can leave. It's easy to leave everyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The relationship between your parents has broken down and you are divorced, in fact, you have no good way, you have to consider, are you with your father or with your mother?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should persuade them well, and it is better not to leave.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, persuade them not to divorce them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Legal analysis: When parents divorce, if there is still affection between the parents, maintain a certain degree of neutrality, and do not persuade them to leave if they can persuade peace. If the relationship between the parents has broken down and can only accept the fact of divorce, you can consider which parent is better to live with, and if you are over eight years old, you can choose which one to live with.

    Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

    After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

    Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

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