What are the rules for the man s inverted door, and what does it mean for the man to reverse?

There are no big rules.

It's the same as when a woman enters a man's house.

The biggest difference is that the child born has to take the woman's surname.

South inverted door. The woman put on new clothes for the man from head to toe, inside and out, and bought a necklace, a gold ring, and a watch for the man. Buy a car for the man.

What are the rules for the man to insert the door upside down? I think if the man inserts the door upside down, he is the son-in-law, there are no special rules, don't be too restrained when you are a family.

Is there any rule for the man to insert the door upside down There doesn't seem to be any rule That is, the child born must have a surname, and the woman's surname cannot be the man's surname.

In fact, there are a lot of rules for inverted doors in the south, but it is best not to directly insert the door upside down, otherwise it will be very faceless.

There are not many rules in the south, it is nothing more than which surname to have a child with in the future, as well as the division of property.

It's not clear what the rules are for the inverted door, because the rules are different in each place, and you should ask the local elderly.

The parents of both parties or the parents of the adoptive daughter are the most important.

What are the rules for the man's inverted door, and there are no rules for inverted door in this era, this is just, very early, very ancient. No matter what, I want my family to be happy anyway, that's why it's like this.

It's a new society now, and there are no special rules, as long as everyone is happy.

The man needs to obey the arrangement of others, so everything is very passive and he doesn't feel very comfortable.

Today's society is relatively open, although it is an inverted door, but life is still the same as before, there is no change, but living in a place closer to the woman's home.

Plugging the door means getting married. Marriage refers to the situation where men and women get married, and men go to the woman's family to marry and settle down. When a man goes to a woman's family and settles down, he has to follow the surname of the woman's family, which is called "inverted door", "the kid is incapable of changing his surname" and so on.

Marriage ceremonies are usually simple and not extravagant. However, there are also overseas Chinese or wealthy families, who first let the wealthy man come to live at home, and let the daughter live at the grandmother's house, and when the marriage is auspicious, there is still a sedan chair to the grandmother's house to greet the relatives, and the dowry and drum music accompany the family, and the family still arranges a queue for the newlyweds, and welcomes the bride with a warm cannon.

According to the ancient practice, kick the sedan car door, please get out of the sedan chair, lead the newlyweds to the hall to pay respects, the same drums and loud cannons shook the ground, feasted relatives, friends and guests, and covered up the form of the rich with a lively scene, so that the man married in a grand manner, and the daughter still sat in the sedan chair to "marry" as the bride.

The man's inverted door means that he gets married, and the inverted door is generally that the man's family conditions are not as good as the woman's family conditions, the woman is reluctant to have her children, the man's family has no initiative, the woman has the initiative to marry, and the child follows the woman's surname after marriage.

The inverted door in the south means that he is the son-in-law who comes to the door, and he may not be able to play a leading role in the family in the future, or he may not have the dignity of the head of the family, and many things may need to be arranged by the woman.

It is the door-to-door son-in-law, and the marriage is generally a woman's marriage to the man's family and the father's surname, if it is a door-to-door son-in-law, the man is married to the woman's family and the mother's surname! Generally, the wedding expenses of marriage are the man's family, the woman's family is out or less, and the door-to-door son-in-law is the woman's family, and the man is not out or less! That's about it!

The specific customs are subject to local customs!

The meaning of the inverted door is that the woman's family is very rich and there is no man, the point is that there is no man, and the man can choose to live in the woman's house after marriage, which is called.

It is the man who lives in the woman's house and marries like a daughter. He will live in the woman's house for the rest of his life.

Now it doesn't mean anything, young people are the sole owners after they get married, and they only go back to their parents' homes once when they have time.

I think that since the door is reversed, it is more necessary to give the other party enough confidence.

The simplest question is that if the woman marries into the man's family, if the two parties are normal, the woman can give birth to the child for the man, and the surname of the child is discussed separately. And no matter how much the man goes to the woman's house, no matter how he feels wronged, can the man have children? If so, what about your child's last name?

To put it mildly, it is: whether it is an inverted door or not, the man is not "productive". Best wishes!

Summary. The term inverted door originated in Chinese society, and was initially aimed at women who actively pursued men older than themselves, but designed language that was gender unequal. This phenomenon is becoming more and more common with the development of the Internet.

Especially on the Chinese web, the phenomenon became popular around 2000 and became more common with the development of social networks. The phenomenon of inverted doors was once very controversial, mainly because it violated the traditional concept of marriage and family ethics. The inverted door has attracted great social attention after being widely reported by many ** in Chinese mainland.

Some people believe that this kind of behavior has serious moral and social problems, and that it is one of the unshirkable responsibilities for the change of social climate. However, there are also voices pointing out that the occurrence of such behavior has a lot to do with the openness and pluralism of the new era, and should be viewed with an open and inclusive attitude. In 2018, the incident of three teenagers in Nantong, Jiangsu Province, who were suspected of jumping into the river and committing suicide by jumping into the river, attracted great attention.

In this incident, the three teenagers involved were all girls, which was called the "inverted door suicide incident", which also aroused social attention to the inverted door again at that time.

Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer for you: inverted door is a social phenomenon, which refers to the behavior of young women who usually take the initiative to confess and pursue older men who are not good at marriage, and older men usually have families and wives.

This kind of behavior has received widespread attention and criticism in society, and Chang Song believes that it not only violates social moral norms, but also has the potential to destroy the family, hurt the feelings of family members, and cause negative impacts.

The term inverted door originated in Chinese society, and it was aimed at women who actively pursued men older than themselves, but designed language that was gender unequal. This phenomenon is becoming more and more common with the development of the Internet. Especially on the Chinese web, the phenomenon became popular around 2000 and became more common with the development of social networks.

The phenomenon of inverted doors was once very controversial, mainly because it violated the traditional concept of marriage and family ethics. The inverted door has attracted great social attention after being widely reported by many ** in Chinese mainland. Some people believe that this kind of behavior has serious moral and social problems, and that it is one of the unshirkable responsibilities for the change of social climate.

However, there are also voices pointing out that the occurrence of such behavior has a lot to do with the openness and pluralism of the new era, and should be viewed with an open and inclusive attitude. In 2018, the incident of three teenagers in Nantong, Jiangsu Province, who were suspected of jumping into the river and committing suicide by jumping into the river, attracted great attention. In this incident, the three teenagers involved were all girls, and they were called "inverted door suicide" by the scattered brigade, which also aroused social attention to the inverted door again at that time.

I think if the two of you really love each other, and your parents agree with you being your son-in-law, then there's nothing wrong with a man going upside down. But be sure to take care of both parents in the future.

It is generally not good for men to plug in the door, and many sons-in-law who have no status in the woman's family, no dignity, no due respect, and are unhappy.

The inverted door is not a very ideal choice, the so-called "inverted door" son-in-law, that is, the man married into the woman's family, gave birth to a child with the woman's surname, the family was poor before, and there were many brothers in the family, generally a man would be plugged upside down, or there was only one woman in the woman's family, so the son-in-law was recruited, and the food and accommodation were in the woman's house, the woman did not want the bride price, so it was called a redundant, and now it is estimated that there is also an inverted door, generally less, but now it is the phenomenon of more men and fewer women, I don't know if the inverted door will increase, In fact, the days of plugging in the door are not good, just like the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it has always been a contradictory relationship, men must not be sons-in-law, it is not as easy as you think!

"Sons-in-law tend to have a lower status in the family. As a "reversed door" son-in-law, you have to work hard to play your role - all the previous habits have to be changed with the wife's family, shopping for vegetables, cooking, washing dishes, tidying up the house, ......These are sons-in-law's.

Many years ago in Beijing, there was a popular saying: how many girls from other places marry themselves for a house. Nowadays in Beijing, there is still a popular saying:

How many incompetent men have sold themselves for a house! Upside down the door, in the minds of the people, it is equivalent to a man's betrayal!

Speaking of the inverted son-in-law is not respected, it is the deep-rooted concept of marriage among the Chinese people: marrying a man and marrying a man, dressing and eating. When a man marries himself in order to dress and eat, it is not only a shame for him, maybe his wife will also be very faceless outside, you must know that every woman wants to marry a capable man!

Both men and women are afraid of the kind of men and women who marry for material purposes, and a man is willing to sacrifice his dignity to be a son-in-law, obviously, material purposes come first! A man who wants to eat "soft rice", whether it is the person who eats or the person who gives him food, his heart is like a rabbit, and he is uneasy.

Men must not be inverted sons-in-law, if you meet a difficult mother-in-law, then your hard life will begin, and it is impossible for your family to give a good look. They will feel that in such a traditional society, a man must have some purpose in order to endure such a strange humiliation. Even they will be doubly bad to him, men have no self-esteem and status in this family, and they have to speak in a low voice, even if they have ideas, they dare not express them, they can only obey!

The inverted door is also known as the "man who eats soft rice", I believe that not only is life uncomfortable, but also psychologically tortured, over time there will definitely be complaints and opinions, and even all kinds of complaints, not only will it affect the life of the couple, but also worse things will happen, men must not be sons-in-law, their lives are far more radical than the life of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!

Men slam the door upside down. Is it good, or is it bad? Think about it from myself. It's better to be in your own home. It's good to marry a daughter-in-law. The inverted door always feels unfree. This is not absolute either.

Nowadays, people's thinking has changed, and it was easy to be looked down upon when it came to inverted doors in the past, but now there are not so many words. As long as the husband and wife feel that it is suitable and the families of both parties feel that there is nothing wrong, then outsiders actually can't control it at all, and they don't have to care about other people's evaluations.

"Inverted door", also known as "in-house", formerly known as "door-to-door", refers to the hungry woman marrying the man, or the man joining the woman's family and settling down on the woman's side. After the man marries the woman, everything is the woman's, and the man needs to take care of the woman's parents at home, and the children born must follow the woman's surname. In some areas, the man needs to do some housework such as laundry and cooking at home, while the woman goes out to earn money or works in the fields, but this is relatively rare.

The most common is that the man's family with the inverted door is generally inferior to the woman's family, and the economic conditions of the woman's family are relatively wealthy, so there is a saying that the man is rich in this situation. In the eyes of outsiders, it is a man, as if he has no ability.

The real inverted door not only saves the trouble of the bride price in the wedding room. It also means that the man has no initiative in the marriage, he must obey the woman, and the child must follow the woman's surname. This is contrary to the statement that men are the heads of the family and the pillars of the family.

So in the man's opinion, it will feel very humiliating.

In the past, you must first have your wife love you very much, respect you, and support you. Then you have a reason to do the inverted door. Let's ask if Lao Zi even looks down on your only dearest wife.

Will you still be happy in that family? The second is not to have the feeling of inferiority in the first place. First of all, you must look up to yourself.

Put yourself on an equal footing with them. And also have enough patience and time. And work hard.

so that they can respect you. Don't rush it! Take it easy.

And in this era of marital autonomy, if two people are truly in love. The inverted door has long been an obstacle. And the child is the crystallization of the love of two people.

No matter who they are, they are all children of both husband and wife. Husbands and wives should remain on an equal footing during the marriage and work together to run a happy family. <>