What is the famous book The Weakness of Human Nature about?

Recently, I revisited Dale Carnegie's book "The Weakness of Human Nature", and I felt a lot of emotion. Reading this book repeatedly, carefully discerning and understanding the author's intentions, you will find that this book is like a mirror that can illuminate our own life path, so that we can finally improve ourselves, control ourselves, and guide us to become a strong person in life.

In the third part of the book, Dale Carnegie says that how to win the approval of others for your ideas is to remember one rule: understand the thoughts and desires of others. Compassion, patience and kindness, putting oneself in the shoes of others is one of the best qualities of a person, and it is a necessary condition for making true friends in life.

Dale Carnegie wrote, "The first step to personal maturity is the courage to take responsibility." "It's like life and it's like work.

Everyone needs to assume social responsibility in life, and in the work, they need to bear the consequences of their own behavior, a person's ability may be high or low, but if it is a serious and responsible person, it will be respected by others and recognized by the team and the collective. On the contrary, an irresponsible person will bring irreparable losses to the team and the collective. Always remind yourself to stick to your beliefs, maintain your true colors, face different people in the right way, solve different problems, be flexible and stick to principles, but never forget what the goal is to achieve.

I believe that there are many people who do not feel how important interpersonal relationships are at first in life, but when you gradually step into the society, you will gradually appreciate the complexity of interpersonal relationships, maybe you have experienced unhappiness or even hostility, maybe you will face the confusion in life, wandering under the pressure of career and family, you think that this is the true face of life, in fact, recognize the weaknesses of human nature, understand the nature of human nature, create harmonious interpersonal relationships, improve yourself better with a positive attitude, and re-examine your work and life. You will have a brighter life.

This book allows us to recognize the weaknesses in human nature, and when we do things, we must target these weaknesses, we will get twice the result with half the effort, and it will be successful, and it is a book that teaches us to learn to use weaknesses to help us achieve our goals, which is very practical.

This book is about several rules to pay attention to in life, we must believe in ourselves.

It should be the weaknesses and shortcomings of each of us, and at the same time, let us recognize the characteristics of each person, so that we can understand human beings better.

I've read the ingenuity and repentance of human nature, and this book has made me break through my cognition.

This book is like a tool, and if you master these skills, it will be very easy to get along with people. Dale Carnegie inspired people to succeed through his unique perspective on human nature.

What you think is not who you really are; It's what you think, what kind of person you are.

Ninety-nine percent of the time, no matter how big the mistake is, people don't blame themselves.

The more complacent people are, the more Xiaozhen loves to hide, and the more painful things are, the more they love to make a fuss.

When dealing with people, it is important to remember that we are not dealing with rational creatures, but people who are full of feelings, with prejudice, arrogance and vanity.

This book is refreshing. There are very few writings that present their views in an approachable tone. It can be seen that the author is indeed a master of interpersonal relationships. The book is clear and concise.

"The Weakness of Human Nature" takes the general weaknesses of human nature as the starting point, and covers many aspects such as interpersonal communication, mentality adjustment, maintaining family, arranging work and rational use of money. In the book, Carnegie provides readers with ways to get along with others, how to gain the approval of others, how to avoid human weaknesses, how to overcome human weaknesses, and proposes effective strategies for dealing with each type of weakness.

The facts are mainly argumentative and the language is capable, and there are many famous sentences. Personally, I feel that Lao Tzu's simple Taoist ideas are similar. After watching it, it makes people feel that the aftertaste is endless.

Each point of view can also make the reader relate to themselves, which is impressive. Personally, I feel that I have benefited a lot from watching it, but it is really difficult to achieve it with a contemptible state of mind.

Bringing together the best of Carnegie's thought and most exciting content, the book is the author's most successful inspirational classic, and immediately after its publication, it became a popular readership and became the most enduring humanities bestseller in the Western world. Countless readers have not only overcome their difficulties by reading and practicing the various methods introduced in the book, but have also become outstanding people admired by the world. As long as you continue to study this book, I believe you too can explore your infinite potential and create a brilliant life.

Today I started reading Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature", a book that I have admired for a long time, but I just didn't find the right opportunity to read it. In the morning, I flipped through the preface and read the preface, in which Carnegie said that 15 percent of human success comes from professional ability, and the other 85 percent comes from human engineering, that is, personality traits and leadership skills, that is, interpersonal skills. Carnegie had nine suggestions on how to get the most out of this book.

The main purpose of these nine pieces of advice is that we should apply what we have learned to our lives and change our lives.

The first piece of advice, Carnegie advised us to have a strong desire to learn and a strong determination to improve our interpersonal skills. That is to say, we have to have the desire and goal to improve our interpersonal skills, and we really want to improve. Because interpersonal skills determine our popularity, our well-being and our self-worth.

The second piece of advice: Carnegie suggested starting with a quick skimming of each chapter to get a general idea of the structure of the book. Then read it several more times. The purpose of this is to let yourself know what the book is about, know what is the main point, and then focus on reading.

The third piece of advice, Carnegie suggested stopping from time to time to think carefully about what you are reading, and how to translate these principles into action. Because knowledge is only knowing, while wisdom is practice, and only action can change life.

Fourth, Carnegie suggested marking what you think is important as you read so that you can review it. The advantage of this is that you can better apply important principles to your life.

The fifth piece of advice Carnegie suggested that after reading, you should review it regularly every month, and only by constantly reviewing and applying it actively can you turn the theory into a habit. Confucius said that this is the truth of reviewing the old and learning the new.

The sixth piece of advice, Carnegie suggested that we learn by doing, because people can never be taught, learning is an autonomous process, and all we have to do is to put it into action and apply these theoretical principles at every opportunity.

Seventh, Carnegie suggested that mastering these theories should be a little game, and that friends should give money whenever they caught us violating our principles. These can make use of others to monitor our actions.

Tip 8: Carnegie suggested reviewing every week whether you have made progress and asking yourself what mistakes you made, what improvements you made, and what lessons you learned. That is, to reflect on our actions every week, because what matters is not the experience, but how we understand and interpret it.

Carnegie's nine pieces of advice are all about the fact that this book is a guide to improving our interpersonal skills, and that we can only make a real difference in our lives by learning to apply theories and principles to our daily lives. The best way to get the future is to create it with your own hands. We can all use the theories and principles of this book to create a better world.

May you and I have it.