How to educate children if parents have a low culture?

It is important to try to give your child a quiet learning environment. Some parents do not have a high level of education, do not realize how important a quiet learning environment is, after work invite colleagues to the home to rub mahjong, and some parents usually do not pay attention, after eating on the TV, from the news broadcast program has been watching, who knows that children in this environment can not calm down to study hard.

Parents should consciously create a good learning environment for their children, and if housing is tight, parents should try not to watch TV when their children are studying, so that children can study with peace of mind and not be distracted by TV programs. Families with conditions can arrange an independent study room for their children to study. Subscribe to newspapers, magazines and reference books that are suitable for children to read to expand their horizons and enrich their knowledge.

Parents must be open-minded, respect but not arrogant children, feel that they do not understand, communicate with people who understand, improve their knowledge, let go of small things, do not be confused about big things, adhere to the principles, establish a full sense of security for children, and also encourage children to learn from people who are better than themselves, read more, work harder, and be frank and self-reliant.

Many mothers with a low level of education always feel that their children's learning is not their own, so as soon as they see their children writing homework, they hide far away, for fear that their words and deeds will affect him, in fact, there is no need for this, children also need our enthusiastic support for homework. For example, creating a good learning environment for him, helping him prepare his own favorite learning tools, providing him with a talking reference book, or more simply, cooking his favorite meals, caring for his well-being, etc., these tasks are our support for the child's learning and help him relieve his worries.

First of all, it is worth affirming that mothers have a sense of education, which is more important than anything else. Generally speaking, in a family, if the mother can realize the importance of education, the children in this family will not be bad to the first, such as me, before my child is 1 year old, hug him more, accompany him, give the child a sense of security, play more nursery rhymes, Tang poems, is conducive to stimulating children's language ability, telling more classic stories, increasing interaction with children, more than 1 year old, telling children more classic picture books, stimulating children's interest in stories, and cultivating children's reading habits and concentration.

Parents have an open mind, can try their best to lead by example to cultivate their children's personality qualities, such as filial piety and love for relatives, such as good neighbors, such as integrity, principles and responsibilities, etc., these noble qualities are more children through the words and deeds of their parents, and the level of education has nothing to do with it, we have a relative in our family, husband and wife can be said to be illiterate, can be very good, a son and a daughter are also very well trained, the son went to college, worked in a state-owned enterprise, is already a department head, deeply trusted by colleagues.

For their children, we should look at their strengths and weaknesses rationally, recognize his interests, encourage him to learn to take care of himself, be self-reliant, and try his best to support his ideas in learning, and if he can't achieve his wishes, he should also look at the long-term as much as possible to overcome problems with him, all of which must have an optimistic attitude to do, so as to give children an optimistic attitude towards life from an early age, and an optimistic attitude is the best education.

As for cultural learning, it is enough to encourage children to learn more from teachers and make full use of existing resources, such as schools, teachers, classmates, libraries, etc., and secondly, extracurricular classes. When you encounter a problem, tell yourself and your children that there will always be a way to go, get used to facing the problem with a mindful attitude, and learn to ask people who are smarter than yourself. ‍‍

As long as the parents' three views are correct, they can also teach their children well, read more books on children's education, and exchange ideas with their children.

Ask the child's teacher or others, no matter who you ask, the purpose is to make the problem clear, we don't feel that it is a hindrance to face and refuse to ask shamelessly, ask to know whether it doesn't matter about these faces, learning knowledge is endless, we parents must have this kind of self-motivated spirit, children can be eager to learn and seek knowledge.

Learn with children, first of all, we have to read the child's textbook from beginning to end, and then make a summary, ask the child to do pre-class preview, the child does not understand the place to explain to the child, even if we explain it thoroughly enough, the child will take these questions to listen to the class will be open, the effect is very good.

It doesn't matter if the parent's culture is low, as long as the character is good, teach by word and deed, and let the child become a healthy and sunny person.

Sending children to a good school, if the conditions are good, you can ask a teacher to tutor the child, and at the same time tell the child some life principles, which is good.

Be supportive of your child. Give your child more opportunities to educate. Establish lofty ideals from an early age.

Low culture is not terrible, there are many parents who are illiterate children who have been admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, and the education of parents for their children is mainly ideological education.

Educating children is not about educating knowledge, but about the truth of life, and these have nothing to do with academic qualifications.

Parents want their children to become talents, but they actually think that this is also a normal thing, because many parents actually pin their hopes on their children. Parental education.

Very low, how to educate children correctly at this time?

As children get older, parents may also feel very struggling when tutoring their children's homework. Sometimes parents don't have a high level of education, so they can't tutor their children. At this time, parents are actually very worried, because they feel that they are not helping their children in any way, so many parents are just anxious.

In fact, parents can pass on a good learning attitude to their children, learning is actually a child's thing, regardless of whether parents have the ability to tutor their children, in the end it is up to the children themselves, so parents in this process, just need to educate their children well.

Parents are actually very strict with their children's requirements, but it is not recommended that everyone be too strict with their children's requirements, because at this time the child is also in the stage of development, and the child's playfulness is also very large, so parents can not always ask their children to learn all the time, and should be properly relaxed. In fact, it is also very helpful for the growth of children, parents can create a relaxed learning atmosphere for their children, so that children will be willing to learn, and will have a great interest in learning, so that it is also helpful for children's grades.

Although the education level is not high, I feel that parents still need to be patient when tutoring their children. Some parents will be very enthusiastic when they first start tutoring their children, but if their children ask frequent questions, parents will start to become impatient and even blame their children for being stupid. Therefore, parents must be patient, so that they can also educate their children correctly.

Your parents have a low level of education, and if you want to educate your children correctly, then we should still give your children a better understanding. Let the child become better.

When the education level is relatively low, you should educate your children to work harder, cultivate your children's interests, and you can enroll your children in cram schools.

Parents can tell their children how to learn, and they can also use the Internet to educate their children, and they can restrain their children's behavior, but do not interfere.

I think it is also very important for parents to teach their children the correct three views, so that their children can develop good three views.

If this is my case, I will choose not to interfere with my child's growth with the environment.

It doesn't matter if the parent's education level is low, as long as we can bring the right values to the child. It is okay to let children become upright, kind and brave children.

Although parents have a low level of education and want a correct education, children can do it, but sometimes the children who are educated by the more knowledgeable family are more rebellious.

Parents with a low level of education can learn from other people's methods of educating their children, and it will be better to educate their children.

Learn more about parenting, parents must restrain their behavior and lead by example!

Educating children is not a trivial matter, there is a good way of education to establish a good way for children to learn, but there are some parents with low education and culture do not know how to educate, resulting in unsatisfactory academic performance, education is not on paper, nor overnight, education is methodical, but many parents with low education ignore the importance of education, the use of blind, rough education methods, the result does not play a good role, but affects the development of children, Therefore, parents with low educational qualifications must pay attention when educating their children.

Don't beat or scold. Especially in rural families, many parents do not have a high level of education, once they find that their children make mistakes, parents will take abusive, beaten and other rough ways, which are not only easy to hurt the child's body, but also hurt the child's young mind.

It is necessary to attach importance to investment in education. First of all, it is necessary to put more thought into the child's education, many parents choose to work part-time, let the elderly take care of the child, as a result, the child is unsupervised, and the grades are getting worse and worse, so no matter how busy the parents are, they must also take time to supervise the child, take care of the child, and also invest a large amount of money, the teaching materials that the child needs must be purchased, if the child is found to be unable to keep up with the content of the class, parents can send the child to the training class to consolidate the learning, rather than reluctant to invest, there will be a return on the pay.

Learn to respect and understand your child. There are some parents who always teach their children with a lofty attitude, and the children do not listen at all, because they think that what the parents say is also problematic, so parents must realize that their educational background is low, but get along with their children in a more equal way, provide children with solid arms, and create a better learning environment.

Parents have to take responsibility for educating their children even if they have a low level of education, but the emphasis here will be a little different. We must reduce didactic education and influence children more with actions.

If the parent's education level is relatively low, then don't try to explain the truth to the child. Because they don't have much "ink" in their stomachs, they only know how to do some things, but they may not be able to say why they do it, which is the reason for the lack of cultural literacy. For example, parents are rude people but will teach their children to be polite, but if you ask him what children should be polite?

They may be stunned, or they may only hold back one sentence for a long time: those who are polite are good children, and the elders say so.

Fortunately, in family education, "truth" is not the most important thing, because children may not be able to understand it firstly, and secondly, they will not regulate their words and deeds according to these principles before the concept of right and wrong is formed. For example, parents often tell their children to study hard, but "hard work" is just an abstract concept for them, and children may not understand what it means. Even if parents explain that studying hard means spending more time and putting more effort into their homework, children don't really appreciate the importance of it.

Why would I do this? Can learning really change the future? I still think about it, it seems too far away.

Children have all kinds of ideas, but soon they refuse to think and focus only on the present life, which is also the result of thinking too young.

So try not to tell your child about the so-called big truths, especially when he is still very young, unless you can explain the truth in a simple and understandable way so that he can hear it at once. But due to the cultural level, many people can't do this, so it's better to give up completely at the beginning. The effect is even more pronounced when we tell the child what to do directly and avoid getting caught up in complex thoughts.

Although it is difficult for parents to directly transmit certain ideas to their children, they can regulate their children's behavior and habits through actions, so that they can also play the same role over time. For example, if parents want to teach their children to be polite, just let him learn how to greet strangers here, there is no need to talk about the so-called reason, and the reason is to put it bluntly, so that he can find the motivation to do it. Now the coercive force directly given by parents to the outside world is actually equivalent to achieving the goal.

After a long time, children will develop habits, which is because they will naturally understand the meaning of "politeness" as their cognitive level improves.

Therefore, if the parents have a low level of education, they should go directly to be a man of action. If you want to teach your child something, just tell him how to do it, and if you want him to stay away from a bad habit, just stop it and punish him. For children at this stage, it is much easier to directly correct words and deeds than to sway their thoughts.